Capn
@Capn
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Need love-advice from cancer women
Reading through this I can see some things might be unclear.
1) My gf was not giving me any attention for many months. I tried everything, but she couldnt care less. I later found out she was being unfaithful. That was the reason I broke up with her.
2) I have been seeing this cancer woman several times for about a month..and our first kiss was this last meet.
1) My gf was not giving me any attention for many months. I tried everything, but she couldnt care less. I later found out she was being unfaithful. That was the reason I broke up with her.
2) I have been seeing this cancer woman several times for about a month..and our first kiss was this last meet.
This is almost like a replay of my situation with a cap woman. She is pulling the same stunt, I have put it in cool down mode for the moment. This seems to be cancer-cap season, so many stories.
I feel like there is a special bond between Goats and Crabs.
We get each others sense of humor.
And it doesn't take much for a Goat to understand a Crab.
As a feminine woman, I like a masculine male who actively pursues.
When a guy goes into hiding or plays it cool, I will try to remake a connection but I will set my mind to something else.
You have to remember these are the days of, "He's just not that into you..."
She is probably confused with you too.
And Goats are self-centered, unromantic overbearing bastards too, she probably needs a break.
We get each others sense of humor.
And it doesn't take much for a Goat to understand a Crab.
As a feminine woman, I like a masculine male who actively pursues.
When a guy goes into hiding or plays it cool, I will try to remake a connection but I will set my mind to something else.
You have to remember these are the days of, "He's just not that into you..."
She is probably confused with you too.
And Goats are self-centered, unromantic overbearing bastards too, she probably needs a break.
She's a cap Sun with a cancer moon and I am a cancer Sun with a cap moon.
Let the weirdness begin.
Let the weirdness begin.
To OP, you have only two real options persist or go home.
Posted by incandescentcancerWhat is the chemistry like between you?
She's a cap Sun with a cancer moon and I am a cancer Sun with a cap moon.
Let the weirdness begin.
Hi!
Thank you all for commenting🙂 Appreciate it!
She is a mystery that one, and my head is working double overtime trying to figure her out.
The balance of wanting to see her vs not pushing her away is extremely delicate. I find it oh so hard to keep holding back my feelings... Crazycrazy!
@incandescentcancer : would love to hear how it works out between you 🙂
Thank you all for commenting🙂 Appreciate it!
She is a mystery that one, and my head is working double overtime trying to figure her out.
The balance of wanting to see her vs not pushing her away is extremely delicate. I find it oh so hard to keep holding back my feelings... Crazycrazy!
@incandescentcancer : would love to hear how it works out between you 🙂
Posted by CapnI know how you feel. I am giving my girl some space right now, I think she needs it. When women get overwhelmed on the company of an intense man or they are feeling something intense very quickly, I think they tend to hide. Give her some time and be persistent. That's what I am going to do. Being a cap moon myself, I understand you're irritated and probably annoyed by what you think is not adult or serious behavior but this can't be helped.
Hi!
Thank you all for commenting🙂 Appreciate it!
She is a mystery that one, and my head is working double overtime trying to figure her out.
The balance of wanting to see her vs not pushing her away is extremely delicate. I find it oh so hard to keep holding back my feelings... Crazycrazy!
@incandescentcancer : would love to hear how it works out between you 🙂
I think women know when a man truly likes them and tend to test him by pulling these stunts, you got to show her that you will drop her if it affects your self respect but at the same time you love her.
Posted by LunarMaidenMildly simmering at the moment. It will be like a typical cancer relationship where everything will finally explode in the bedroom.Posted by incandescentcancerWhat is the chemistry like between you?
She's a cap Sun with a cancer moon and I am a cancer Sun with a cap moon.
Let the weirdness begin.click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerWoah! You just read my mind! I have no reason to believe she's not interested any more..and yeah, if it's true what you say, they go hiding (wich seems legit now), that is totally confusing..why would they risk losing the other persons interest in them..just because they dont want to show theirs? Just to pull a stunt..? That is kinda cruel, hehe.Posted by CapnI know how you feel. I am giving my girl some space right now, I think she needs it. When women get overwhelmed on the company of an intense man or they are feeling something intense very quickly, I think they tend to hide. Give her some time and be persistent. That's what I am going to do. Being a cap moon myself, I understand you're irritated and probably annoyed by what you think is not adult or serious behavior but this can't be helped.
