OKAY WTF—

so i call up my cancer male friend after ahwile , i talk with him for abit one morning, everything seemed fine, i told him i would call him later on that night, he said okay... so i called him, no answer.. whatever.
2 nights later i get this ranodm txt from him saying to leave him the fuck alone, that he hates me, syaing, id ont care what u think nothign will ever ahppen between us ( i never thought that, or said that) and he said he will ruin my life if i ever try to contact him agian.
then next day he messages me when i come online saying: too bad u came online jus as i decide to leave , ohwell ttyl.
and then the day after that he calls my cell aasking if i wnated to hang out, but i said i was busy.... what the hell was that about——

i would blame it on mercury in retrograde..lol. like decan said he sounds like an immature crab who has some emotional issues he needs to get resolved. so yeah just stay away..

Ok does he have a girlfriend? If so that could have been her that text the message erased it without him even knowing about it. Unfortunately there are women out there who would do something like that. So maybe you should ask him and see what he says. I honestly believe it was someone else, however I could be wrong.

nah, iluvmecancer, that is exactly how he talks, and it was from a computer becuase he cant txt from his phone.... but i also thought it could be his gf, but i highly doubt it. plus, this guy NEVER , EVER, EVER calls me, i am always the one callin him up.. so something was definately up with him that week.
unfortunately i did end up claling him the next week to hang out, and he stiffed, go figure... so havent talked to him since last week when he stiffed.
but i saw him last night while i was with our once mutual friends... he came over, spoke realy quietlyy, i tried not to look at him, stayed quiet, and then he left within a minute.

This thread cracks me up! Well he's definitely playing games...seems to be working too LOL!

Girl he has issues; And it's not fair the way he's treating you. Now you need to go into ignore phase, he plays too many games.

yah but Y IS HE PLAYING GAMES, WHY PLAY GAMES——?? for what purpose—— lol IM GETTIN TOO OLD FOR THESE SHINANAGINS lol

come out and straight up ask him what his problem is and why he is acting the way he is..pin him down and get the heart of the matter. sometimes people need a reality check..

im afraid to comfront him, becuase some how it always ends up to be my fault, and i always end up regretting it... or maybe im afraid of what the truth might be

there in lies the problem. he know he can do this to you because he knows there will be no consequences to his behavior. you keep letting him get away with it. remember we teach people how to treat us..

so wut do i say? whenever i get mad at him for flippin on me, his answer is always: i told u not to take what i say seriously, im moody, and i will never change, its not alwyas about u, so dont make it about u.
thats why i didnt sya nothign babout his txt, i decided to brush it off, when i get angry at him, it takes more outta me

lol nice one mercinaries 😉

yah but Y IS HE PLAYING GAMES, WHY PLAY GAMES——?? for what purpose—— lol IM GETTIN TOO OLD FOR THESE SHINANAGINS lol

Well your hear aren't you LOL!! Its to drive women crazy and keep them off balance, to keep the women focused on him, keep intrigue and mystery at a high, when most women become unbalanced, they can't think straight and try to remedy the situation and find themselves dealing with a person they wouldn't normally deal with...it doesn't work on all women, it depends on the calibur of maturity level.

pretend like you don't care, ignore him, talk really f*cked up to him...I bet you he would fall in love lmao...

Its an adrenaline rush...he's looking for a woman he can play with, he's an emotional intensity junky..he probably doesn't even know he is, so he more than likely pulls this BS with every woman he meets so he's getting whatever emotion he gets from it on a daily.

he's playing games because he can and it feels good to him...simple as that

emotional crack LOL!! Thats what I call it these days

I know but unfortunately some people just never grow up.

tell him you don't appreciate him dumping on you whenever he feels like it and him being moody is not your problem. tell him whenever he feels moody to leave you alone until he can talk to you like a true friend and not some door mat. i have to give it to him to make you think it isn't about you because it is. it is about you when you are the one getting dogged out and his only excuse is he is moody and will never change. well he isn't going to change because you have not given him reason to..like giving him a hard kick to the tail..

wow, ahhaa.... i feel like such a puppet now....

he even said once: i dont get you, u are the biggest mystry to me, im mean to u, and your still nice to me, y, im a jerk...
and stupid me says: becuase ur worth it
he siad: dont say that, honetsly, dont say that... thne had to go.

thats jsu the wya i am, i dont liek to fight, i dont wnat to, i feel he needs me to fight back, but then it gets me all riled up and upset and i rtaher be happy.

wow, please ignore all those spellin errors lol

yeah iloveme thats true but overall it works and thats the insidiousness of it all LOL!!

Men get plenty play with his method....excuse me I meant to say boys *wink*

Lil.ladie.taurus well I have played into the games men play but now I back my ass up, I know were it leads LOL! I still use my trusty friend on here when I need help but yeah its a mess...see he's being all f*cked up, PLAYING that I have mental moody issues BS, yep been thru that one too LOL! and your response is...your worth it...thats game, he's feeding his insecurities thru your positivity...thats lazy, cut him off LOL! Let him figure himself out on his own time...dayum he's good though LOL!

TIki ahha lol yaaaahh, i dont think ive met anyone who can play the game like he does lol, and i dont think he will ever be defeated, atleast not by me.

so wiat, all of you are syaing he sjus playing me.... no chance that he likes me? 😢

he might like you but i can he definitely say he doesn't have any respect for you..

the only way he will respect me is if i stand up to him? show no fear?

