Moloko I need to hear more...

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by cafrella on Thursday, January 26, 2006 and has 45 replies.
Hello subtlelioness, i find most not so subtle though, do you like to flatter yourself? are you full of yourself? cant quite understand somebody not going with your plans? do you play innocent and dumb when caught or asked for an explanation?
Lol, classic, you dont think you are bound to explanation, nobody said anybody is bound, but some decency and honesty is nice from certain Leos from time to time, why the two nicks? yes, what are you trying to hide?
Oh i forget myself, your dont do explanations, your a Lioness, we come and sit at your feet, im right aint it
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Good morning Moloko!
Please tell me more about Lions! I need to hear it!
Your honest opinion,give it to me straight! no beating around the bush!
Being a Leo, i'm not always proud of the way i act, react, talk... trust me I KNOW what's wrong with me!
but I'd like to hear it!
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Hi cafrella, how you doing?
Well not all, but many Leos are just too damn full of themselves, their cheeky, they lie, they take others for granted at times, they play dumb when it suits them too, they need to be the centre of attention, they cross the line too often from confidence to arrogance, and that is a very very fine line that seperates the two, they want people around when it suits them, they feel they are entitled to everything that they want in life, they are too sure of themselves, they can offend and embarass, they need to forget about themselves some times, not everyone things thei the dogs bollox as they tend to do, they are quick to offer you out for a fight of any sort if you corner them and if they feel your onto their bullshit but its mostly talk, i would take on any mofo lion or lioness giving it all that roaring yooha hit.
I hate to say this but in extremes i think i would take pride in taking down a leo off their high horse, probably by dragging them off and giving them a good kicking to their large, um very large egos, and show them that theres more to the world than them alone.
it replaced bull **** with bull butter, god thats so funny, lol
and hit = ****
I'm doing not so bad, things are warming up sloooowly between my litte crab & me! *grin* slowly but surely.
You know, I printed what you just wrote and i'm keeping it, so that everynow and then i can read it and perhaps... get off my high horse every now and then... some of these leos may not admit it, but i do, to myself at least and to some people, i'm not always proud how i act but hey! at least I know what are my faults, i SEE them and try to work on them!
Thank you for your honesty, you tell it like it is! really! I admire that!
and how about you? how have you been? things are still off with that Leo girlfriend of yours? Did she call you back at all?
they cross the line too often from confidence to arrogance, and that is a very very fine line that seperates the two..
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That's a very hard, tricky thing to do for Leos... to find that fine line!

replaced bull **** with bull butter, god thats so funny, lol
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yes that is soo funny! LOL
Hi Cafrella, of course the various things that i stated there are in only some Leos, i know your very nice and honest with people, i know theres plenty of amazing Leos out there, we all have our faults at the end of the day.
Im really happy that things are warming up for you, that brilliant. smile
Im fine thanks, and i have nothing to do with that Leo girl that i told you about, i made it clear to her that i was not to put up with her behaviour.
Im so pleased for you
I'm very nice.... I try, but THANK YOU! you're very sweet!
Yes things are warming up slowly... I'm happy and so is he i think, he wants things to go well i can tell... this little crab likes me quite a bit i think, sometimes i don't want to believe it but i truly believe he does, he's a sweety... like you moloko!
and you...?? you happy for me, but what about you!
We need to find you a sweetie pie of a girlfriend! really! you need it! someone warm, caring, sensitive to be there for you! not just whenever she feels like it! to be there for one another is important! I really hope that you find that sweetie pie soon! You need it!
Thank you, thats really nice of you, i guess if i stay open then a nice girl will enter my life.
Its good that your situation is going positively now, its been worth your hard work and patience on it.
You're welcome! Even though i have never seen you, no idea what you look like, we live so far away from each other... it;s funny but I think about you almost everyday! You're my far-away-friend!
Yes I'm very happy that we're talking, nothing was mentioned yet about this whole mess, fighting... but we are NICE to each other, i do nice little thoughtful things for him and without a word he knows, he sees it, and he does same thing for me... yet not a word is said... it's hard to explain... we communicate a lot without actually talking...
ANyhow, we have LOTS to clear up just the same and it scares me, it's discouraging a bit... don't know where to start... but i'll keep the faith... one day at a time
what keeps me going?! is the fact that communication or not, fighting or not... we both care about each other very much... Once we can have "the" talk... then things should go very well... it will be magical!