Hi!
Thank you all for commenting🙂 Appreciate it!
She is a mystery that one, and my head is working double overtime trying to figure her out.
The balance of wanting to see her vs not pushing her away is extremely delicate. I find it oh so hard to keep holding back my feelings... Crazycrazy!
@incandescentcancer : would love to hear how it works out between you 🙂
I think women know when a man truly likes them and tend to test him by pulling these stunts, you got to show her that you will drop her if it affects your self respect but at the same time you love her.click to expand
I would never take a risk like that.
I will absolutely listen to your advice! Thanks 🙂 Your comments calmed me down!
I texted her today..nothing special..she replied within minutes, and we had a great little conversation about nothing really..but still. She's alive, hah!
Posted by CapnPosted by incandescentcancerWoah! You just read my mind! I have no reason to believe she's not interested any more..and yeah, if it's true what you say, they go hiding (wich seems legit now), that is totally confusing..why would they risk losing the other persons interest in them..just because they dont want to show theirs? Just to pull a stunt..? That is kinda cruel, hehe.Posted by CapnI know how you feel. I am giving my girl some space right now, I think she needs it. When women get overwhelmed on the company of an intense man or they are feeling something intense very quickly, I think they tend to hide. Give her some time and be persistent. That's what I am going to do. Being a cap moon myself, I understand you're irritated and probably annoyed by what you think is not adult or serious behavior but this can't be helped.
Hi!
Thank you all for commenting🙂 Appreciate it!
She is a mystery that one, and my head is working double overtime trying to figure her out.
The balance of wanting to see her vs not pushing her away is extremely delicate. I find it oh so hard to keep holding back my feelings... Crazycrazy!
@incandescentcancer : would love to hear how it works out between you 🙂
I think women know when a man truly likes them and tend to test him by pulling these stunts, you got to show her that you will drop her if it affects your self respect but at the same time you love her.
I would never take a risk like that.
I will absolutely listen to your advice! Thanks 🙂 Your comments calmed me down!
I texted her today..nothing special..she replied within minutes, and we had a great little conversation about nothing really..but still. She's alive, hah!
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Cancer females go off the grid and can seem cold, but if they like you ur in their thoughts somewhere....
Posted by CapnThere, with that little conversation she kept you on the hook. Women know how to feed a dog. Stay on course and steady on. I am holidaying right now and I am simply not going to text or call her for a couple of weeks and then go in and turn it on. It may or may not work but there's always another one.Posted by incandescentcancerWoah! You just read my mind! I have no reason to believe she's not interested any more..and yeah, if it's true what you say, they go hiding (wich seems legit now), that is totally confusing..why would they risk losing the other persons interest in them..just because they dont want to show theirs? Just to pull a stunt..? That is kinda cruel, hehe.Posted by CapnI know how you feel. I am giving my girl some space right now, I think she needs it. When women get overwhelmed on the company of an intense man or they are feeling something intense very quickly, I think they tend to hide. Give her some time and be persistent. That's what I am going to do. Being a cap moon myself, I understand you're irritated and probably annoyed by what you think is not adult or serious behavior but this can't be helped.
Hi!
Thank you all for commenting🙂 Appreciate it!
She is a mystery that one, and my head is working double overtime trying to figure her out.
The balance of wanting to see her vs not pushing her away is extremely delicate. I find it oh so hard to keep holding back my feelings... Crazycrazy!
@incandescentcancer : would love to hear how it works out between you 🙂
I think women know when a man truly likes them and tend to test him by pulling these stunts, you got to show her that you will drop her if it affects your self respect but at the same time you love her.
I would never take a risk like that.
I will absolutely listen to your advice! Thanks 🙂 Your comments calmed me down!
I texted her today..nothing special..she replied within minutes, and we had a great little conversation about nothing really..but still. She's alive, hah!
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Ignore or put interest into something else...... and watch the fun unfold....
Yeah, I know what you mean IC.. I`m hooked and fed, hah!
Do you think she plays me? I just don`t get that feeling. And if she does, she`s a terribly player. I reckon you saw I read your post about your cap girl.. that is high class play (and not in a good way).