What's Up cansir?

the only way he will respect you is if you tell him you are not going to take his crap anymore. tell him until he can treat you with respect and like a true friend that you aren't going to play his game anymore..depending on how long you let him get away with it, it might be a little to late..like others have said he might not ever change..

I'm with Cansir on this one...he doesn't respect you b/c your being a doormat, letting him come into your space with all that crazy energy instead of checking him about his bad behavior and letting him know if he wants to be in your life he has to stop all the BS and cut him off until he shows he's worthy of your time and attention. You don't have to be a bitch about it, be firm with him, snap him back into reality.

Thats the main problem right there...that question..do he like me? Thats something you should KNOW FIRST before showing interest...never let a man know how you feel about him, this will turn him off, yeah he will come around to play and get a much needed ego boost but then he's off to bigger and more interesting pursuits, running towards the girl that says NO all the time LOL!

what up krobe? long time no talk..

Yeah, I cannot text I have reached my 499 limit. Sorry all, email me at krobe0@yahoo.com and I will hit your ALL back with all questions. Tikki, U R going 2 have 2 email me. I will email U later on. OK? This site is tripping. But, yeah, what's up Cansir, I have missed U.

this has nothing to do with signs. this issue is about respecting another human being and he isn't doing that..

yah ic wut ur saying.....i shouldve played it right from the beginning, he showed interest in me in the beginning, but then i started giving him everything he wnated without a challenge, and now look where we are.

missed you too krobe. send me a pm when you have time :-)

NO look where U R. Don't do that. BIG NO NO! U R not a man's mama and don't try 2 act like 1. Make that man work 4 U. U R the prize. U feel me?

missed you too krobe. send me a pm when you have time :-)

Do U have email. U send it 2 me and I will email U. Send it in my inbox. And any other ladies. I am not ignoring U. I just trip out with my girl Tikki 2 much. LOL!

lol nooo... ive been chaisng guys all my life, i dont kno how to be confident, i dont kno how to make a man work for me... becuase he never calls to see whats up with me

lol nooo... ive been chaisng guys all my life, i dont kno how to be confident, i dont kno how to make a man work for me... becuase he never calls to see whats up with me

Because he know U R going 2 call first. Ignore him just as much as he ignores U. When U see him at the spot. Seduce him, let him in your space tease him, get him hot and intense and U break off first. LOL! And then don't call him no more and C if he does not start calling.

hmmmmm...... hahaha, i think i could do that... so baisclaly im holding off until, or if he calls me.... OHH naother thing, if he doenst call me, should i still clal to wish him a happy birthday, or dont.

Heck NO! Don't do that. He has done nothing but hurt U, the f with him. U R not in a relationship with him and U don't owe him a Happy Bday. So, No. Not until he agrees 2 B in a relationship with U should U do ANYTHING 4 him.

krobe delete some of your messages, I had that happen to me too, delete about 50 to 100 in your inbox or outbox and you will be able to receive and send...hope that helps

krobe delete some of your messages, I had that happen to me too, delete about 50 to 100 in your inbox or outbox and you will be able to receive and send...hope that helps

I tried this already it still does not work. LOL! I will text U on your yahoo email tonight. And we gonna chat chat chat it up. I get off at 7 so will hit U about 9-10

awwww, ur right.. he didnt wish me a happy birthday, y does he deserve one.. plus i wihs him one every yera.. maybe this can be a tiny lil kick in the head for him

damn, i really love u guys, you are all making me feeel so much better

Lil.ladie.taurus.... lol nooo... ive been chaisng guys all my life, i dont kno how to be confident, i dont kno how to make a man work for me... becuase he never calls to see whats up with me

Well I have a taurus rising and I always USED to chase but I know better now...if you can break the habit it will be the best thing you have ever done for yourself, it will save you a lot of time and energy TRYING TO CONVINCE a man that your WORTHY...guess who broke me from that...A LEO LMAO!!

LLT when you chase a man...GAME OVER...he has no reason to win your affection, your time, your energy, your heart...you have done all the work and a man wants to feel like a man, feel masculine, feel confident and good about the woman he's pursuing but if your chasing then you have essentially taken his role...THATS CONFUSING...so stop it, now I'm not saying step up from time to time but if your chasing 99% of the time then your really banging your head I bet LMAO!! I know I used to.

Stop trying to hold his hand...he has 10 other girls doing that more than likely...you be different.

okay 😄😄😄😄 i will stop... and if i feel liek slippin, i will inform u guys, so you can tell me : NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

WAIT, WHAT IF HE DOES DECIDE TO CLAL ME AND ASKS TO CHILL... WHAT DO I DO——??/ LOL

WAIT, WHAT IF HE DOES DECIDE TO CLAL ME AND ASKS TO CHILL... WHAT DO I DO——??/ LOL

Chill 4 what! Does he have a job and have his life established? If not, nope, get ghost.

chill = hang out
what u mean? sorry didnt understand.

chill = hang out
what u mean? sorry didnt understand

I MEANT does he have a JOB! Is HIS life established. If not tell him 2 get lost. Ditch it.

yah he has a job, he works pretty hard actually

No, well then that is up 2 U. Just don't JUMP at the first offer. Reject a few times simply because HE has not shown interest. Then accept if he persists. Quit being so easy.