Scorpio and Libra Bestfriends Stuck on TWO Confuse
This topic was created in the Libra and Scorpio Compatibility forum by ScornedScorp on Wednesday, July 13, 2005 and has 11 replies.
The Libra has been dating a Cancer Born June 22nd for the last five years
>..JUST DATING we go to exclusive restaurants and he treats me very well ...BUT and I must say but he acts as if I am his GIRLFRIEND/WOMAN and then on another day he acts as if we are just the best of friends or for days upon days we don't even speak ...... this relationship
>is very weird because he acts as if their is something he is holding back
>which makes it hard for him to commit I do not understand him and at this
>point I would rather walk away from him rather than add another five years
>to this weird situation ....
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>The Scorpio has been dating a Cancer born July 13th for the last year
>......... Just Dating, barely speaking, who even knows what's going on, he
>acts so cold, but then he acts like he wants to be with me but something is
>standing in the way. We get along very well, we enjoy the same activities and are very attracted to each other. He knows that I care, I've been very sweet and caring.
>Still giving him the space he needs, but he still seems to be running away.
>It can't be just sex, since he's a good catch himself!!! So why is this still
>going on? How can a man that you have been dealing with for this amount of
>time, act cold, desire you but say no to intimacy (as if it was brand
>new)....giving you the explanations like "I want you, but something is not right,
>I don't know how I feel"!!! When did he develop feelings? I want to tell him
>I love him, but don't want to get hurt. Do I stick this out or move on?
>Please help us.
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>Please help because we don not understand these confuse individuals
>..should we wait or should we go out separate ways ???
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>Thank you
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>Libra and Scorpio
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>..JUST DATING we go to exclusive restaurants and he treats me very well ...BUT and I must say but he acts as if I am his GIRLFRIEND/WOMAN and then on another day he acts as if we are just the best of friends or for days upon days we don't even speak ...... this relationship
>is very weird because he acts as if their is something he is holding back
>which makes it hard for him to commit I do not understand him and at this
>point I would rather walk away from him rather than add another five years
>to this weird situation ....
>
>
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>The Scorpio has been dating a Cancer born July 13th for the last year
>......... Just Dating, barely speaking, who even knows what's going on, he
>acts so cold, but then he acts like he wants to be with me but something is
>standing in the way. We get along very well, we enjoy the same activities and are very attracted to each other. He knows that I care, I've been very sweet and caring.
>Still giving him the space he needs, but he still seems to be running away.
>It can't be just sex, since he's a good catch himself!!! So why is this still
>going on? How can a man that you have been dealing with for this amount of
>time, act cold, desire you but say no to intimacy (as if it was brand
>new)....giving you the explanations like "I want you, but something is not right,
>I don't know how I feel"!!! When did he develop feelings? I want to tell him
>I love him, but don't want to get hurt. Do I stick this out or move on?
>Please help us.
>
>
>
>
>
>Please help because we don not understand these confuse individuals
>..should we wait or should we go out separate ways ???
>
>Thank you
>
>Libra and Scorpio
>
I'm intrigued with your post, but please do tell more. I'm a cancer female with a libra male so I might be able to lend some advice. Please tell me a few more details and I'll tell you what I think!
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The Libra has been dating a Cancer Born June 22nd for the last five years
>..JUST DATING we go to exclusive restaurants and he treats me very well ...BUT and I must say but he acts as if I am his GIRLFRIEND/WOMAN and then on another day he acts as if we are just the best of friends or for days upon days we don't even speak ...... this relationship
>is very weird because he acts as if their is something he is holding back
>which makes it hard for him to commit I do not understand him and at this
>point I would rather walk away from him rather than add another five years
>to this weird situation ....
>..JUST DATING we go to exclusive restaurants and he treats me very well ...BUT and I must say but he acts as if I am his GIRLFRIEND/WOMAN and then on another day he acts as if we are just the best of friends or for days upon days we don't even speak ...... this relationship
>is very weird because he acts as if their is something he is holding back
>which makes it hard for him to commit I do not understand him and at this
>point I would rather walk away from him rather than add another five years
>to this weird situation ....
I'm confused as to what you are really asking...but from what I read I have to ask... have either of you put your cards on the table as far as what you want?
Libra...both signs are reluctant to show their true feelings for fear of being hurt but let me put it to you like this...If he didn't want you on some level then you wouldn't have been together so long. If he doesn't want what you want out of the relationship it might be time to let go because if he ain't figured it out after 5 years, he ain't gonna figure it out in another five years. Let me tell you this though...The reason he might act cold (being a Cancer myself, I know) is that YOU could have done something to make him think that you would not catch him if he gave himself fully to you. It could have been a misunderstanding or whatever but it sounds like he has put up that famous Cancerian Wall. Talk to him...Good luck with getting him to reveal what he truly feels, but I still suggest you come right out and say what you want, how you feel and if he doesn't like it or feel the same...Move on!