The deal about this one is that she answers almost right away, and we can keep it going back and forth for a while.. but she rarely makes the first contact anymore.. she often did that before..this annoys me ofc.
I imagine she has drawn a bit into her shell.. not leaving to seek up something, but only comes out to grasp what comes to her.. Wish I could understand why and for how long... bah..
For my egoistic self I hope it`s because she feels something and need time to process it.. on the other hand, yes.. I could be playd ofc... question then is who is chasing who?
@lobo: U know, in this situation I would do that with any other girl.. but since I read up on cancers I see this red flags everywhere.. telling she will see right through that kinda bs., and that you should maintain being open, honest and trustworthy... Idk.. this way costs me a lot.. I`m usually to proud to put up with it.. don´t ask me why I do now.. heh! Though it would´ve been interesting to see her reaction to it.. if any at all.
Thanks again for discussing this with me.
Do you think she plays me? I just don`t get that feeling. And if she does, she`s a terribly player. I reckon you saw I read your post about your cap girl.. that is high class play (and not in a good way).
The deal about this one is that she answers almost right away, and we can keep it going back and forth for a while.. but she rarely makes the first contact anymore.. she often did that before..this annoys me ofc.
I imagine she has drawn a bit into her shell.. not leaving to seek up something, but only comes out to grasp what comes to her.. Wish I could understand why and for how long... bah..
For my egoistic self I hope it`s because she feels something and need time to process it.. on the other hand, yes.. I could be playd ofc... question then is who is chasing who?
@lobo: U know, in this situation I would do that with any other girl.. but since I read up on cancers I see this red flags everywhere.. telling she will see right through that kinda bs., and that you should maintain being open, honest and trustworthy... Idk.. this way costs me a lot.. I`m usually to proud to put up with it.. don´t ask me why I do now.. heh! Though it would´ve been interesting to see her reaction to it.. if any at all.
Thanks again for discussing this with me.
Op. I don't think it is a ploy. She is most likely unsure of your intensions and hopes that if you are still interested you will contact her. This is why she answered you when you did. Theore you do she will eventually relax and contact you first.
Posted by CapnDon't listen to what the womqen say here, you'll lose your mind. You will be dealing with the psychological problems of your girl and the ones here. Keep it simple and give yourself a deadline, if she isn't your girlfriend in a month or two she is never going to be. When women like a guy they go out of their way to do anything for him. Working for the girl is usually for guys who aren't going to get her. You're the safe house till she gets a better deal. My view on women has been unchanged in ages and I am yet to be proven wrong.
Yeah, I know what you mean IC.. I`m hooked and fed, hah!
Do you think she plays me? I just don`t get that feeling. And if she does, she`s a terribly player. I reckon you saw I read your post about your cap girl.. that is high class play (and not in a good way).
The deal about this one is that she answers almost right away, and we can keep it going back and forth for a while.. but she rarely makes the first contact anymore.. she often did that before..this annoys me ofc.
I imagine she has drawn a bit into her shell.. not leaving to seek up something, but only comes out to grasp what comes to her.. Wish I could understand why and for how long... bah..
For my egoistic self I hope it`s because she feels something and need time to process it.. on the other hand, yes.. I could be playd ofc... question then is who is chasing who?
@lobo: U know, in this situation I would do that with any other girl.. but since I read up on cancers I see this red flags everywhere.. telling she will see right through that kinda bs., and that you should maintain being open, honest and trustworthy... Idk.. this way costs me a lot.. I`m usually to proud to put up with it.. don´t ask me why I do now.. heh! Though it would´ve been interesting to see her reaction to it.. if any at all.
Thanks again for discussing this with me.
You think I am going to serenade that cap girl for years? She's got two months, that's it.
@inthecloud
@scruffles
Thank you both for commenting.
It is really interesting reading your thoughts on this. It is so weird you know.. I am used to people being straight forward, and if they aint, they usually up to no good.
Your comments on this is like a massage to my brain It never lets me rest until I figure out what is going on.. can`t sleep, eat or concentrate. Not at all healthy, but I am used to it being like this..it will pass. Being a good cap I try to organize and sort it out.
She is a very different kinda woman (from the others I know), being the very opposite of what I find effective.. Despite that, the attraction-level is so high. I don`t understand it.
