My date with the Cancer guy

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Aquastic on Monday, August 20, 2018 and has 26 replies.
So we went out with the cancer,was seeing for first time after talking to him for 2 weeks, the date was amazing ,he is such a gentleman,sweet yet very shy.He gives the best hugs, never been hugged like that before his muscles covered me we fitted like a glove.We kissed 😘.

My problem with the guy is that he doesn't have a bank account, few minute before I could meet him he asked me to send him my bank so that someone can transfer money into it.That really got me worried.

Anyhow, I really don't think I am ready to be in another relationship honestly speaking.
Posted by Dewritos

No amount of coupons and e-transfers can save him from this embarrassing revelation.

Some Cancer dudes act like Grandmas and confine their money under a Tempur Pedic mattress.
I was shocked ! Actually am still am.
Posted by Ladyleo18

How does he get paid for work if he doesn't have a bank account? That sounds so suss
He says he's self employed, so he lives on cash only basis.
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Posted by Ladyleo18

How does he get paid for work if he doesn't have a bank account? That sounds so suss
He says he's self employed, so he lives on cash only basis.
Like a drug dealer or something?
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He sells clothes and other odd jobs that he gets paid by cash.
Posted by Ladyleo18

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Posted by Ladyleo18

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Posted by Ladyleo18

How does he get paid for work if he doesn't have a bank account? That sounds so suss
He says he's self employed, so he lives on cash only basis.
Like a drug dealer or something?
He sells clothes and other odd jobs that he gets paid by cash.


Just be careful and stay vigilant because that doesn't sound right. Unless it's stolen goods or something shady is going on so he's trying to keep off the grid, he should have a bank account. Look into him if you have enough details and make sure he is who he says he is. Hopefully he is legit but just keep your guard up until you know for sure xx
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No need, I really don't have the energy, I just got out of tiring relationship I deserve a normal one this time. not gonna take this further.He is a sweet guy and all ,but it seems like there's gonna be too much work here.
So before you even met he asked your bank connection so someone could transfer money into it? what that was about?

how intimate your conversation was for that 2 weeks to ask you this favour?

I know it sounds incredible in this age and day to not have a bank account, but I have a bestie (Taurus man) who is against the bank system, saying they are exploiting you and he refuses to have a bank account, when he needs one, he uses his parents´ one

I think in this case (if he is doing some business) it is to avoid taxes, because bank accounts can be traced

its very shady to ask a stranger (you) for this favour, doesnt he have some friends or family to ask this?
Posted by Pandora101

So before you even met he asked your bank connection so someone could transfer money into it? what that was about?

how intimate your conversation was for that 2 weeks to ask you this favour?

I know it sounds incredible in this age and day to not have a bank account, but I have a bestie (Taurus man) who is against the bank system, saying they are exploiting you and he refuses to have a bank account, when he needs one, he uses his parents´ one

I think in this case (if he is doing some business) it is to avoid taxes, because bank accounts can be traced

its very shady to ask a stranger (you) for this favour, doesnt he have some friends or family to ask this?
I was shocked and turned off at the same when he asked for my bank account. He had hard cash to pay for the date though.I am not easily fooled by love and good looks,so I pretended to look for them on my phone up until he said I should not worry about it.

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Posted by Ladyleo18

How does he get paid for work if he doesn't have a bank account? That sounds so suss
He says he's self employed, so he lives on cash only basis.
Like a drug dealer or something?
He sells clothes and other odd jobs that he gets paid by cash.


Just be careful and stay vigilant because that doesn't sound right. Unless it's stolen goods or something shady is going on so he's trying to keep off the grid, he should have a bank account. Look into him if you have enough details and make sure he is who he says he is. Hopefully he is legit but just keep your guard up until you know for sure xx
No need, I really don't have the energy, I just got out of tiring relationship I deserve a normal one this time. not gonna take this further.He is a sweet guy and all ,but it seems like there's gonna be too much work here.
Girl it’s hard work. You gave it a crack and you’re getting the dodge vibes so I’d definitely take heed.

Idk I just find Cancer guys shady.
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Cancer men can be very shady. VERY! lmbo
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Posted by Ladyleo18

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Posted by Ladyleo18

Posted by Aquastic

Posted by Ladyleo18

How does he get paid for work if he doesn't have a bank account? That sounds so suss
He says he's self employed, so he lives on cash only basis.
Like a drug dealer or something?
He sells clothes and other odd jobs that he gets paid by cash.