Scorpio...Find out if he has another woman. Do some investigating, you are probably already good at that! This sounds like he COULD be into you but have either someone else he is seeing, cares about, or has residual feelings for. I would watch this guy...He also might feel what I said up there...like he can't trust you with his heart. We guard our hearts with our lives because when they are broken, trust me...We feel almost PHYSICAL PAIN! Seriously!
Good Luck Ladies and if you have more info on these guys let us know...
Cancerlady
Libra...both signs are reluctant to show their true feelings for fear of being hurt but let me put it to you like this...If he didn't want you on some level then you wouldn't have been together so long. If he doesn't want what you want out of the relationship it might be time to let go because if he ain't figured it out after 5 years, he ain't gonna figure it out in another five years. Let me tell you this though...The reason he might act cold (being a Cancer myself, I know) is that YOU could have done something to make him think that you would not catch him if he gave himself fully to you. It could have been a misunderstanding or whatever but it sounds like he has put up that famous Cancerian Wall. Talk to him...Good luck with getting him to reveal what he truly feels, but I still suggest you come right out and say what you want, how you feel and if he doesn't like it or feel the same...Move on!
Scorpio...Find out if he has another woman. Do some investigating, you are probably already good at that! This sounds like he COULD be into you but have either someone else he is seeing, cares about, or has residual feelings for. I would watch this guy...He also might feel what I said up there...like he can't trust you with his heart. We guard our hearts with our lives because when they are broken, trust me...We feel almost PHYSICAL PAIN! Seriously!
Good Luck Ladies and if you have more info on these guys let us know...
Cancerlady
WELL THANK YOU I AM THE LIBRA IN THIS SITUATION
I HAVE NO CLUE WHERE THE SCORPIO IS BUT ANYWAY
I TRULY AGREE WITH YOU ABOUT THE CANCER AND YES MAYBE I HAVE DONE THINGS OR HAVE SAID THINGS THAT HAS LEAD TO HIS WEIRD ATTITUDE/PERSONALITY .....BUT HE SENDS ALL KINDS OF MIX MESSAGES ONE DAY WE ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP, ANOTHER DAY HE IS M.I.A, ANOTHER DAY I CANT BREATHE CAUSE HE IS ALL IN MY FACE ........HE TREATS ME VERY NICE ..BUT AT THIS POINT DATING FOR 5 YEARS IS LAME AND I NEED TO KNOW WHERE I STAND IF I ASK HE SAYS WE ARE TOGETHER BUT HIS ACTIONS AND WAYS PROVE DIFFERENT.HE APPEARS VERY PROTECTIVE AND AS IF HE WAS HURT BEFORE IN A RELATIONSHIP BUT HE CANBE COLD AT TIMES NOT CARING ABOUT MY FEELINGS .......THIS IS THE MOST COMPLICATED SIGN OF THEM ALL AND I REALLY DO NOT UNDERSTAND HIM
EXPLAIN THE CANCER PERSONALITY AND WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU WOULD DO BECAUSE I CANNOT WAIT FOR HIM TO OPEN UP ANY LONGER
WEBSITE THAT I LIKE: http://www.miltonblack.com.au/astrology/sunsigns.htm
I HAVE NO CLUE WHERE THE SCORPIO IS BUT ANYWAY
I TRULY AGREE WITH YOU ABOUT THE CANCER AND YES MAYBE I HAVE DONE THINGS OR HAVE SAID THINGS THAT HAS LEAD TO HIS WEIRD ATTITUDE/PERSONALITY .....BUT HE SENDS ALL KINDS OF MIX MESSAGES ONE DAY WE ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP, ANOTHER DAY HE IS M.I.A, ANOTHER DAY I CANT BREATHE CAUSE HE IS ALL IN MY FACE ........HE TREATS ME VERY NICE ..BUT AT THIS POINT DATING FOR 5 YEARS IS LAME AND I NEED TO KNOW WHERE I STAND IF I ASK HE SAYS WE ARE TOGETHER BUT HIS ACTIONS AND WAYS PROVE DIFFERENT.HE APPEARS VERY PROTECTIVE AND AS IF HE WAS HURT BEFORE IN A RELATIONSHIP BUT HE CANBE COLD AT TIMES NOT CARING ABOUT MY FEELINGS .......THIS IS THE MOST COMPLICATED SIGN OF THEM ALL AND I REALLY DO NOT UNDERSTAND HIM
EXPLAIN THE CANCER PERSONALITY AND WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU WOULD DO BECAUSE I CANNOT WAIT FOR HIM TO OPEN UP ANY LONGER
WEBSITE THAT I LIKE: http://www.miltonblack.com.au/astrology/sunsigns.htm
Cancer! About your sign...
