RETURN OF THE MACK!

I am torn between Cancerlady and CancerMamaDeuce!

I have to set a good example for the peanuts...What to do? WHAT TO DO?

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Hmmm ... either one is fine. I really like CancerMamaDeuce 🙂

do heads or tails

No Candelgirl...

I need it though, just because I have been stressed. I was debating on the hot-ass that I was before. Even though I wasn't having sex with all of them, I was dating alot of guys before. I can't have a revolving door now because I don't want them to see that as it might influence them badly.

At the same time...I STILL REALLY REALLY LIKE SEX!!! and dating...Until and unless I get another guy, I will still think about Mr. Pisces. You know he was the one who helped me get over Mr. Libra!

I love my babies more though...so if it means being celibate...sigh...that's what I'll be.

Yay!!! Cancerlady 🙂

argh you're back. hello *waves*

I don't think you need to be celibate cause you've got little bambinos just maybe tone it down a bit. Maybe having kids will already tone it down cause some guys might not be interested once they find out.

CancerKitten, you are like frost is on roses, what an insensitive thang to say....geeez

CL...I have a daughter,,,and have always did what I do...LOL.....But she has never met a man other than her father,,,Just don't bring men around your babie suntil you are sure it someone worth it...Girls are very impressionable....

LOL...When they get a little older, drop them off with Auntie or grandma,,,,and do ya thang,,,They wil just think grandma missed them wanted to spend some time,,,,,"Mama gotta have fun to"...(Baby Boy)

Well its true. Some guys are complete jerks. At least it weeds out those guys.

Hmmmm, correct me if I'm wrong but ... nevermind ... this comment might get me flames. I have to remember who I'm dealing with, hahaha -- much pun intended 😉 I'm a capricorn and we are stable, security seeking people ... that's my two cents 🙂 To each their own my friends, so eat, drink and be merry 😉

CancerKitten...You are right but at the same time...it seems like MORE men have been interested in me than before! Especially when they find out the father is not around. I know it's probably just for sex though, I have no delusions but you must remember...Babies are the new accessory! 😛

Good advice Softy! I keep that in mind.

What were you going to say Cappy? Speak your mind girl!

LOL, thank you Cancerlady but I'll keep my opinions to myself this time. That's why they call me cappysweetie ... well sweetie for the most part lol.

Well...women don't always make the best choices in men and certain things that we do,,,and I think thats part of learning and life...All I am saying is too keep it away from our kids,,,that way if it hurts someone, it's only ourselves.....and to be honest CL,,men say they won't date a woman with kids, but when it boils down to it,,,they really don't care..and they can't help it if they like you...I've NEVER had a problem....If your Fly enough,,like the both of us ARE....It's never an issue..LOL

How about HootchyHomama 🙂

Those poor babies, I hope they don't wind up with that hook nose of yours. With the trash you bring home, they'll be luck y if they make it to twelve without getting molested.

Still, strangley enough, I find myself wishing you well. Maybe it's the Mother in me.

Look..I would hardly call her a hoochie mama...First of all, she is not married and nor is she with their father. She is young, she is single, and she is a woman with needs regardless of her being a mother. She didn't say she wanted to go out and sleep with everybody under the sun and bring them home to meet her babies and have them call all the men Daddy,

Also, while yourtalking about somebody's nose...I don't see a pic of you posted...You probably do look like a ToTo...Toto the damn dog.

Hey &ToTo2

I believe in voicing your opinion, but in a proactive manner ... WHAT YOU SAID WAS REALLY REACTIVE (and harsh, but that's just my bias opinion. Yes, she is human and she makes mistakes like everyone else. As we get older, some of us come to an understanding that having "relationships aplenty" isn't all that wonderful PLUS it's physically and emotionally unhealthy (I'm a biology major, so don't dispute me). She has learned that and I respect her because it takes some women/ men until they're in theier 40s and 50s to mature in such a way(so. Why don't you give her that benefit?

I fantasize about the sex the couple had on the stairs from the movie a History Of Violence...with you. The Stevie Wonder song Moon Blue is about you,listen to it.Aaaaah but it's probably because babies are the new accessory. I have to come out of it I shake my fins off,open my gills wider and swim deeper.

that was outright cold. No other way around it.. Some people deserved to be slapped. Cancer lady you go babygirl. By the way you and your twins are most beautiful, don't listen to other peoples negativity. (HAY THATS JUST MY OPINION BY THE WAY) 😉

LOL

Keef, babies are the new accessory! I am glad someone else noticed...I am ALWAYS in fashion LOL

&Toto...considering that...


Still, strangley enough, I find myself wishing you well. Maybe it's the Mother in me.


is the nicest thing you have EVER said about or to me...I will take that and RUN with it. 🙂 BTW...hook nose? Ummmmm, okay. Whatever!

I didn't come on here to be judged for what I have done, am doing, or what I will do. All I wanted to know was how do single mothers (especially of girls) balance their womanly needs with setting a good example for their daughters. Which most especially Softy (who feels me the most) have done.

In conclusion...I have no regrets about ANYTHING I have done, including the father of my children because without him, my babies wouldn't be who they are. And as far as my dating before I regret only one...this Jamaican bragged to me over and over again that he was going to lay it down...and let's just say he didn't. Very flaccid! 😛 LOL

CL/Cm2