My Cancer friend is trying to make me jealous?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by xxbrittxxtay on Monday, March 17, 2014 and has 28 replies.
How old is she?
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My ex Cancer friend was similar...She was very competitive with me to the point that she would dress very provocative, around someone that I was seeing, and would bend over, to show her cleavage.I could have done that with her Scorpio fiance, because he was eyeing me one night, and guess what she ended up booting me from the wedding, I was supposed to be her maid of honor, but she did this, due to fear of me out shining her on her wedding day...Insecure MUCH!!! Come to find out, her husband; (They are married now.) was having an affair, and the woman looked similar to me...I found out the real reason from her Taurus sister in law about it, after she stopped speaking to her, because her husband did not want her associating with her anymore, Needless to say, The Taurus told me everything about our fake friendship, and once I confronted her, she finally admitted the truth, because I already knew..If it was up to her, she would have kept me in the dark about the real issue..Cancer females value their family, but not their friendships...Had three Cancer females turn on me for NO reason...
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@xxbrittxxtay Well i think if you don't like how she is treating you, Go tell her about it & how bad it makes you feel. Tell her it's not right & you not gon put up with it. You shouldn't have to compete with anyone to be their friend. If you gotta do all that just to get someone to be nice to you, then they ain't worth it. I know what you feeling when friends go disappearing on you despite how good you treat them. It's happened to me so i understand. Just tell her to clean up her act, or you can't be friends. Most Cancers don't treat their friends or partners like trash. She may got fire or air in her chart. But throw the astrology crap out the door. Real sweet, mature people don't behave that way. So voice your concerns. If she don't change, then you know what to do.
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Posted by 2BlackIndian3
@xxbrittxxtay Well i think if you don't like how she is treating you, Go tell her about it & how bad it makes you feel. Tell her it's not right & you not gon put up with it. You shouldn't have to compete with anyone to be their friend. If you gotta do all that just to get someone to be nice to you, then they ain't worth it. I know what you feeling when friends go disappearing on you despite how good you treat them. It's happened to me so i understand. Just tell her to clean up her act, or you can't be friends. Most Cancers don't treat their friends or partners like trash. She may got fire or air in her chart. But throw the astrology crap out the door. Real sweet, mature people don't behave that way. So voice your concerns. If she don't change, then you know what to do.


Awesome, thanks!
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Yes true.....I have always been a good friend to this cookie monster, but she stabbed me in the back for NO reason, other than the fact that I looked similar to her husband's mistress...How is that my fault, or better yet, how does that make me fake? It's apparent that Cancer females sees other females as threats...I believe that that is the only reason why they befriend other females, so that they could pick up on their strong points, and try to emulate...Just because you are not that way, does not mean that the next Cancer female is not...Trust me, I have had enough experiences with them, to make it safe to say that they only think of themselves, and their immediate family...Friendships to them is mot important. This chick actually cut her sister in law out of her life, just because her cheating husband said so..Now the Taurus and I are close, and she cannot stand it..And as far as being thirsty and single,I was with my husband at the time, before we got married, and she was with her Scorpio. Even my ex husband noticed how inappropriate she was being, and asked, Are you sure she is your Friend?
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My ex Cancer friend was similar...She was very competitive with me to the point that she would dress very provocative, around someone that I was seeing, and would bend over, to show her cleavage.I could have done that with her Scorpio fiance, because he was eyeing me one night, and guess what she ended up booting me from the wedding, I was supposed to be her maid of honor, but she did this, due to fear of me out shining her on her wedding day...Insecure MUCH!!! Come to find out, her husband; (They are married now.) was having an affair, and the woman looked similar to me...I found out the real reason from her Taurus sister in law about it, after she stopped speaking to her, because her husband did not want her associating with her anymore, Needless to say, The Taurus told me everything about our fake friendship, and once I confronted her, she finally admitted the truth, because I already knew..If it was up to her, she would have kept me in the dark about the real issue..Cancer females value their family, but not their friendships...Had three Cancer females turn on me for NO reason...