Just be careful and stay vigilant because that doesn't sound right. Unless it's stolen goods or something shady is going on so he's trying to keep off the grid, he should have a bank account. Look into him if you have enough details and make sure he is who he says he is. Hopefully he is legit but just keep your guard up until you know for sure xx
No need, I really don't have the energy, I just got out of tiring relationship I deserve a normal one this time. not gonna take this further.He is a sweet guy and all ,but it seems like there's gonna be too much work here.
Girl it’s hard work. You gave it a crack and you’re getting the dodge vibes so I’d definitely take heed.

Idk I just find Cancer guys shady.
Cancer men can be very shady. VERY! lmbo
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As I run for my life!!!
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Posted by Ladyleo18

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Posted by Ladyleo18

How does he get paid for work if he doesn't have a bank account? That sounds so suss
He says he's self employed, so he lives on cash only basis.
Like a drug dealer or something?
He sells clothes and other odd jobs that he gets paid by cash.
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Aka he's jobless and sells whatever he can get off others. Girl, you know better than this, Please tell me you did not give him your banking details.
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Posted by Ladyleo18

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Posted by Ladyleo18

How does he get paid for work if he doesn't have a bank account? That sounds so suss
He says he's self employed, so he lives on cash only basis.
Like a drug dealer or something?
He sells clothes and other odd jobs that he gets paid by cash.


Aka he's jobless and sells whatever he can get off others. Girl, you know better than this, Please tell me you did not give him your banking details.
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Too smart to do that such, gave him an excuse .I read between the lines. Don't want no shady money that might get me into trouble
LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?
Posted by aquarius09

LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?


Lol he's 34
Posted by nikkistar

@Canceronthecusp
You keep rubbing that magic lamp.

First impression from the OP - does the "date" have a rich Nigerian uncle that will give millions if only you supply access to the banking account?

Second impression - some guy with a modicum of charm that is running a scam and is taking advantage of a perceived mark?

Third impression - looks like the trolls are back.
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Posted by aquarius09

LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?


Lol he's 34


You're so desperate

The guy doesn't work

He probably gambles too

Throw him back in the ocean
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She's already said she's not dealing with him. You're the desperate one.
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Posted by aquarius09

LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?


Lol he's 34


You're so desperate

The guy doesn't work

He probably gambles too

Throw him back in the ocean
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Damn, why the fuck the she got to be desperate?

She said she ain't fuckin with him like that and it's sketchy AHAHAHA...

Choose your words... Carefully.
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Posted by aquarius09

LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?


Lol he's 34


You're so desperate

The guy doesn't work

He probably gambles too

Throw him back in the ocean
She's already said she's not dealing with him. You're the desperate one.
1) didnt see that

2) wasn't talking to you

3) you sound mad bitter like you need a hug

Too bad I'm out of hugs for frigid bytches
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Reading is fundamental

Was talking to you though

If I sounded 10 times more bitter I'd be your twin.

Frigid bytches don't need hugs. Save them for emotionally weak bytches like yourself.
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Posted by aquarius09

LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?


Lol he's 34


You're so desperate

The guy doesn't work

He probably gambles too

Throw him back in the ocean
Damn, why the fuck the she got to be desperate?

She said she ain't fuckin with him like that and it's sketchy AHAHAHA...

Choose your words... Carefully.
Yeah i missed that part

Thank God now the bytch can get off the crab board


I was getting tired of her updates and questions
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*Snaps sarcastically*

Snapping with my claw, that is.
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Posted by aquarius09

LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?


Lol he's 34


You're so desperate

The guy doesn't work

He probably gambles too

Throw him back in the ocean
Damn, why the fuck the she got to be desperate?

She said she ain't fuckin with him like that and it's sketchy AHAHAHA...

Choose your words... Carefully.
Yeah i missed that part

Thank God now the bytch can get off the crab board


I was getting tired of her updates and questions
*Snaps sarcastically*

Snapping with my claw, that is.
Lol so you date aqua chicks? Whats that like?

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I think Aqua chicks are attracted to me.

My Sun, Moon, and Mars is the 11th house.

My descendant is in Aquarius/7th house, my Uranus is in Aquarius. I have Mercury-Uranus aspect.. Aqua ranks #2 in a Pullen chart.

The closest I've got to an Aquarius girl, was a hot make-out session.. I kept making out with this 40 y/o Aqua chick most of summer '17...

They are hot. Unpredictable. Probably wouldn't get bored. Very different.. I feel the "alien" thing that are stereotyped as.
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Posted by nikkistar

@Canceronthecusp
You keep rubbing that magic lamp.

