Sagi and Canci

Ok, I'll try to keep this simple! (not gonna work)

?My? sagi was in Afghanistabang with the army.
He was there for approximately 4 months.
In the end he really got bored and annoyed with all the rules and inefficient measures. (not good)
So now he's home and he's looking for another job, but he's not quite sure what it is exactly he's looking for.. (not good)
In the meantime his friends are at work while he's in vacation-mode, so there's more boredom ahead! (uuuuhm? not good!)
We took some time off from each other? (need I say more 😛)
He calls me frequently, but I'm very busy at the moment and after all we both decided we needed space? I'm guessing he got more space than he wanted, and he's had enough of it!! =D
So now he's facing sort of an emptiness in his life and I think that indirectly he wants me to work things out. He's not a pure sag, he's on the cusp with scorpio? And with me he's always a bit possessive and clingy, and ?begging? for attention. And I never had a problem with him needing me, not even now, but I cannot jump in (bed 😛) everytime he's facing difficulties in his life?

At the same time I'm afraid I'm gonna end up with a depressed sagi and I don't want that because I'm very fond of him and sagi's are really amazing fiery people! Moreover when he's going down, he's going down BIG TIME and I don't want to see that happen!

And so now I don't know what to do anymore.
Should I keep my distance?
I wonder what it is he REALLY needs..