Ok cancer guys get in here

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by AngelGrace on Friday, May 24, 2019 and has 20 replies.
So I'm with a cancer guy,we've been together for 9 months yh,yh I've had emotional distress and happiness from dating him,the distress because I don't understand him at times.

So now,for about 3 weeks,he says he's been busy I've been asking for a hang out,finally we saw yesterday night but he promised me today so we could be with each other for a longer time,but today it flopped, now this is not new to me because he says he can't make it sometimes.

Yh we've had a few sleepovers and I don't know it didn't turn out that lovely.

But a sleepover is when I get to be with him for real, I'm asking and he's not responding.

I've cheated on him for these same reasons and he's forgiven me.

First I don't know what to do

2. I feel like cheating again (I cheated with a sag).

3.he's a politician, and there's inauguration on the 26th.

4.kindly help a Leo out and tell me what's going on that I can't see,will ya?

Thanks
Yes ,he's married with two kids,says he wants a girl and I'm supposed to give him that,but trust me with this guy going off and on I won't.
Yes ,he's married with two kids,says he wants a girl and I'm supposed to give him that,but trust me with this guy going off and on I won't.

Everything makes me feel like I'm disturbing but if I ask him he will say no.
Yes ,he's married with two kids,says he wants a girl and I'm supposed to give him that,but trust me with this guy going off and on I won't.

Everything makes me feel like I'm disturbing but if I ask him he will say no.
Well I'm not sure she's supposed to be happy ,but I'm sure she knows
Don't be the home wrecker, no one likes that type of girl. Have more respect for yourself and for the others woman and their children. I think fire signs tend to be okay with being the 3rd party or mistress. I don't agree with this, so you should leave it alone.
What!!!! You're getting it wrong,im not the home wrecker,

In fact while we're dating.he had sex with another girl and she almost wrecked his home.,because his wife became furious,now what was I doing during that period,wondering why my boyfriend hasn't called for two weeks.I was shocked when I heard it,because I respect his family a lot and cut my time short with him so he can be with his family,I never cross that family line,never.

But because we're in Africa its kind of a normal thing for a married man to cheat to the guys but to the ladies its jealousy.

So trust me ,I'm not the first girl he's dated since he got married and I have no plans of wrecking anything.

His wife knows me but is she supposed to be happy ,no,

Even though I leave him ,he'll date someone else.Grab?
OK so what do you guys think I should do.

Leave him and go on.

Blackmamba ,you're funny sis,but thanks yh,did I make it sound like we're in a sex relationship ,oh my smile.

West Africa,

I'm not trying to paint us bad but just so you can get an idea of what I'm saying.

There are faithful people here too
Posted by AngelGrace

OK so what do you guys think I should do.

Leave him and go on.

I think you should stop being a troll, cause you can't be for real.
Yo no insults,I'm not a troll OK.

I need advice ,and I'm for real,you think I made this all up,really.
and you are thinking of bringing a child into this mess ? even if he wasn't acting up lately ...
Posted by Phantom_Limbo

Posted by STILL

Posted by AngelGrace

OK so what do you guys think I should do.

Leave him and go on.

I think you should stop being a troll, cause you can't be for real.
I'm suspicious because she has "Angel" in her name. lol
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lol I'm going to keep my tongue tamed on this one.

if you're messing with him and his wife knows and stays with him. Since he seems to do this often you're likely to feel heartbroken like his wife probably feels rn
Posted by Phantom_Limbo

Posted by STILL

Posted by AngelGrace

OK so what do you guys think I should do.

Leave him and go on.

I think you should stop being a troll, cause you can't be for real.
I'm suspicious because she has "Angel" in her name. lol
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I'm not as good at eloquently insulting people like others are. My insults sounds like insults, so I tame my tongue.
Posted by AngelGrace

What!!!! You're getting it wrong,im not the home wrecker,

In fact while we're dating.he had sex with another girl and she almost wrecked his home.,because his wife became furious,now what was I doing during that period,wondering why my boyfriend hasn't called for two weeks.I was shocked when I heard it,because I respect his family a lot and cut my time short with him so he can be with his family,I never cross that family line,never.

But because we're in Africa its kind of a normal thing for a married man to cheat to the guys but to the ladies its jealousy.

So trust me ,I'm not the first girl he's dated since he got married and I have no plans of wrecking anything.

His wife knows me but is she supposed to be happy ,no,

Even though I leave him ,he'll date someone else.Grab?


What about you? Are you happy in this relationship?
Posted by tctaap

and you are thinking of bringing a child into this mess ? even if he wasn't acting up lately ...
No you probably didnt read it well,I said he wants a girl and that's not my priority
Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by AngelGrace

Blackmamba ,you're funny sis,but thanks yh,did I make it sound like we're in a sex relationship ,oh my smile.

so its all emotional. interesting.


why are you wasting your time on a married man? do you have no hope of finding a man of your own?
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I don't think you've ever dated a married man.

Whether or not you agree to dating them,they all chase you around till you say yes ,this guy chased me 8 months.

Plus I'm not marrying him OK,I'm just passing time.
Posted by puhleeze

Posted by AngelGrace

What!!!! You're getting it wrong,im not the home wrecker,

In fact while we're dating.he had sex with another girl and she almost wrecked his home.,because his wife became furious,now what was I doing during that period,wondering why my boyfriend hasn't called for two weeks.I was shocked when I heard it,because I respect his family a lot and cut my time short with him so he can be with his family,I never cross that family line,never.

But because we're in Africa its kind of a normal thing for a married man to cheat to the guys but to the ladies its jealousy.

So trust me ,I'm not the first girl he's dated since he got married and I have no plans of wrecking anything.

His wife knows me but is she supposed to be happy ,no,

Even though I leave him ,he'll date someone else.Grab?


What about you? Are you happy in this relationship?
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I'm not.