I HAD A QUESTION ABOUT A "SATURN TYPE" THAT SOMEONE ANSWERED SEE:
Can anyone out there tell me what this is...
i'm not very big on horoscope, and well some woman friend here at work brought me this horoscope book for 2006 and i read and WOW! it's freaky! I should try to type up just for you to read... maybe i will re-type for you so that you can read it! it's too freaky what it says! you'll have to give me a bit of time and i will type it up and then you tell me what you think!
OKAY?!!!!
I'll re type but just a small section obviously! you'll see!
Wow, thats really nice of you to say that, i feel ive gotten to know you a little so thats very nice.
Your right, theres definately something string between you both, yes, once you both have cleared the air properly it shall be wonderful.
string = strong
OK HERE IT IS its a small section:
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You seem more serious about love and commitment this year. For years you were very infatuated with glamour crowd. A run-of-the-mill kind of person, whaterver their virtues ? just didn?t interest you . But this year we see a bit of a change.
Your previous interests are still there, but a more stable type of person is coming into your life. This person might not be glamorous and is probably a good deal older than you, but they are dutiful and devoted. Perhaps this is a business person, a corporate type. But a doctor, health professional or colleague would also fit the bill. Though this person can seem over-controlling ? they feel that you need to get organized ? these things are coming from love and not from a need for power.
There?s nothing you need to do to attract this person, they are coming to you (it might have happened late last year too). you just need to show up.
It will be interesting to watch this relationship for you certainly have other romantic opportunities. None of them offers any stability though. Familly members are not especially thrilled with this. Gaining their accecptance will take time, but this ?Saturn? type we have been discussing is patient and has lots of time.
You also seem allured by money people and that person would also fit that bill as well.
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I freaked out when i read this...
"is probably a good deal older than you, but they are dutiful and devoted."
HE IS OLDER, 13 YEARS OLDER
Though this person can seem over-controlling ? they feel that you need to get organized ? these things are coming from love and not from a need for power.
HE IS QUITE CONTROLLING
are coming to you (it might have happened late last year too).
LATE LAST YEAR, THAT'S WHEN IT ALL STARTED OFFICIALLY

Familly members are not especially thrilled with this.
I WOULDN'T BE SURPRISED CAUSE HE'S NOT CATHOLIC BUT JEWISH... FAMILLY WILL HAVE HARD TIME WITH THAT ONE..

anyhow... it's amazing... I wish it were all true!
what do you think of all this moloko?
and he's a Saturn type too!
It sounds spot on, quite amazing. smile I didn't know that Jews mixed with non Jews that way.
Well it all depends how religious the two partners are i guess...some people would probably not mix and... some do! For Christmas here at the office i put up a huge xmas tree and all and he went out and bought a menora for Hanukha and some other little things for me to add to the decor and he said to me "now there's unity!" which i thought was cute, cool!
I need to ask you something... are Cancers the jealous type?
Something happened yesterday which i've never experienced before with him...
Yes, can definately get jealous
What is menora for Hanukha?
Menora is a 7 (if i remember correctly) candle stick holder, it has one in the middle that's a little taller than the other three on each side of that one. You can use real candles, but the one he got was an electric one with small light bulbs that flickered like flames! I'm not sure how and when but they light the candles one every week or few days or so ... and this whole celebration is called Hanukha! it's a Jewish tradition, related to religous beliefs of course!
Anyhow... so yes can get jealous?!
The Purolator man came by yesterday to pick up at the office and i have a candy basket that i keep on my desk and HE came to get a candy and the Puro man says oh can i take one too?! and i said jokingly no you cant! and then said of course that's what it's for! and me and the man laughed and he then left. Then HE didn't look too happy, he took his candy and said to me does he always flirt with you like that!?
I was shocked! i said flirt?! he's just being nice, friendly that's all! then he smiled, ate the candy and went on... but i never saw him after the rest of the day!
so i thought it must have tickled his jealousy bone!
could it be?!
Oh absolutely, you have tickled his jealousy bone no doubt, plus he's a Jew and they like keeping what they beleive is theirs to themselves, i know its controversial to say that but i really dont care.
I wouldn't call what you did flirting.
Ok! I guess I'm HIS! that's cute!
No i wouldn't call that flirting, but we do chitchat every time Puro man comes by, he's nice and so we talk and laugh a little and HE's seen it before...so i'm beginning to think it may bother him, but still! Well at least he didn't say that I was flirting with him! he said that the guy was flirting! anyhow i think it's cute! as long as it doesn't become some kind of a BIG problem!
I shouldn't have to worry right?
I dont know to be honest, i dont want to pretend like i have all the answers, you will know him much better than me, its about you and whatever your comfortable with.
Depends on how you deal with things or what makes you happy or not.
Yes yes of course! but i personally am saying FOR NOW there's no problem. I kind of like being thought of "I'm his" that's fine! It feels protected sort of... I will get to know him better and better and I SHALL SEE! Sorry I don't mean to make you feel like you HAVE all MY answers! that's not what i'm trying to do!
So can i ask a few questions...if i may...
You're in the UK...
What time is it there right now? I guess it's Friday Jan 27 like here?!
What do you do for a living?! I read that you enjoy music!
You come from a big familly? brothers sisters...