She comes with a wide range of challenges for my personality.. and in a weird way I kind of love-hate that (maybe that is the reason for the attraction..being very goal-achieving at almost all costs)..most prominent, the time this takes. Oh-my-lord! Whatever happened to getting things done, hah (No offence to you cancers)! Holding back and follow her rythm is a painful exercise when getting so little. Both of us live alone a 10 minute drive from eachother.. and we sit at our own places..alone..waiting... feels like such a waste of precious time, hehe!
But I am beginning to understand her personality..and that makes me relax a bit, just trying to wrap my head around it and convince myself her slow way is no danger-sign. Could be a good thing too.
I read that cancers feel with their hearts the same way caps think and rationalize.. poor girl.. she`s in for a heart attack.
I can`t really understand it though. It is interesting, yet very ungraspable to me.
Wow.. I just write and write about this.. and I guess it is mostly interesting for myself, haha!
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As I said, thank you for commenting and supporting.
I would love to hear your thoughts about this, wich for me is the biggest dilemma at this time:
How much is acceptable, and how much is too much?
I do not want to push her, just to show her I think of her without being creepy or coming on too strong.
I am not going to ask her to meet for at least another week, and I am not asking her a bunch of questions about us and how she feels.. no need to put her on the spot.
I aim only to maintain a little contact.. asking her how her day was, texting her good night and such.. Is doing this every day too much?
And.. does it mean anything if she only replies in a positive way, but not asking anything in return? Or is this normal? I would interpret that as not very interested.. only nice for the sake of it.
And yeah.. If you have any tips about how to approach her in a way she could respond positive to, I am all ears
@scruffles: "Doesn't sound to me like you have a problem." THANK YOU for this!
@scruffles
Thank you both for commenting.
It is really interesting reading your thoughts on this. It is so weird you know.. I am used to people being straight forward, and if they aint, they usually up to no good.
Your comments on this is like a massage to my brain It never lets me rest until I figure out what is going on.. can`t sleep, eat or concentrate. Not at all healthy, but I am used to it being like this..it will pass. Being a good cap I try to organize and sort it out.
She is a very different kinda woman (from the others I know), being the very opposite of what I find effective.. Despite that, the attraction-level is so high. I don`t understand it.
She comes with a wide range of challenges for my personality.. and in a weird way I kind of love-hate that (maybe that is the reason for the attraction..being very goal-achieving at almost all costs)..most prominent, the time this takes. Oh-my-lord! Whatever happened to getting things done, hah (No offence to you cancers)! Holding back and follow her rythm is a painful exercise when getting so little. Both of us live alone a 10 minute drive from eachother.. and we sit at our own places..alone..waiting... feels like such a waste of precious time, hehe!
But I am beginning to understand her personality..and that makes me relax a bit, just trying to wrap my head around it and convince myself her slow way is no danger-sign. Could be a good thing too.
I read that cancers feel with their hearts the same way caps think and rationalize.. poor girl.. she`s in for a heart attack.
I can`t really understand it though. It is interesting, yet very ungraspable to me.
Wow.. I just write and write about this.. and I guess it is mostly interesting for myself, haha!
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As I said, thank you for commenting and supporting.
I would love to hear your thoughts about this, wich for me is the biggest dilemma at this time:
How much is acceptable, and how much is too much?
I do not want to push her, just to show her I think of her without being creepy or coming on too strong.
I am not going to ask her to meet for at least another week, and I am not asking her a bunch of questions about us and how she feels.. no need to put her on the spot.
I aim only to maintain a little contact.. asking her how her day was, texting her good night and such.. Is doing this every day too much?
And.. does it mean anything if she only replies in a positive way, but not asking anything in return? Or is this normal? I would interpret that as not very interested.. only nice for the sake of it.
And yeah.. If you have any tips about how to approach her in a way she could respond positive to, I am all ears
@scruffles: "Doesn't sound to me like you have a problem." THANK YOU for this!
