Need Help Figuring Out Cancer Man

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by semperfibabe on Thursday, April 6, 2006 and has 7 replies.
Basically knows the cancer but would like to know what/how to deal with certain situations, any one? Since we just started to date so just curious... I'm a taurus, btw.
If they act distant, should I keep a distance too? I 'm the type not afraid to speak up my feelings for the guy I like; I will constantly tell him I miss him and blah blah blah. But if when a cancer man pulls away, if I sound clingy will that turns him off? I think I might be more cancer then my cancer bf lol I'm moodier then him and he agreed haha BTW, cancer guy are really adorable, yet the mood swings are driving me insane...one time I finally blew off handle yeah i'm a bull haha and send him nasty email accusing him and said what kinda f***en gf am i to him...only if I knew that was just the way cancer acts...then I wouldnt went complety maniac haha
Any one can tell me what's in a Cancer/Taurus relationship? Thanks a bunch. I really want to get to know my cancer man. Oh I miss him so much cant wait to see him. Will he freaks out if I said I dont mind to move closer to him? We're 10 hrs apart Sad I really want us to work it out...I'm totally swept off by him so so completely gosh....but wait maybe I shouldn't show too much of it that im hooked by him, right hehe
Oh my goodness, I'm gooding through the exact same thing!. However, it was a turn-off for me when my cancer buddy decided to pull away. It also freaked me out because I didn't beleive that I deserved to just be shut out completely ...without warning. I can only tell you what I'm going though but I can't give any advice ... I'm just as lost as you are.
I can vouch for how good a cancer - taurus relationship is. Best relationship i've ever been in was with a taurus. I'm not sure about the distance thing though, we couldn't keep our hands off each other.
haha thanks for the advice that made me feel so much better. I thought so too that cancer and taurus are great match..that's why he keeps on cominng backsmile Before I came to this fourm I never knew that cancer craves for constant attention and is needy(well he admitted he was one time haha and now looking back he does posses that "quality" lol) YOu see, not sure if that was me being a Taurus, but I love to pamper my man and tell him how much I miss him and this and all that either verbally or in action and love to show them my support. Guess theses are the things that cancer loves to get from their partner. smile
cappy wow feels so much better that there is people out there going thru the samething as I'm right now. Its very comforting. Have to tell ya love this forum it's totally "clean" nothing much of abusive language and peopel here really are nice and give funny and good advices smile
Anyway, well yeah me I like to have constant attention too and he said I'm moodier then him so maybe I am more cancer then a cancer haha(whats that rising sun and moon thing anyway can anybody tell me??) Sorry back the sub, lol so I get really frustrated when he does that but now that I know that's just the way he is, so I'm gonna be even more patient with this cutie cancer and keep given him enough attentiions that he craves for. I think giving is better then receiving. So as long as he's happy I don't mind after I learned that I have his heart. So he can be distant as much as he likes since I do that too haha again, I might be a cancer too lol
Now knowing the stuffs bout cancer man, looking back at the things he said would only makes me smile and love him more...Well girl good luck with ur cancer man and keep each other motivated!!! smile
semperfibabe,
It makes me fel better too that I'm not the only one who feels the way I do. Those cancer guys are something else, aren't they??? lol. I too, enjoy pamper guys who I have affection for along with giving them attention. Maybe it's because I have taurus in my chart (that's probably why we are so much alike). I also heard that capricorns and cancers were a good, but the cancer would have to be mover developed in order from the couple to have long term happiness. Since caps are very stable and cancers are the opposite (until they learn better), I can see this being true. I hope that you cancer guy is good to you because you sound like you love him dearly. As far as my situation ... I have no idea what to say about it. Until recently, he didn't communicate with me for three weeks. The minute I tell myself:"the heck with him, I don't care what he does anymore and I don't want him to ever contact me again," ... I get an email from him Wednesday and Thursday. He is such a butt!!!
lmao cappy you just made my day haha bout that disappearing acts oh man I know how you are feeling. Oh you have no ideas having to date a cancer hottie and a marine oh man that just makes things even more "complicated" haha but since Taurus are known to be persistency ha heck with his mood swings I AM NOT GONNA LEAVE until i get what i want lol Yeah I do so cares bout him alot so do he. I'm hoping we move along well. I'm just so ready to settle down and have a family and cancer man are family oriented so I think I've finally found the perfect match hehe though my last bf was also a cancer he was just too out going and I couldnt stand that since I'm love to stay home so you see I think I might have cancer in me hehe With cancer babes, I can only say be patient, patient and patient. Understand him and love him unconditionally with all your heart and you will have your true reward from your cancer man. They appreciate people being nice to them, well at least my cancer man is not sure bout others smile Good luck girl

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