Moon in Aries - Sharp Tongue Much?

Crab with moon in aries here... married to an Aries. When we fight, it's war. A competition of who can hurt who more with their words. I really need to start thinking before I say things in the heat of the moment.... any other crabs or aries moons who battle with this issue?

I have an aries moon, I'm a capricorn though.
What sucks about this moon is that I'll argue with someone and then forget about what Was said by the next day or whenever. And I'm a friendly person, the next time I see them I'll be kind and cordial like nothing happened. Because to me, nothing did happen. I'm over it. Bye.

And I get frustrated when they are still mad at me. I just don't get it. I'm a sensitive and defensive person but emotional wounds don't run deep for me. By the time I've processed what happened and how I feel about it, I'm preoccupied with something else, and then something else......... But people INSIST on bringing up things from the past that aren't relevant to me anymore.

Aries moon is doomed in relationships lol.

I have an aries moon but I'm a libra sun with libra mercury too. No, I'm not like this. I like sticking with facts and directly pointing out what's wrong instead of insulting or just trying to be hurtful. IMO that's hitting below the belt and unnecessary. I don't understand why I'd deliberately hurt someone I love. That's not sensible at all.

I do have a short temper but it easily dissipates once I'm able to express my feelings.

^ that's why I appreciate Libras' logical (and rational) thinking.

Posted by CrabbyClaws
^ that's why I appreciate Libras' logical (and rational) thinking.

I did have a talk with my water sign friends and asked them why they do this. You're right, it does happen at the heat of the moment and since they know what exactly to say to hit a nerve, they just go right ahead and say it. It's because they're hurt and they gotta make it even. I do understand that but after everything is said and done, you can never take those back so I'd rather not exacerbate the situation IF I still want to stay with them.

If I don't give a fuck anymore, I no longer care what I do or say especially if I've already said I want to break up and the guy still keeps imposing himself.