SERIOUSLY......ARE YOU SERIOUS—?

I'm just beyond annoyed..... he sends me a text saying that I just say so much and the more that he unravels me the more he is out off daily... that he dont seem to know me as he thought I did. That there is so much that is not clear about me and leaves him wondering....[sad faces] Then I responded by telling him that it seems he so obsessed with my past as if he would find me there.... that that's not who I am any more..a.blah b,ah..... and he responded by saying He is not looking for me in the past but the present is not clear either ...i always have to find out something before I open up about it and that is not healthy to treat you said you love that way ....WTF is up with this dude man.... like should I write my life script ,publish it and handed to him in a silver platter .A..doesn't he understand human propensities or is he stuck in some kind of lala land...... is he for real or is he buttering —I am actually getting flipping annoyed.... because they say cancers are deep but this behaviour is so shallow.... unless ....is it he was playing games all along and now he is trying to find something to wiggle himself out....pleeeeeese cancer peep help me wrap my mind mind around this one.....I would never dream of giving someone the 3rd degree.... questioning their past and forcing them to say everything there is to know about you.... hey not because I'm a scorpio but in any relationship is good to leave room for a little mystery no—

*the more he is put off daily

@iwill the thing is he wants me to be the one to pour out all my past.... all my failures ...flaw ..mistakes.....he doesn't want to ask me.... it weird because there are things that I obviously want to leave behind never to be brought up ...but those are the things he wants to know... and its like he's fishing for info through my friends for then to come back to me and say oh you didn't told me that ...you don't love me ..i can't trust you ...BOLOGNE....life doesn't work that way... can't he realise that ....

Ok ...ill tell him ...thats going go down well with Mr. Super Sensitive......pffff ...it's graining man ...for the first time in my life...I can't win _—_—_—_—_—_??

He wants to know because he wants to know you inside and out. You should be happy because when a cancer wants to know, they are thinking about the possibility of having a future with you. Cancers get shit done and take on ALL of their lovers problems and actually solve them and makes the good great. So that's probably why. Your past also tells a lot about you. Cancers to a lot of research but when they've decided to go for it, you'll be amazed at the wonderful things they do for you and what's or who is in your life. I suggest you tell him. He probably won't judge and wants to know. If you don't, he won't trust you and will either slowly drop it (and you) or will do his research and find out on his own (and it won't be a good thing).

Posted by Twodrinkminimum
They say they want to know but they really don't want to know your past. You can't share anything about any past loves. They want to think that they're the first, last and only person you'll ever love. Don't mention anything about exes. They'll become obsessed and insecure about it.

If you must mention exes, you better say you hate them now and want nothing to do with him.

SO TRUE