Posted by incandescentcancerThanks for the tip... aaand I realize I just did.. hah!Posted by CapnDon't listen to what the womqen say here, you'll lose your mind. You will be dealing with the psychological problems of your girl and the ones here. Keep it simple and give yourself a deadline, if she isn't your girlfriend in a month or two she is never going to be. When women like a guy they go out of their way to do anything for him. Working for the girl is usually for guys who aren't going to get her. You're the safe house till she gets a better deal. My view on women has been unchanged in ages and I am yet to be proven wrong.
Yeah, I know what you mean IC.. I`m hooked and fed, hah!
Do you think she plays me? I just don`t get that feeling. And if she does, she`s a terribly player. I reckon you saw I read your post about your cap girl.. that is high class play (and not in a good way).
The deal about this one is that she answers almost right away, and we can keep it going back and forth for a while.. but she rarely makes the first contact anymore.. she often did that before..this annoys me ofc.
I imagine she has drawn a bit into her shell.. not leaving to seek up something, but only comes out to grasp what comes to her.. Wish I could understand why and for how long... bah..
For my egoistic self I hope it`s because she feels something and need time to process it.. on the other hand, yes.. I could be playd ofc... question then is who is chasing who?
@lobo: U know, in this situation I would do that with any other girl.. but since I read up on cancers I see this red flags everywhere.. telling she will see right through that kinda bs., and that you should maintain being open, honest and trustworthy... Idk.. this way costs me a lot.. I`m usually to proud to put up with it.. don´t ask me why I do now.. heh! Though it would´ve been interesting to see her reaction to it.. if any at all.
Thanks again for discussing this with me.
You think I am going to serenade that cap girl for years? She's got two months, that's it.click to expand
I do not think you`re going to do that, no.. You front yourself as way more mature than that. And that will eventually be the case for me to if nothing happens. I think a deadline is risky business though.. altough I see what you mean. It has to come to a stop if the spiral is more down then up over time. And... I dont want to loose more of this mind.
Needles to say..I value every comment and opinion you guys write me. Male or female is of no importance. I think it is awesome that strangers actually bother to give me feedback on my situation 🙂
What is up with the cancer/cap attraction? I hate that cancers get cap men so easily LOL
It' s interesting to read your post and your perspective, I dated/am talking to a cancer guy.. They seem very cautious and want to be SURE that you like them or else they won't reach out.
It's funny how her coldness is driving you up the wall, sorry. You're the guy! Go after her if you want something with her. I also have a cancer girl best friend from second grade. I always have to be the one to contact her first, it's just how she is. She's really caring and loving toward me though once I reach out.
Why don't you try to court her and ask her out on a date? What's the worst that could happen?
It' s interesting to read your post and your perspective, I dated/am talking to a cancer guy.. They seem very cautious and want to be SURE that you like them or else they won't reach out.
It's funny how her coldness is driving you up the wall, sorry. You're the guy! Go after her if you want something with her. I also have a cancer girl best friend from second grade. I always have to be the one to contact her first, it's just how she is. She's really caring and loving toward me though once I reach out.
Why don't you try to court her and ask her out on a date? What's the worst that could happen?
Posted by OrangedreamsSlightly confused, are you a cap woman or man?
What is up with the cancer/cap attraction? I hate that cancers get cap men so easily LOL
It' s interesting to read your post and your perspective, I dated/am talking to a cancer guy.. They seem very cautious and want to be SURE that you like them or else they won't reach out.
It's funny how her coldness is driving you up the wall, sorry. You're the guy! Go after her if you want something with her. I also have a cancer girl best friend from second grade. I always have to be the one to contact her first, it's just how she is. She's really caring and loving toward me though once I reach out.
Why don't you try to court her and ask her out on a date? What's the worst that could happen?
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by OrangedreamsSlightly confused, are you a cap woman or man?
What is up with the cancer/cap attraction? I hate that cancers get cap men so easily LOL
It' s interesting to read your post and your perspective, I dated/am talking to a cancer guy.. They seem very cautious and want to be SURE that you like them or else they won't reach out.
It's funny how her coldness is driving you up the wall, sorry. You're the guy! Go after her if you want something with her. I also have a cancer girl best friend from second grade. I always have to be the one to contact her first, it's just how she is. She's really caring and loving toward me though once I reach out.
Why don't you try to court her and ask her out on a date? What's the worst that could happen?click to expand
Aqua girl checking up on this cool cappie 😛
Posted by OrangedreamsLol...troll 😛Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by OrangedreamsSlightly confused, are you a cap woman or man?
