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May 22, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 237 · Topics: 24
Ok my saga continues.....saw my cancer man on friday nite at the usual bar he haunts....he was there as usual with his wing man and a girl I have seen him with several times before....
They didn't seem happy....they didn't make any body contact....no surprise....cancers take things slow....he saw me and my friend and when they left he said hello and I said hi back...
Same nite went to a shag for a work buddy and who was there....my cancer friend...how did I find this out he was directly behind me in the drink line...I turn and saw him which surprised me and immediately turn back....then said hi again as I went past him....me and my friend stayed in one location which was directly behind him....you know girls curiosity and all wanted to watch his interaction with who he was with...again not much contact...he did touch her arm and he did dance....but he also kept looking in my direction.... they left and we stayed had a great nite....
The next morning I am doing some banking at a bank machine and who shows up....my cancer guy....
Whats up with that....is it just a total bizarre coinidedence or what....I have seen him with this girl and I know he is on plenty of fish so....can't quite figure it out...
My guess is she is convenient and he is still looking for the one...
Any insight you male cancers can give me on whould be greatly appreciated...
I have been keeping my distance from him and am trying to get past him and now its like god is screwing with my head and he keeps popping up...
Cheeky-
Stay there, run into him at the bank, the line or where ever. Be nice, maybe flash your eyes, he will see this.
My second love was just a simple happenstance with a tiny Italian girl. It was just a simple thing. She was in a big bicycle wreck, face all smashed up, and I came to visit her alot. See how she was doing? I stopped by everyday just to see if she needed anything or if there was anything I could do.
She just thought that was wonderful, that somebody was there...
I never thought she was that attractive, but we got on and things just happen. We were hooked up for many years...
If the fellow is unhappy, show your caring side and he will see that in spades. Make yourself available, No, No wrong words!!
Make yourself there, show some feeling, but don't be real agressive.
Just be there, stand by him and you can steal his heart!! Simple!
MXDave