Sacrifice
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by lostsoul07 on Monday, December 10, 2007 and has 18 replies.
Hello everyone..
I just want to know if being a cancer, we tend to sacrifice a lot especially for the one that we love and care. It includes family, best friend @ even your other half.
Will we choose over family instead the one that we know we love so much @ we make a decision by following our guts?
Do we also tend to think too much @ worry too much about certain things that is not certainly @ is it because we need some sort of answer to every questions?
What would you do and think?
I just want to know if being a cancer, we tend to sacrifice a lot especially for the one that we love and care. It includes family, best friend @ even your other half.
Will we choose over family instead the one that we know we love so much @ we make a decision by following our guts?
Do we also tend to think too much @ worry too much about certain things that is not certainly @ is it because we need some sort of answer to every questions?
What would you do and think?
yes, yes, and yes :-)
yes cancer chooses family and financial security over love and happiness
awww do they really? *pouting*
So that most likely means he'll always be family plot lovin workaholic huh?
So that most likely means he'll always be family plot lovin workaholic huh?
lol so I shouldnt take it for granted when he says "oh forget what my Mom wants, she can wait, let's go out" huh?
Wow I really might need to think this over some more.
Wow I really might need to think this over some more.
yes we do to all of the above, however, when we find that special someone we will change focus as long as career and family are already in some sort of order that we can manage.
Since we like security we like to fix those things closest to us that can cause us the most problems first (i.e.-family, job, friends, etc)
A love relationship USUALLY comes last. We (most cancers) think in terms of family/close friends/work/fun
???relationship?????ummm hell no/maybe?
just kidding, but we take love relationships very seriously. Just know that when we secure you (because one day we will grab you and won't let go) we will focus the same if not more attention on you, because you have become just as important as the rest.
Then you can smile
cause you got cancer!
Since we like security we like to fix those things closest to us that can cause us the most problems first (i.e.-family, job, friends, etc)
A love relationship USUALLY comes last. We (most cancers) think in terms of family/close friends/work/fun
???relationship?????ummm hell no/maybe?
just kidding, but we take love relationships very seriously. Just know that when we secure you (because one day we will grab you and won't let go) we will focus the same if not more attention on you, because you have become just as important as the rest.
Then you can smile
cause you got cancer!
if made to choose between two things i care about i will leave both behind...
lucky me... i have little left to care about 
"my aunt denies herself to make the family happy."
Well...can i'm doing the same though...but the resentment in me build like a volcano and waiting to explode.
"we sacrafice things a lot of em even though people dont realize it at times. We know what we want but then if someone needs something we put the needs we have on the back burner and deal with that last."
I realize that some people when we're willing to do everything for them, somehow they take us for granted.
"if made to choose between two things i care about i will leave both behind..."
Will you really do it CJ?
But i want both or maybe i have to choose by following my guts.
Well...can i'm doing the same though...but the resentment in me build like a volcano and waiting to explode.
"we sacrafice things a lot of em even though people dont realize it at times. We know what we want but then if someone needs something we put the needs we have on the back burner and deal with that last."
I realize that some people when we're willing to do everything for them, somehow they take us for granted.
"if made to choose between two things i care about i will leave both behind..."
Will you really do it CJ?
But i want both or maybe i have to choose by following my guts.
Sorry typo error..
What i want to say is that i'm doing the same like RainFairy's aunt; denying myself to make my family happy...
What i want to say is that i'm doing the same like RainFairy's aunt; denying myself to make my family happy...
is there a lesser choice?....that i will not decide as my love or caring when given is always to the fullest extent of my capabilities..
but by leaving both that you love and care the most...?
I was thinking the same way too..but someone told me that would called running away.
I was thinking the same way too..but someone told me that would called running away.
that i will not decide as my love or caring when given is always to the fullest extent of my capabilities..
**HUG**
**HUG**
"yes cancer chooses family and financial security over love and happiness"
That's definitely the opposite of a Pisces.
I'm digging you crabsters.
That's definitely the opposite of a Pisces.
I'm digging you crabsters.
I'm a water sign. Hence, my lot in life. I can't even imagine myself with a female Scorpio.
Pisces make great girlfriends. They're just not keepers.
Pisces make great girlfriends. They're just not keepers.
I don't think the intent is to equate the Crabs as being money grubbers. The main interest in that for Cancer females is so there is peace of mind for their primary concern: a stable family.
Unfortunately, money does factor into many families' stability. Sad fact 'o life.
Moon_eyes, you're starting to sound like a Pisces.
Unfortunately, money does factor into many families' stability. Sad fact 'o life.
Moon_eyes, you're starting to sound like a Pisces.
Okay, you sound like a girl.
Pisces are these impractical, dreamy romantics. And you said:
"♥ love conquers all except those with cold hearts."
Pisces are these impractical, dreamy romantics. And you said:
"♥ love conquers all except those with cold hearts."
lol - is your north node in pisces? mine is in cancer - it's the only cancer placement in my chart but I have a lot of the same ideals and all that crazy emotional stuff 
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