What is up with the cancer/cap attraction? I hate that cancers get cap men so easily LOL
It' s interesting to read your post and your perspective, I dated/am talking to a cancer guy.. They seem very cautious and want to be SURE that you like them or else they won't reach out.
It's funny how her coldness is driving you up the wall, sorry. You're the guy! Go after her if you want something with her. I also have a cancer girl best friend from second grade. I always have to be the one to contact her first, it's just how she is. She's really caring and loving toward me though once I reach out.
Why don't you try to court her and ask her out on a date? What's the worst that could happen?
Aqua girl checking up on this cool cappie 😛click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by OrangedreamsLol...troll 😛Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by OrangedreamsSlightly confused, are you a cap woman or man?
What is up with the cancer/cap attraction? I hate that cancers get cap men so easily LOL
It' s interesting to read your post and your perspective, I dated/am talking to a cancer guy.. They seem very cautious and want to be SURE that you like them or else they won't reach out.
It's funny how her coldness is driving you up the wall, sorry. You're the guy! Go after her if you want something with her. I also have a cancer girl best friend from second grade. I always have to be the one to contact her first, it's just how she is. She's really caring and loving toward me though once I reach out.
Why don't you try to court her and ask her out on a date? What's the worst that could happen?
Aqua girl checking up on this cool cappie 😛click to expand
I'm not trolling. I'm telling him to go for it.
Posted by OrangedreamsYeah I know, I am kidding. Are you seeing a cancer?Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by OrangedreamsLol...troll 😛Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by OrangedreamsSlightly confused, are you a cap woman or man?
What is up with the cancer/cap attraction? I hate that cancers get cap men so easily LOL
It' s interesting to read your post and your perspective, I dated/am talking to a cancer guy.. They seem very cautious and want to be SURE that you like them or else they won't reach out.
It's funny how her coldness is driving you up the wall, sorry. You're the guy! Go after her if you want something with her. I also have a cancer girl best friend from second grade. I always have to be the one to contact her first, it's just how she is. She's really caring and loving toward me though once I reach out.
Why don't you try to court her and ask her out on a date? What's the worst that could happen?
Aqua girl checking up on this cool cappie 😛
I'm not trolling. I'm telling him to go for it.click to expand
Posted by OrangedreamsI also hate that! Haha!
What is up with the cancer/cap attraction? I hate that cancers get cap men so easily LOL
It' s interesting to read your post and your perspective, I dated/am talking to a cancer guy.. They seem very cautious and want to be SURE that you like them or else they won't reach out.
It's funny how her coldness is driving you up the wall, sorry. You're the guy! Go after her if you want something with her. I also have a cancer girl best friend from second grade. I always have to be the one to contact her first, it's just how she is. She's really caring and loving toward me though once I reach out.
Why don't you try to court her and ask her out on a date? What's the worst that could happen?
I'm glad you found this thread. As you see, we've both got our love-problems. I rarely fall for someone this hard, and it is so frustrating to keep it locked in. I know you know all about it.
She is the reason I signed up here, to get some advice.. And..aint it funny how you and me now can write back and forth backing up eachother!? Thats awesome!
Thanks for sharing about your cancer friend + date (but..u in love with a cap..zup with that?).. They are sooo crazy cautious I just can't understand it.
But hey.. Patience is key then. As it is with caps..+ sneaking the control from him. Hehe! U gonna be fine! No worries 🙂
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by OrangedreamsYeah I know, I am kidding. Are you seeing a cancer?Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by OrangedreamsLol...troll 😛Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by OrangedreamsSlightly confused, are you a cap woman or man?
What is up with the cancer/cap attraction? I hate that cancers get cap men so easily LOL
It' s interesting to read your post and your perspective, I dated/am talking to a cancer guy.. They seem very cautious and want to be SURE that you like them or else they won't reach out.
It's funny how her coldness is driving you up the wall, sorry. You're the guy! Go after her if you want something with her. I also have a cancer girl best friend from second grade. I always have to be the one to contact her first, it's just how she is. She's really caring and loving toward me though once I reach out.
Why don't you try to court her and ask her out on a date? What's the worst that could happen?