First impression from the OP - does the "date" have a rich Nigerian uncle that will give millions if only you supply access to the banking account?

Second impression - some guy with a modicum of charm that is running a scam and is taking advantage of a perceived mark?

Third impression - looks like the trolls are back.
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Second Impression
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Posted by aquarius09

LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?


Lol he's 34


You're so desperate

The guy doesn't work

He probably gambles too

Throw him back in the ocean
Damn, why the fuck the she got to be desperate?

She said she ain't fuckin with him like that and it's sketchy AHAHAHA...

Choose your words... Carefully.
Yeah i missed that part

Thank God now the bytch can get off the crab board


I was getting tired of her updates and questions
*Snaps sarcastically*

Snapping with my claw, that is.
Lol so you date aqua chicks? Whats that like?

I think Aqua chicks are attracted to me.

My Sun, Moon, and Mars is the 11th house.

My descendant is in Aquarius/7th house, my Uranus is in Aquarius. I have Mercury-Uranus aspect.. Aqua ranks #2 in a Pullen chart.

The closest I've got to an Aquarius girl, was a hot make-out session.. I kept making out with this 40 y/o Aqua chick most of summer '17...

They are hot. Unpredictable. Probably wouldn't get bored. Very different.. I feel the "alien" thing that are stereotyped as.
Are cancers scared of ending up with a boring partner
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A LOT of Cancers have Gemini Venus.. Damn near half of us.

I think that's why people think most of us are scared of boring.
Posted by Black-Mamba

And she brought the whole aqua board with her


Thank you Jesus for this whatever it is failing.

Its like some of them live in our board

Hey! You like this aqua don't even front! And yes I do, deal with it Tongue
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Posted by aquarius09

LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?


Lol he's 34


You're so desperate

The guy doesn't work

He probably gambles too

Throw him back in the ocean
She's already said she's not dealing with him. You're the desperate one.
1) didnt see that

2) wasn't talking to you

3) you sound mad bitter like you need a hug

Too bad I'm out of hugs for frigid bytches
Reading is fundamental

Was talking to you though

If I sounded 10 times more bitter I'd be your twin.

Frigid bytches don't need hugs. Save them for emotionally weak bytches like yourself.
Have you read her posts? She's dick hopping. That's desperate from my pov.

I have a right to my opinion

Why you care so much? Did i trigger something in you?

Lol at emotionally weak

Hilarious. I've seen more emotions than ice been on those earth.

Bye weirdo. I don't have time for your negativity. Go to sleep in a bed of hurt.

I'm feeling good
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Unlike you, I don't speak unless I have my facts straight. It's not dick hopping dumb ass. She had a bf. They've broken up and she went on one date. There was no sex.

You're made cause you can't get a date. Loser!

Lol @ you calling someone negative. Hello pot.
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Posted by aquarius09

LMAO!!! WTF? Is this for real? Are you dating a 5 yr old? Why doesn't he have a bank account?


Lol he's 34


You're so desperate

The guy doesn't work

He probably gambles too

Throw him back in the ocean
Damn, why the fuck the she got to be desperate?

She said she ain't fuckin with him like that and it's sketchy AHAHAHA...

Choose your words... Carefully.
Yeah i missed that part

Thank God now the bytch can get off the crab board


I was getting tired of her updates and questions
*Snaps sarcastically*

Snapping with my claw, that is.
Lol so you date aqua chicks? Whats that like?

I think Aqua chicks are attracted to me.

My Sun, Moon, and Mars is the 11th house.

My descendant is in Aquarius/7th house, my Uranus is in Aquarius. I have Mercury-Uranus aspect.. Aqua ranks #2 in a Pullen chart.

The closest I've got to an Aquarius girl, was a hot make-out session.. I kept making out with this 40 y/o Aqua chick most of summer '17...

They are hot. Unpredictable. Probably wouldn't get bored. Very different.. I feel the "alien" thing that are stereotyped as.
Are cancers scared of ending up with a boring partner
A LOT of Cancers have Gemini Venus.. Damn near half of us.

I think that's why people think most of us are scared of boring.
I wad watching this documentary on a Taurus porn actor who is married to a cancer

He says he didnt know why she stayed, she said she's bored when he's not around


I like cancers with cancer Venus

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Sun Conjunct Venus is always a good aspect in general.
Sounds like cancer guys i dated. Doesn't have any bank account, huh? Where are you guys located? Just curious