New Cancer

Hi everyone:



So i met this cancer at the club last nite and i hit her uo today just making sure she got home safe.

we ended up talking all day and she a really cool person.


Subjects range from school or sex, well we realy got into the sex part. She was telling me the positions she like and all that good stuff and i was telling her what i liked also. Out of nowhere she said this convo is getting to hot, i replied so what> she then said hey i'll ttyl and i said ok.




Does this mean anything?


was all this 2 much 2 soon even doe she started it

Yea, we are uncomfortable talking about sex. sex to us is a private thing and considered somthing one shouldn't talk about on a first convo.

Yeah u guys are right but why would she bring it up if she couldnt handle it.

another thing is our convos have been kind of dry because tues - friday she works all day and i cant really talk to her> i said good morning a few times and we had few words but nothing serious because she is at work.

it's werid to me cause we went from having a really nice convo to nothing.

how do i get her intrested?

the only date we planned was playing wii.


do cancer like aggresive direct or more laid back>

im the type if our convos are dry wont hit u up for 2 or 3 days. Does this affect cancer in a way they think your not intrested so they might write u off.

"im the type if our convos are dry wont hit u up for 2 or 3 days. Does this affect cancer in a way they think your not intrested so they might write u off." Yes. If you like her give her alots of attention in a friendly manner. You need to be constant like mooneyes said to make her feel safe and she will come out of her shell and open up. Other wise ya she probably will right you off and close you out.

we just met and like i said we had a good convo once but she is really cool. we talked about everything but liked i said tues - friday she works long 12 hour days i dont wanna bother her cause she always busy. i dont want her to forget about me either>




How do i keep her attention with out entruding?


i've said goodmorning this week but convo been limited to almost nothing,

show i wait till this weekend to speak to her?


when i talk to her she she was still intrested in our wii date so i guess were ok.
Things just fealt werid because i always hit her up she's only hit me up once.

that was sunday night after we had that great convo in the afternoon but i was at work > i text her when i got off at 1 but she naturally said she was going to sleep.

By the way went i met her in the club i didnt ask for her number i asked for her blackberry pin so we've been messaging.

I thought that was a slick way to get her attention because i noticed she had the same phone i did so i aked for her pin. she gave me her phone and i just copied and hit her up the nex day just asking if she made it home safe. We clicked immiediatley she kinda witty and smart.


I just want a date so my personality can shine i'm not a big texter, sometimes i get stuck.

Well yesterday i sent a message saying that if she wanted to chill this weekend hit me up. i also apologize for the sex talk told her i didnt mean to make her feel uncomfortable. I put it out there that i thought that she was a fun crazy type like me and i know if we chilled we would have fun, i can always use a cool friend. She never responded so i guess i'm just gonna leave things alone.


I take it that's she just not intrested

thanks lou.m




cancers are strange lol.

where did i go wrong so i know not to do this again

she was a cool person 2 bad we couldnt have atleast been friends. There isnt 2 many people i hit it off right away with but o well

lou. m i'm not a guy lol but thanks anyway.


U know what was funny she said she's only had 1 female in her whole bi life style , she stated that no one was willing to step up to the plate.


She also told me she gets bored quick so that's why she doesnt keep 2 many people around.


if u dont keep people around long enough to see if they are worthy enough to step up how can u get mad that's you've never had a meanful les experince

thanks lou.m your really sweet.


if i say hi to a cancer weeks or months later will that upset her?


she on my bb list and knowing me i would say hi just to say hi nothing more.

Posted by virgo28
lou. m i'm not a guy lol but thanks anyway.


U know what was funny she said she's only had 1 female in her whole bi life style , she stated that no one was willing to step up to the plate.


She also told me she gets bored quick so that's why she doesnt keep 2 many people around.


if u dont keep people around long enough to see if they are worthy enough to step up how can u get mad that's you've never had a meanful les experince

I think that this is your answer right here. She's not lesbian - she is Bi. And she has only been with one female her whole life because other women 'won't step to the plate' ? Isn't that what you are doing?

Honestly - I think that she is most likely still insecure with her sexuality. She obviously is curious; but being with only one female seems like she's still in her 'experimental' sort of phase.

Can't really call this one; idk. It def seems more like she was testing the waters, it got too 'real' for her, and she bolted.

I'm bisexual myself, and when I started opening up about 10 years ago; it was pretty nerve wracking. Especially going from a male to a female.

Honestly - even if she did respond; do you really want a rook?

Honestly I love rooks I kinda like to show people the ropes. Well I actually talk to her last nite for a brief moment. She text me asking how I was doing. I was at work
Work so I didn't get back to her right away. Maybe 10 mins later and asked her how she was. I really couldn't talk because I was drivin so I couldn't respond like I wanted to. First she told me she was doing the same. And would contact me when she got home. I knew she was bullshitting cause I wasn't paying her no mind. She sounded like she wanted that "I contact u later on power"

Lmao this girl is mad werid i said morning to her today and she reply morning sweet stuff we exchanged a couple words before she started work and everything was all good.


what i dont understand is this games or i'll get to u when i get to you.

I really dont know any cancers so honestly guys what is this behavior? One day your totally cool the next i dont hear from you. i'm ok with not talking to her everyday all day but damm can i get sometime to know u.



How do i get her attention?


i'm on spring break nextweek and i know she's off on monday's so i was thinking about inviting her to chill with me for a lil bit on monday. How should i go about this or is it even worth it. If i ask her when should i do it because i know "aqua" you cant make plans they suck at keeping them. Are cancers the same?


lou.m how are u when u first met people are u reserved or what?

I love reading your responds they are never too long for me, remember im a virgo i love details and over anaylizing things.


LoL at you thinking im sensative i'm far from it i just cant figure her out so i guess i come across really soft.

emotionally i can be a bytch but i'm trying to change that about myself.


I still need these questions answered please .

"what i dont understand is this games or i'll get to u when i get to you.

I really dont know any cancers so honestly guys what is this behavior? One day your totally cool the next i dont hear from you. i'm ok with not talking to her everyday all day but damm can i get sometime to know u.



How do i get her attention?"


I need a sensative caring woman with common sense in my life. i've been dating a libra and it's hell i love her to death but she has no common sense.

i think if i can get this cancers attention we may work, she seems like she has her shyt togeather

yeah this trouble isnt worth it i thought aquas were crazy u guys take the cake.

Im going to fall back this shyt aint worth it.