Pisces girl, need advice from cancer people!

Hi there, I am a piscean, a true one at that. I was seeing my cancer man for a year and we broke up in Oct of this year. I had to tell him to leave my flat because our arguements were horrific. It was quite intense and too intense but a very loving and romantic relationship, we were so in love but I am very sensitive too much at times. However when we argued he was verbal and being an ultra sensitive pisces I couldnt really handle it and told him to leave me alone and to leave.
He always felt bad, guilty or simliar and would shower me with a gift the next day, apologise and I would eventually take him back, this happened a while in our relationship. However we both loved each other dearly.

He contacted me for a good month after our break, every week saying we are both stubborn can we not try and work this out? He was in contact, we met up again last month and he was very quiet, and then said lets go out the weekend, but for me I was always running away, leaving him again and this would bring up his real emotional side and his anger at that. He said he still likes me, and still loves me but I keep on "f***ing it up!" etc.

Its true to some extent but I am not one for opening up emotionally nor do I find it easy, thats me all over. As pisces are incredibly sensitive I find I dont deal with emotions that well, so I tend to run away or bottle things up.

So I decided, which is a first, to take a step back and give myself some time to think and see if my feelings for him are the same, do I miss him, do I need time to sort myself out what do I miss about him etc.

I did indeed miss his sweetness, tenderness, he is highly jealous, asks alot of questions about other men etc and always wondering where I was but for some reason those other qualiries out weigh his questions, some would say he is too moody and emotional, he was also on anti depressants too, so those 2 weeks I was back in contact, which is normally him. I asked how he was, how he is doing etc. He asked if I met anyone else, no I said and likewise for him. He was out last night with his friends and so was I, etc etc....and said to me, do you want me to come round tomorrow to see you. To which I replied yes that would be nice as he isnt working now til after Christmas time.

I am nervous...already even though it is tomorrow, I worry in case he lets me down and doesnt turn up. I told him I havent coped well without him, he somehow likes this...is that a cancer thing, they need you to need the

How old is he?

How old are you?

Do you love him?

Posted by ScorpioFish
How old is he?

How old are you?

Do you love him?

Hi there, he is 37, I am 38...yes I do!

Posted by Finbuff
Hi Jojo35....I had one huge, long term relationship with a Pisces woman. This was a long time ago, but still very fresh in memory. She was 5 years older than me, and I fell for her big time. Worked together in a gasket factory. We were a perfect personality match, she supported my Cancer moods and I propped up her need to feel attractive. We were very young and inexperienced in true love, living together and all, so over time I became restless and started looking elsewhere, particularly at all her very "hot" friends. (Keep in mind I was 19 - what do you expect?) This was back in the era of free-love and pot, so some of it was seen as cool, even though looking back on it now, it wasn't. One of the last straws was a three-some that just happened out of nowhere one hot summer day between me, her and her Taurus girlfriend that apparently wanted to steal her best friends man.

Cancer loves to be chased to some degree, and we never, ever let go, or forget about a love. He will keep coming back as long as you don't shut him off. But I would guess this is a losing battle for you, and I would try hard to let him go, because he's the leaving kind. If he valued your friendship and love, he would have never left in the 1st place. Plus, when Cancers are young and immature, we are very jealous, so I'm sure it bothers him that you might be out with one of his friends. Add anti-depressants into the mix and you have a very volatile, unsettle situation. I wouldn't trust the success of this relationship any farther than I could throw the two of you together! Be very careful, particularly if you have already made a clean break, and are starting to get a hold of your emotions for him. He will hurt you time and again, as long as you let him! Take stock of whether he loves you as much as you do him. This is the key, but very hard to quantify. Good luck!

thank you, he didnt leave me I kept on leaving him, he never wanted to leave, I am just wondering as he wants to see me like tomorrow, which i felt was quite soon as to why he wants it so soon, my friends are like, its incase you do a runner again and want to make sure, they could be right! I am also dating elsewhere too, but this I would never tell him, I am feeling quite lost, in limbo and also need a feeling of balance back in my life to feel like I am going somewhere otherwise I will carry on feeling this way. His hurt is