Cancer is the sweetest zodiac of all. Try building a strong and deep emotional friendship first and he will automatically fall for you
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Aug 02, 2014Comments: 177 · Posts: 2392 · Topics: 92
"He left me on sent for a whole day then replied that he's gone to get coffee already and that he has a lot of work to do."
I am not you, but if I get this response from a guy, I'd drop him like a hot potato
Sorry this cancer guy seems not interested. Do not pursue.
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Feb 26, 2021Comments: 49 · Posts: 134 · Topics: 4
My ex of 2.5years was Cancer and I went on 2 dates with a different cancer prior to that relationship. Both were quick to want to meet but they initiated it. The first one didn't progress. I think they like to pursue you, not the other way around.
I let my ex cancer decide when we would catch up and never pressured him for his time or anything but they're kind of needy and clingy so if they like you, they'll want to see you in all their free time anyway. He liked everything on his terms though which felt really selfish after a while and I eventually ended it.
Good luck xx
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Jan 19, 2013Comments: 1552 · Posts: 9503 · Topics: 11
You probably lost his interest due to the casual way you approach him.
His response about the coffee suggests that you asked for a date only hours, if not minutes before, which is rude. Always ask days in advance.
What matters is not after how many hours he replies to you, but what his actual reply is! Someone serious about you thinks in term of days, not hours. Your impatience (which a water sign can sense) doesn't do you any favours.
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Oct 21, 2015Comments: 11066 · Posts: 36034 · Topics: 110
He takes forever to respond to you, won't meet up when you suggest, and never initiates. That makes him 'seem like a sweet guy' to you? Really??
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Jan 17, 2020Comments: 223 · Posts: 297 · Topics: 2
Never, ever give up on us Cancer men, unless you're certain he's not into you!