Should i start talking to this cancer guy again?
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by shayshay86 on Sunday, September 4, 2011 and has 7 replies.
ok long story short there was this guy i was talking to....we were talking for awhile like 4-5 months and pretty much everything was cool until he started bs'ing with me i was over it so we stopped talking all together. last weekend i was out with my friends and i saw him for the first time since about march earlier this year. he approached me and we reconnected a little bit . he was about to leave out w/ his family and he asked me if i was mad we hadnt been communicating lately and i told him frankly i didnt care anymore.
he asked me if i had the same number and i told him yeah so he said he would text me...but i just blew it off because the last time he said he would text he didnt. we gave hugs then went our separate ways and thats all i thought of it. now TODAY he texted me for the first time since last weekend and i was kind of shocked being we havent talked in a long time...but i havent texted him back yet....should i text him back or what...is this stuff happening again for a reason?
he asked me if i had the same number and i told him yeah so he said he would text me...but i just blew it off because the last time he said he would text he didnt. we gave hugs then went our separate ways and thats all i thought of it. now TODAY he texted me for the first time since last weekend and i was kind of shocked being we havent talked in a long time...but i havent texted him back yet....should i text him back or what...is this stuff happening again for a reason?
There is something to be said about a person who feels they can run in and out of your life on their every whim. I'm a person who craves consistency, so I would ignore him.
I agree with GP....
Don't give him a 2nd chance to reject you again, if you allow him back in he'll feel it's completely okay to walk in and out of your life with no consequences for behaving that way with you, once the in/out pattern is established he'll never be consistent with you ever again. I've been down that road, NOTHING is worthwhile with men that vanish only to reappear when it's safe or convenient...I'd pass if it were me but it's really your final decision.
Don't give him a 2nd chance to reject you again, if you allow him back in he'll feel it's completely okay to walk in and out of your life with no consequences for behaving that way with you, once the in/out pattern is established he'll never be consistent with you ever again. I've been down that road, NOTHING is worthwhile with men that vanish only to reappear when it's safe or convenient...I'd pass if it were me but it's really your final decision.
yeah...that's not cool with me either. just basic respect. you're not going to flit in and out because i don't like the revolving door thing. keep it simple.
he only came up to you because seeing you reminded him he was attracted to you. gtfo
he only came up to you because seeing you reminded him he was attracted to you. gtfo
You teach people how to treat you with what you accept and allow. Every time. All the time.
With all the people in this world you don't need to limit yourself to him. He already showed you what you are to him.
He probably wants to get the sex thing going again with you and by responding to him positively he thinks he is in like Flint.
If u want to see him get super mad, act like he has to wait for sex again, he will give u an emotional beating for that
If u want to see him get super mad, act like he has to wait for sex again, he will give u an emotional beating for that
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