The Cancerian character is the least clear-cut of all those associated with the signs of the zodiac. It can range from the timid, dull, shy and withdrawn to the most brilliant, and famous Cancerians are to be found through the whole range of human activity. It is a fundamentally conservative and home-loving nature, appreciating the nest like quality of a secure base to which the male can retire when he needs a respite from the stresses of life, and in which the Cancerian woman can exercise her strong maternal instincts. The latter tends to like and to have a large family. `Nest like' is an appropriate adjective for the Cancerian home, for its inhabitants tend to favor the dark, mysterious but comfortable type of house which has something of the air of a den about it, a place which belongs to the family rather than existing as a showcase to impress visitors.
That is not to say that the Cancerian is unsociable, just that for them there is a time to socialize and a time to be solitary, and this is part of the apparent contradiction in their nature. Outwardly they can appear formidable - thick-skinned, unemotional, uncompromising, obstinately tenacious, purposeful, energetic, shrewd, intuitive and wise, sometimes with a philosophical profundity of thought verging on inspiration. Their intimates, however, may see a very different character, one with a sympathetic and kindly sensitivity to other people, especially those they love. They are able to identify with the situations of others because of the keenness of their imaginations. They are often over-imaginative and prone to fantasy, sometimes trying to shape their lives to fit some romantic ideal. They are appreciative of art and literature, and especially of drama, where the spectacle and ebb and flow of action and feeling particularly excite them. They may themselves possess considerable literary, artistic or oratorical talent. Their sharp ears and talent for mimicry can sometimes give them success on the stage, though their tendency to be emotional may make them overact. Interestingly - because they give the impression of being down-to-earth - they are often fascinated by the occult and are more open to psychic influence than the average. If they can reconcile the personal conflict of their urge to be outgoing with the reserve that causes them to withdraw into themselves, then at best they can inspire a generation, especially the youthful part of it, by their idealism. A job in which they can express this, and in which they can do well, would be as a leader in a youth organization.
In their personal relationships they are mentally a mixture of toughness and softness, often emotional and romantic to the point of sentimentality in their fantasies; but in real life and in marriage, their loving is not so sentimental but tenaciously loyal. Even if they have affairs (and they may do so, for the male in particular is open to sensual stimulation), their first loyalty remains to spouse and family, of whom they regard themselves as the protector. Both the Cancerian man and woman love unreservedly, giving much and asking little in return - in fact, one of the most important lessons they have to learn is how to receive gracefully. They are too easily influenced by those they love and admire, and swayed by the emotion of the moment. They are also loyal friends, the negative side of their faithfulness being clannishness, the narrow patriotism of "my country right or wrong"; and closing ranks in suspicion and coldness toward outsiders.
Cancerians have a retentive memory, particularly for emotionally laden events which they can recall in detail for years afterwards. they are strongly governed by childhood memories and since they live intensely in the past in memory and in the future in imagination, a chance meeting with someone for whom they had an unrequited love, even if they thought they had conquered the feeling, will easily
The Cancerian character is the least clear-cut of all those associated with the signs of the zodiac. It can range from the timid, dull, shy and withdrawn to the most brilliant, and famous Cancerians are to be found through the whole range of human activity. It is a fundamentally conservative and home-loving nature, appreciating the nest like quality of a secure base to which the male can retire when he needs a respite from the stresses of life, and in which the Cancerian woman can exercise her strong maternal instincts. The latter tends to like and to have a large family. `Nest like' is an appropriate adjective for the Cancerian home, for its inhabitants tend to favor the dark, mysterious but comfortable type of house which has something of the air of a den about it, a place which belongs to the family rather than existing as a showcase to impress visitors.
That is not to say that the Cancerian is unsociable, just that for them there is a time to socialize and a time to be solitary, and this is part of the apparent contradiction in their nature. Outwardly they can appear formidable - thick-skinned, unemotional, uncompromising, obstinately tenacious, purposeful, energetic, shrewd, intuitive and wise, sometimes with a philosophical profundity of thought verging on inspiration. Their intimates, however, may see a very different character, one with a sympathetic and kindly sensitivity to other people, especially those they love. They are able to identify with the situations of others because of the keenness of their imaginations. They are often over-imaginative and prone to fantasy, sometimes trying to shape their lives to fit some romantic ideal. They are appreciative of art and literature, and especially of drama, where the spectacle and ebb and flow of action and feeling particularly excite them. They may themselves possess considerable literary, artistic or oratorical talent. Their sharp ears and talent for mimicry can sometimes give them success on the stage, though their tendency to be emotional may make them overact. Interestingly - because they give the impression of being down-to-earth - they are often fascinated by the occult and are more open to psychic influence than the average. If they can reconcile the personal conflict of their urge to be outgoing with the reserve that causes them to withdraw into themselves, then at best they can inspire a generation, especially the youthful part of it, by their idealism. A job in which they can express this, and in which they can do well, would be as a leader in a youth organization.