oh and please feel free! you may not wish to give out so much info... I'm just curious that's all!
Im just trying to be modest Winking i hate coming across like a smart ass, i make plenty of **** ups myself, i know how i can act and i know how some other cancers can act but then others are different and some poeople are so not typical of their sign, your right, once you get to know him better it will help you to understand him better.
Some times it can feel like protection i guess and other times like smothering, i had a girlfriend who insisted on holding my hand everywhere and i mean everywhere, inside shops, sitting next to me on the sofa, walking down the street, sometimes even in the pub, she had to always be pressed up against me in the pub, no one would come near me for fear of her attacking them i think, it was a bit much, holding hands and stuff is nice but, well you know what i mean.
And they say that cancers can be possesive, she wasn't even cancerian.
Some times it can feel like protection i guess and other times like smothering
Yes he looks like he could be a real good smotherer!! a good hugger too! BUT I LOVE IT! He's also quite protective of me I've seen a few places... and i like that too!
The time here is 3:03pm smile
I dont officially work for anyone at the moment but i promote 3 of my own websites, as you read i enjoy music, im an amateur music producer and ive just started writing a book.
I have 2 sisters, one is 28 and the other is 37, i have 5 nephews and plenty of aunts uncles and cousins throughout England and Scotland and one in Ireland.

What about yourself?
Wow ! here time is 10:08am!!
Well as you know I work in an office, I'm the receptionist, secretary. I work at recpetion, front desk where people come in! It's an agenda company, we produce agendas, it's a printing place.
I have just one younger brother who's 30, I'm in Canada, Quebec, city of Montreal!!
so I do speak French too! My familly is French Canadian!
I have lived in the US when I was a child with my familly, in Louisiana, New Orleans which was quite an experience! Then we moved to the West Coast of Canada, in Alberta, Calgary and then came back here in Quebec... so i've traveled a bit!
I thought you were in America
Poor New Orleans, we really felt it for those people.
I suppose that you play music? any instrument?
I play music too! Piano, Keyboards... I play clarinet, and Saxophone too! I haven't been playing much lately, but when i was younger i did, i enjoy music very much!
Yes that's right! poor New Orleans! that was terrible
I dont play any intruments unfortunately, its all computer based, electronic music, a couple of years ago i went to purchase a guitar but changed my mind as i got talking to one of the sales guys in the shop and he had got up on stage in the store and played a Led Zeppelin song amazingly, when we asked how long he had been playing he said 27 years smile si i changed my mind and didn't buy.
The sound from a clarinet is very nice, my actual musical tastes are broad. but im not into the manufactured pop thing.
Moloko dear! You have to start somewhere! to get to 27 years! I guess it depends, you either got it or you don't, playing music that is! it's in you or not! But if you think, you feel you've got it... why not! you never know till you try! and there's no age!
my musical tastes are very broad too, I like all kinds! and i mean ALL KINDS! I love music! play it all the time! My mood will determine what I'll put on!
Your right, never too late to start anything i guess, i wont outrule the purchase of an instrument i guess, il see what happens, ive been complimented on my past produced tracks.
I have an understanding for the sequencing of a track, like where to break it down and building up verses and stuff, its usually dance music.
Its like the book, ive only just started writing it and it will be my first but il take my time with it, im doing research for the book aswell at the moment.
oh yeah, the book sorry! what's this book about?
It involves some chosen people who move between parallel universes to worlds the same as ours, like infinate copies of earth, it will involve corruption, outside assistance from other planets, with twists and turns and much for the characters in the book to deal with.
Since there is no proof of Parallel worlds and only theories, i have taken on quite a job and have a lot to find out about the subject in order for my book to make sense and not contradict itself.
Good morning Moloko
I had to leave work in a flash last Friday I had an emergency...
That's why i didn't reply to this, i'm so sorry!
So this book sounds interesting! I guess this is fiction?
I'm not very big on fiction, I enjoy something I can "relate to" a little more! but that's ok there are people out there who do enjoy it!
I wish you all the best! Good luck!

Hi Cafrella, how you doing?
No worries, i noticed you suddenly gone on friday, i thought that you maybe worked half day or something on a friday.
Yeah its fiction, i know what you mean about a subject that you can relate to.
Hows the romance going, hey coming up to Valentines smile great timing for you and your man.
I'm doing not so bad for a Monday morning i guess! Mondays are always a little rough!
Romance... i guess it's so so... Last week Wed Thur and Fri he was quite busy so I didn't see much of him and well today he's not in yet?! I don't know... You almost sound more positive about it than i do! Sorry! i don't know, i've been feeling a little discouraged lately, yes Valentine's day is coming...I don't want to have my hopes TOO HIGH and then be disappointed... we'll see when we get there i guess... I've been feeling kind of distant lately, I think he's been trying to bring the subject up or to have "a talk" but I haven't been ready for that... and he feels it...
I don't MOloko, one day at a time i guess... we'll see... but i will keep you posted that's for sure!
Now i've got to get my day started... Talk to you later, have a good... afternoon for you i guess!
Enjoy your day cafrella, best of luck for you.
My day wasn't too bad! Better than i thought it'd be!
Hope yours was as good too!?
You must be in bed at this time?! ANyhow... good nite, sweet dreams... talk to you tomorrow!

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