You should definitely stay from Cancers if that is your experience with them. Just do them and yourself a favor and don't befriend them.
Seriously.
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Yes, I most definitely keep my distance from Cancerian women...We start off ok, But then something always take a left turn....The reasoning always have something to do with their insecurity...
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Well at the end of the day, people are going to either love us Cancers or hate us. I don't really care lol. However i know some of us have a good heart that's not meant for everyone. So i would focus on me & ignore what other strangers think. I believe i have help this lady out. Whatever she does next is her doing. I think majority of us Cancers are good people if everyone has the patience
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@CluelessCancer lol you do got a point. I personally don't talk about my friendships or relationships online either. I guess some people like to vent. I'm a private about my personal life unless i trust you. People actually do what you are saying here on FB a lot. That is sickening & disrespectful. Now i'm not enabling her behavior. I was just trying to help the situation smile
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Yep you are right. I try not to complain, but it is hard. I just don't wanna bombard anyone with my problems. I usually talk to my grandma & God about my issues. But yeah, talking things out is the best way to go. You got a great mindset @CluelessCancer
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Ask her directly.Don't mention the jealousy part, it's a bit weird considering that you are both straight adult females. It could just be the case of her wanting to say something important to that friend or not wanting to hang out with a large group of people that evening.
Taurus and Cancer are similar on a superficial level but we are completely different inside.Tauruses are much more possessive and less shy than Cancers are .Any type of relationship involving these two needs clear communication. Don't hesitate to initiate it if you think something is off.Plus, cancers are moody while tauruses are really stable.
Friendly competition is cool with me as long as it is not too serious(girls are worse at this than guys though ...)
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Posted by mamamia
Ask her directly.Don't mention the jealousy part, it's a bit weird considering that you are both straight adult females. It could just be the case of her wanting to say something important to that friend or not wanting to hang out with a large group of people that evening.
Taurus and Cancer are similar on a superficial level but we are completely different inside.Tauruses are much more possessive and less shy than Cancers are .Any type of relationship involving these two needs clear communication. Don't hesitate to initiate it if you think something is off.Plus, cancers are moody while tauruses are really stable.
Friendly competition is cool with me as long as it is not too serious(girls are worse at this than guys though ...)



I have asked her directly about other issues and she immediately denies she is being a certain way, or she gets insecure and completely shuts down. And then things are just really awkward after that. I don't mind friendly competition either I played soccer the majority of my life so that's cool. It's when someone has negative and manipulative intentions while doing so. The only people I can be extremely blunt with and won't get their feelings hurt I've noticed are Virgos, Scorpios, and Capricorns.
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Britt, she seems insecure and intimidated by you. If you are beautiful, then this will make her even more paranoid.
As others have said, you need to talk to her about this crap and tell her to stop it if she is going to remain in your life.
Otherwise, it's only going to continue and may even get worse.
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Posted by munchkin
You seem pretty catty yourself, so why are you surprised?
just sayin.


*irrelevant*
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You seem pretty catty yourself, so why are you surprised?
It honestly sounds like you posted the OP just to hear people say "omg ur sooooo pretty that shes unbearably jealous of u !!!" (esp considering that you're brand new, immediately posted a lipstick glam pic of yourself while starting this thread.)
Because what "advice" could you possibly be looking for? Talk to her? Stop hanging out with her? hmm...no shit, Sherlock?
just sayin.
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Posted by xxbrittxxtay
Posted by munchkin
You seem pretty catty yourself, so why are you surprised?
just sayin.


*irrelevant*
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not really. Like attracts like.
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Posted by munchkin
You seem pretty catty yourself, so why are you surprised?
It honestly sounds like you posted the OP just to hear people say "omg ur sooooo pretty that shes unbearably jealous of u !!!" (esp considering that you're brand new, immediately posted a lipstick glam pic of yourself while starting this thread.)
Because what "advice" could you possibly be looking for? Talk to her? Stop hanging out with her? hmm...no shit, Sherlock?
just sayin.


I wanted opinions to see if any other Cancer's were like this lol obviously I posted it in this forum. Are you mad because I'm *new* and posted a pic of myself unlike half of you who have animals as your avi because that's exactly probably what you look like if not worse. Bye peasant.
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Posted by xxbrittxxtay
Posted by munchkin
You seem pretty catty yourself, so why are you surprised?
It honestly sounds like you posted the OP just to hear people say "omg ur sooooo pretty that shes unbearably jealous of u !!!" (esp considering that you're brand new, immediately posted a lipstick glam pic of yourself while starting this thread.)
Because what "advice" could you possibly be looking for? Talk to her? Stop hanging out with her? hmm...no shit, Sherlock?
just sayin.


I wanted opinions to see if any other Cancer's were like this lol obviously I posted it in this forum. Are you mad because I'm *new* and posted a pic of myself unlike half of you who have animals as your avi because that's exactly probably what you look like if not worse. Bye peasant.
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^^ true colors revealed ^^
So this bs is what the Cancer is dealing with.
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Also, maybe some of us peasants aren't stupid enough to put their pictures on a site like this while writing garbage. Anything posted online is permanent and traceable. I don't want employers or clients finding me on DXP.
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Posted by munchkin
Posted by xxbrittxxtay
Posted by munchkin
You seem pretty catty yourself, so why are you surprised?
It honestly sounds like you posted the OP just to hear people say "omg ur sooooo pretty that shes unbearably jealous of u !!!" (esp considering that you're brand new, immediately posted a lipstick glam pic of yourself while starting this thread.)
Because what "advice" could you possibly be looking for? Talk to her? Stop hanging out with her? hmm...no shit, Sherlock?
just sayin.