Aqua girl checking up on this cool cappie 😛
I'm not trolling. I'm telling him to go for it.click to expand
Sorta. I was stuck on one for a while, we talk every now and then and I'm pretty much moved. We couldn't agree on making plans and have argued so many times. Yet we still talk. The vibe I get from him is its his way or the highway and he's a princess LOL
Posted by CapnPosted by OrangedreamsI also hate that! Haha!
What is up with the cancer/cap attraction? I hate that cancers get cap men so easily LOL
It' s interesting to read your post and your perspective, I dated/am talking to a cancer guy.. They seem very cautious and want to be SURE that you like them or else they won't reach out.
It's funny how her coldness is driving you up the wall, sorry. You're the guy! Go after her if you want something with her. I also have a cancer girl best friend from second grade. I always have to be the one to contact her first, it's just how she is. She's really caring and loving toward me though once I reach out.
Why don't you try to court her and ask her out on a date? What's the worst that could happen?
I'm glad you found this thread. As you see, we've both got our love-problems. I rarely fall for someone this hard, and it is so frustrating to keep it locked in. I know you know all about it.
She is the reason I signed up here, to get some advice.. And..aint it funny how you and me now can write back and forth backing up eachother!? Thats awesome!
Thanks for sharing about your cancer friend + date (but..u in love with a cap..zup with that?).. They are sooo crazy cautious I just can't understand it.
But hey.. Patience is key then. As it is with caps..+ sneaking the control from him. Hehe! U gonna be fine! No worries 🙂click to expand
Yeah I understand! I think my girl crappie friend is also hung up on her cancer ex gf. Not too sure what happened there. The crappie is very aloof with most people and shy so I'm surprised she fell for this girl....
Whacha gonna do with this cancer girl? What's stopping you?
Hahahaha cappie not crappie. That's pretty funny though.
Posted by BlackMambaPosted by OrangedreamsWe wear down caps and they want to protect usPosted by CapnPosted by OrangedreamsI also hate that! Haha!
What is up with the cancer/cap attraction? I hate that cancers get cap men so easily LOL
It' s interesting to read your post and your perspective, I dated/am talking to a cancer guy.. They seem very cautious and want to be SURE that you like them or else they won't reach out.
It's funny how her coldness is driving you up the wall, sorry. You're the guy! Go after her if you want something with her. I also have a cancer girl best friend from second grade. I always have to be the one to contact her first, it's just how she is. She's really caring and loving toward me though once I reach out.
Why don't you try to court her and ask her out on a date? What's the worst that could happen?
I'm glad you found this thread. As you see, we've both got our love-problems. I rarely fall for someone this hard, and it is so frustrating to keep it locked in. I know you know all about it.
She is the reason I signed up here, to get some advice.. And..aint it funny how you and me now can write back and forth backing up eachother!? Thats awesome!
Thanks for sharing about your cancer friend + date (but..u in love with a cap..zup with that?).. They are sooo crazy cautious I just can't understand it.
But hey.. Patience is key then. As it is with caps..+ sneaking the control from him. Hehe! U gonna be fine! No worries 🙂
Yeah I understand! I think my girl crappie friend is also hung up on her cancer ex gf. Not too sure what happened there. The crappie is very aloof with most people and shy so I'm surprised she fell for this girl....
Whacha gonna do with this cancer girl? What's stopping you?click to expand
What do you mean wear them out?
Posted by OrangedreamsYeah, Cancer guys think they're the prize not the girl. It's weird but that's how it is.Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by OrangedreamsYeah I know, I am kidding. Are you seeing a cancer?Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by OrangedreamsLol...troll 😛Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by OrangedreamsSlightly confused, are you a cap woman or man?
What is up with the cancer/cap attraction? I hate that cancers get cap men so easily LOL
It' s interesting to read your post and your perspective, I dated/am talking to a cancer guy.. They seem very cautious and want to be SURE that you like them or else they won't reach out.
It's funny how her coldness is driving you up the wall, sorry. You're the guy! Go after her if you want something with her. I also have a cancer girl best friend from second grade. I always have to be the one to contact her first, it's just how she is. She's really caring and loving toward me though once I reach out.
Why don't you try to court her and ask her out on a date? What's the worst that could happen?
Aqua girl checking up on this cool cappie 😛
I'm not trolling. I'm telling him to go for it.
