Should I give Cancer woman space after breakup? And how can I get her back.

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by law_da_scorp on Saturday, October 19, 2019 and has 6 replies.
Cancer woman broke up with me (Scorpio man) after we had many disagreements & arguments in our somewhat brief (few weeks) but very intimate & intense relationship.


Normally when we'd argue and she was mad/upset she'd act very cold and ghost me, but after a few hours we'd kiss and make up.


After our last argument which was a few days ago, she angrily said to forget her because he wants to be single & move on, then blocked my phone.


So far I've obeyed her wishes and not contacted her..


I'm thinking like should I send a card & small gift to her address? Just to apologize & say I'm sorry I upset her many times etc.


Or is that going to push a Cancer further away? and I should give a few weeks/months before I even attempt that.
Posted by law_da_scorp

Cancer woman broke up with me (Scorpio man) after we had many disagreements & arguments in our somewhat brief (few weeks) but very intimate & intense relationship.


Normally when we'd argue and she was mad/upset she'd act very cold and ghost me, but after a few hours we'd kiss and make up.


After our last argument which was a few days ago, she angrily said to forget her because he wants to be single & move on, then blocked my phone.


So far I've obeyed her wishes and not contacted her..


I'm thinking like should I send a card & small gift to her address? Just to apologize & say I'm sorry I upset her many times etc.


Or is that going to push a Cancer further away? and I should give a few weeks/months before I even attempt that.
I was going to make fun of you but I'll just wish you the best. Dude it's literally the season of hedonistic pleasures. Its your birthday month enjoy it.
"I upset her *many* times." Damn! That's a problem. You've stressed this woman out. Leave her the hell alone is my vote. SMH. I've always found it interesting how those who cause the most conflict are the very ones who think they should be taken back 🤔😕


"Many disagreements and arguments in a very brief".... This is one reason, WHY taking time to LEARN of someone FIRST has value and brings value. You two don't KNOW the core of one another, thus clashing over and over. That has to be exhausting. Truly.
“Once a Cancer is done, we’re done” yea right, every sign says that.
I'm a Cancer woman and from my point of view, I like men who are sincere. So if you care about her and want her back, show it to her but be SINCERE. Don't play any mind games and show her that you've changed.

If a guy doesn't make an effort with me or doesn't speak to me for days I assumed that he moved on and no longer cares. She might be different but that's my personal opinion.
Cancer women are like emotionally driven psychopaths. If you're still attracted to her after all that, I suggest you do some inner healing work asap. If you don't, you will only spiral downwards

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