I wanted opinions to see if any other Cancer's were like this lol obviously I posted it in this forum. Are you mad because I'm *new* and posted a pic of myself unlike half of you who have animals as your avi because that's exactly probably what you look like if not worse. Bye peasant.


^^ true colors revealed ^^
So this bs is what the Cancer is dealing with.

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My Cancer friend is absolutely gorgeous, probably the prettiest girl I've ever met in my life. Just looking for friendly opinions not bored irrelevant people looking to spread their negative opinions like yourself. I don't know if you're a peasant or hater. How about both smile
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^ yea, true - you do bore me.
Ciao! Winking
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There's nothing else you can do if she refuses any communication. Just let her be. It's a good solution with Cancers.Sometimes we cling too much and don't realise that we actually need space hence the moodswings.

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Posted by CluelessCancer
Posted by xxbrittxxtay
Posted by CluelessCancer
WHine 101.



Your clearly bothered by this forum, so how about you take your useless comments elsewhere grumpy cat.


I'm bothered by your incessant whining.
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Clearly, get over it.
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Posted by xxbrittxxtay
Posted by munchkin
You seem pretty catty yourself, so why are you surprised?
It honestly sounds like you posted the OP just to hear people say "omg ur sooooo pretty that shes unbearably jealous of u !!!" (esp considering that you're brand new, immediately posted a lipstick glam pic of yourself while starting this thread.)
Because what "advice" could you possibly be looking for? Talk to her? Stop hanging out with her? hmm...no shit, Sherlock?
just sayin.


I wanted opinions to see if any other Cancer's were like this lol obviously I posted it in this forum. Are you mad because I'm *new* and posted a pic of myself unlike half of you who have animals as your avi because that's exactly probably what you look like if not worse. Bye peasant.
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That's right! I look like a Panda because I AM a Panda.
You just wish you could be as hot looking as I am. *meow*
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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Posted by xxbrittxxtay
Posted by munchkin
You seem pretty catty yourself, so why are you surprised?
It honestly sounds like you posted the OP just to hear people say "omg ur sooooo pretty that shes unbearably jealous of u !!!" (esp considering that you're brand new, immediately posted a lipstick glam pic of yourself while starting this thread.)
Because what "advice" could you possibly be looking for? Talk to her? Stop hanging out with her? hmm...no shit, Sherlock?
just sayin.


I wanted opinions to see if any other Cancer's were like this lol obviously I posted it in this forum. Are you mad because I'm *new* and posted a pic of myself unlike half of you who have animals as your avi because that's exactly probably what you look like if not worse. Bye peasant.


That's right! I look like a Panda because I AM a Panda.
You just wish you could be as hot looking as I am. *meow*
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I like pandas! Cats and birds not so much.
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I'd like to say that's quite possible she's unaware of her actions. I myself do things thinking one way while those around me are interpreting my actions in a negative way.
I also have had a friend like how you've described. She turned out to be morally corrupt and the epitome of a cancer from hell.
If you're friend falls in between these two, then maybe she is acting out because she is jealous for your attention. Girl crush gone crazy?
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Posted by kim30
I'd like to say that's quite possible she's unaware of her actions. I myself do things thinking one way while those around me are interpreting my actions in a negative way.
I also have had a friend like how you've described. She turned out to be morally corrupt and the epitome of a cancer from hell.
If you're friend falls in between these two, then maybe she is acting out because she is jealous for your attention. Girl crush gone crazy?


That could be it, thank you so much for your response I appreciate it smile
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Britt,
I don't know if anyone has told you what
I'm about to say. Please don't take this the wrong way. You came here for understanding so I respectfully pass this information. When it comes to getting deep, really deep in someone's ass, to mind fuck them, really ruin their day, week, month, year, mark them for life? Nobody is better than it than a female cancer scorned. Seriously, if you hit her with a one or two she's going to hit you at 10. And keep doing until you apologize for your 1.
If how you're behaving here is how you treat her, then that's why you're scouring the internet trying to figure it out while she's not giving a damn.
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@xxbrittxxtay I guarantee you, not all Cancers behave immaturly or treat their friends like the dirt off ground. But i guarantee you, we also don't tolerate it ourselves. So just talk to her about this in person. If she doesn't apologize & change her behavior. Then maybe she isn't the friend for you. So go talk things out ok smile
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