In their personal relationships they are mentally a mixture of toughness and softness, often emotional and romantic to the point of sentimentality in their fantasies; but in real life and in marriage, their loving is not so sentimental but tenaciously loyal. Even if they have affairs (and they may do so, for the male in particular is open to sensual stimulation), their first loyalty remains to spouse and family, of whom they regard themselves as the protector. Both the Cancerian man and woman love unreservedly, giving much and asking little in return - in fact, one of the most important lessons they have to learn is how to receive gracefully. They are too easily influenced by those they love and admire, and swayed by the emotion of the moment. They are also loyal friends, the negative side of their faithfulness being clannishness, the narrow patriotism of "my country right or wrong"; and closing ranks in suspicion and coldness toward outsiders.
Cancerians have a retentive memory, particularly for emotionally laden events which they can recall in detail for years afterwards. they are strongly governed by childhood memories and since they live intensely in the past in memory and in the future in imagination, a chance meeting with someone for whom they had an unrequited love, even if they thought they had conquered the feeling, will easily
Hi, Cancerlady, I sent you an email regarding the scorpion portion of your advice.
All I have to say is that my relationship with my libra guy is definatly not far from your description. I think that both of us are scared to express any real emotion with each other for so many different reasons. We have been dating for a year almost and I feel the same as you. I want to know where I stand, but well i just won't say much. I suggest (i know easier said than done) you just put it out there. Afterall you guys have been dating for 5 years! You must know by now how he would react to you comment/questions.
There are many days I want to walk away from my libra, but something is holding me back. What it is I don't know, but I haven't been in the situation for 5 years and if I am I won't be happy! My patience is wearing thin with his indecision. Make your move see what happens, don't regret not saying anything to him!
There are many days I want to walk away from my libra, but something is holding me back. What it is I don't know, but I haven't been in the situation for 5 years and if I am I won't be happy! My patience is wearing thin with his indecision. Make your move see what happens, don't regret not saying anything to him!
my ex is a libra.....it doesnt get any better. sorry. our moon signs and venus are in water signs, but thats the only place where we seem to meet. its a hard tie to break but i cant take anymore. she has sag rising/i have virgo rising. i have mars in aries/her mars is in virgo. we both have some fire burning, but for differnt things. she loves attention from the world but at home she is like a nonspontanious robot. reserved and barly emotional. she makes my shell a cold and boring place. i love her but she is just way too friendly to everyone else and i get the complainer. at home its like its against the law to smile or something. we dont communicate well. when we have a problem or issue....she never wants to talk about it, avoids confrontation and thinks time away makes it go away. i on the other hand need to deal with things as they come up, like now. i would rather deal with things and move on. who wants to get silently punished all week for something they dont even know theve done? i guess unfortunately i do express myself to her when i have a problem which makes her want to talk less.
it just keeps going round and round. staying together but never stable.
it just keeps going round and round. staying together but never stable.
To Cj7
WOW as a libra I cant explain but one word says it all MOOD I think the past year has been very rough for us and as many astrolgy's predict we will be out of our misery in October/November........
do not give up on us we are sweet people just lack attention
WEBSITE THAT I LIKE: http://www.miltonblack.com.au/astrology/sunsigns.htm
WOW as a libra I cant explain but one word says it all MOOD I think the past year has been very rough for us and as many astrolgy's predict we will be out of our misery in October/November........
do not give up on us we are sweet people just lack attention
WEBSITE THAT I LIKE: http://www.miltonblack.com.au/astrology/sunsigns.htm
Well, the only thing I can tell you is to hold on. I say this because the Cancer Man is a strange person. I'm a Scoripo woman who has fallen in love with a Cancer man after knowing him for over 35 years and we met last May at a class reunion for the first time since High School. He told me had been in love with me all those years, his family also verifies this, and he finally found me.Always wanted to carry my books to class but there was always my old boyfriend standing there. We have been dating since May and we plan to get married towards the end of the year. He is nice, intelligent, moody, quiet, want me to take control, eventhough he never implies that, shy, private, etc. I could go on and on. I have learned to know him and at times I do take control and call him out when need be. I think in your relationship, your Cancer man is looking for you to take charge and be more aggressive with him. I think that is when they feel the strongest when they have a strong woman.
Try it! Good Luck!
Try it! Good Luck!
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