question to for you cancers..

Can someone insight me on this? it's hard for a capricorn to understand..

This cancer girl is really confusing and I can't understand her actions. I flirt and send beautiful messages and in the ones that are really intense i always say I can stop if you want. She keeps saying we're just friends but then lets talk to her like that and is very close to me. Everytime i try to get closer she stops me and we get into a huge fight. It's happened 4 times now that I've tried to get her to tell me how she really feels because her actions and words don't match up. This last time I was so confused I just showed her I wanted to kiss her and she basically told me to get out. I can't understand this when she doesn't treat me like all her other "friends". I've told her so many times I can be just friends but then why does she never treat me like one? She's told me about her family and everything...even tells me bout the guys that text her. She texts everyone..besides me...when she says she only wants to be friends. Never tells me to stop so yesterday i told her to be more assertive if she really wants me to stop these kinds of messages. It's a cycle i'm getting tired of..getting close..my capricorn uncertainty fear leads me to question her somehow, we get into a fight to where she wants me to leave her alone, a week later we're good and she's a part of my life again. I 100% don't mind just being her friend if she'd just treat me like one.

From learning about you guys I know that once you guys get mad, it only takes one time to where you'll never talk to a person again. Everytime these fights happen i get afraid of that because I'm so ok with just being her friend.

But so my question is, if you really were to never talk to a person again. Would you tell them? Cuz she hasn't replied in the last day to anything i've said and now i'm afraid to even text her.

Well we are known for mixed signals. We can be quite indecisive and flirty too. Based on what you said, I would give it time to contact her again (a couple of days). I know when I get mad at someone they NEVER know and I just cut them off. I have a bad habit of thinking that they "should" know why I got upset or what it is related to.

For some reason it's not posting my entire response. Here is more>> I know that it's a bad habit but it's habitual indeed. For the most part, you didn't do anything wrong or major so she is just probably in a mood or irritated. Many of us hold things in and don't express as quickly as we should. She seems to be that way so just be a friend to her. Check on her and stop the messages since she is not being responsive to them. If she likes you, she will open up soon but with time.

Caps and Cancers have so many simliarites that create differences. It's scary but in some areas we express them in opposite ways. Wish we could see eye to eye much better. They say we are the best "opposite attracts" signs in the zodiac as far as couples go IF, IF, IF, we can understand and accept each others communication and expressions. Hope everything works out for you.