Sorta. I was stuck on one for a while, we talk every now and then and I'm pretty much moved. We couldn't agree on making plans and have argued so many times. Yet we still talk. The vibe I get from him is its his way or the highway and he's a princess LOLclick to expand
Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberI work with two Goat women, yes there is something special going on.Posted by LunarMaidenWhat drugs are you on, woman?
I feel like there is a special bond between Goats and Crabs.
Must be some really high quality shit for you to be this delusional.click to expand
However, one of them can get very annoying. The other is just a delight.
Less experience with the dudes except my stepfather, I loved him; he could get on my nerves too.
Posted by OrangedreamsYeh.. We texted a little the other day, and I ended up asking her if she wanted to see a movie at her place some day.. She did. Hurray. So I'll meet her at the end of this weekend.. Some of the "problem" is that I feel it's not moving forward (but I guess she feels it does, hah)..and I am nooot going to be stuck in the friendzone.. It is painfully slow, but I know better than to push it too much. Just have to see how it goes 🙂Posted by CapnPosted by OrangedreamsI also hate that! Haha!
What is up with the cancer/cap attraction? I hate that cancers get cap men so easily LOL
It' s interesting to read your post and your perspective, I dated/am talking to a cancer guy.. They seem very cautious and want to be SURE that you like them or else they won't reach out.
It's funny how her coldness is driving you up the wall, sorry. You're the guy! Go after her if you want something with her. I also have a cancer girl best friend from second grade. I always have to be the one to contact her first, it's just how she is. She's really caring and loving toward me though once I reach out.
Why don't you try to court her and ask her out on a date? What's the worst that could happen?
I'm glad you found this thread. As you see, we've both got our love-problems. I rarely fall for someone this hard, and it is so frustrating to keep it locked in. I know you know all about it.
She is the reason I signed up here, to get some advice.. And..aint it funny how you and me now can write back and forth backing up eachother!? Thats awesome!
Thanks for sharing about your cancer friend + date (but..u in love with a cap..zup with that?).. They are sooo crazy cautious I just can't understand it.
But hey.. Patience is key then. As it is with caps..+ sneaking the control from him. Hehe! U gonna be fine! No worries 🙂
Yeah I understand! I think my girl crappie friend is also hung up on her cancer ex gf. Not too sure what happened there. The crappie is very aloof with most people and shy so I'm surprised she fell for this girl....
Whacha gonna do with this cancer girl? What's stopping you?click to expand
Mmmmgoats. You should call her. Stop playing games. Gats and crabs are supposed to be dreamy. I don't know. It's what I witnessed. My besties are partners in crime.
Gats are the new goats hahaha!
Calls> texts
Posted by kissmygritsHi.
Mmmmgoats. You should call her. Stop playing games. Gats and crabs are supposed to be dreamy. I don't know. It's what I witnessed. My besties are partners in crime.
Little surprised you think I'm playing games.. Because..I am really not. But if you see it different I would love to hear why!🙂
Oh..I didn't realize that calling would be better than texting. Is it? Don't you think she would see at as me trying to hard? I am doing my best to be patient, give her space and take it slow.. But yeah.. I could call her...just try it and see how it plays out 🙂
Oh no I'm not saying you are. I'm saying don't do it. Sometimes it happens without realizing it.
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Short story: She admitted she has been into me for several months, but not taking any initiative because I was in a relationship.
When I broke up with my gf I started seeing this cancer woman. We are about the same age, slightly above mid 20s.
Altough she admits she is interestet in me and says she wants to keep messaging and meet me I sense she is holding back a lot. She is never taking any initiative, but responds positive when I do. Some days ago we sat and talked for several hours..and altough I am really scared of pushing her away, I had to kiss her. Her response was overwhelming.. she pulled me closer and we made out for a long time.
I texted her later that evening that I really appreciated her company..and she replyed that she had had a lovely evening.
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If I dont initiate, nothing happens..if I initiate too much, she will surely run away..
I reaaally need som advice from cancer-ladies here. I just want her to see I am a good guy with honest intentions..not going to break her heart. And yes, I can be patient, and it would really help if she gave some signs of interest now and then.
Why is she acting like this, and what on earth should I do?
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