moody moody

im going to be honest i don't know if it will work with my cancer boy i do over analyze...im not selfish and im not pushy but man does it get me thinking about everything knowing how sensitive he is. i feel like im always being tested-walkin on freakin eggshells...but i do like him a lot...and i know he likes me too...don't know what to do lol
im not sure which girl it was that said when her cancer boyfriend goes into his shell she is exactly the same...but it's hard for me i feel like it's always something that ive done...i joke a lot and i dont want to hurt his feelings. i naturally joke, but if he's going to take it to heart...i don't want to feel bad about something im not intentionally doing...that's just the person i am. plus we work together so maybe it's best that i just end things and tell him it's best we are friends. been down that road before with a pisces and got my heart broken. and that's the worst when you arn't at you full potential at work because of someone else you work with...it's never ending...someone always ends up quitting...or moving away like me-wow i get myself into bad situations. i wish i could just fast forward to a few years down the road so i can grow up a little bit...maybe then i would know what to do!
so confused :/

flrttilithurt247

Don't feel bad for being yourself or apologize for it. Anyhow, what makes you think he's trippin over something you did or maybe its something totally different? I'm dating a cancer and its best not to try to figure them out or any man for that matter. Just make sure your joking doesn't cross the line to silly, I don't think anyone can appreciate silly men or women. HAVE PATIENCE....he'll come around. Good Luck!

I agree

lol Flirt, dont try to figure out if its you or not, just be there for him when he comes out of the shell and periodically when he's in. Make it ok for him to go in there, because it is. Going into a shell yourself will (over time) allow you to understand how it can be useful and rejuvenating. Don't walk on eggshells because the more meek you are towards him the more he might feel you're uninterested. So many times I've tried to figure out why this Cancer I like went into his shell and I was SO wrong. They're sensitive but they aren't petty (not the one Im dealing with)so if you havent done something pretty serious it probably isnt you. It's more important to know he IS in his shell and to just really be patient and allow him to do that. Im still working on that. Im starting to learn that Cancers are just as susceptible to being hurt by the things we dont do or say and if you omit those things and omit the things that could possible hurt them...they're still hurt. When you do the things that they want they're more likely to tell you when something you do bothers them.

and libra not to say you arent making a good point, but the Cancer Im dealing with is close to looney and I love it and I can be a bit silly at times and he laughs along with me. A lot of people can appreciate silly people, I think its the obnoxious ones that make us sick.

well thank you girls for your advice it's been very helpful. i guess im going to just have to take it slow and see how it goes!