Should i trust him with myself?
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Shannonbaby on Thursday, July 2, 2009 and has 15 replies.
Agreed.
danger danger!
loser on the loose
loser on the loose
Yeah I agree with everyone else, if the girl says she knows the guy even though he uses an alias, than why doubt her? Apparently this guy has you running around and second guessing yourself, when you know for a fact that you deserve the truth and not the headache. I say cut the guy loose so you can figure out what is going on. If he is who he says he is, than you can continue the relationship; now if you find out he's just a dirtbag, than leave and play the singles game.
-SMiLES
-SMiLES
I don't think so clair haha!
-SMiLES
-SMiLES
i'd say it wasn't harsh enough 
i wasnt clear with the story basaicly when i first met him he gave me one of his nicknames cz hes a dj and djs in england have loads of nicknames as they dont want their personal buissness getting out their as they are quite popular. Anyway i couldnt take down his number down as i didnt have a phone at that time so i told him to add me on facebook and he did. And he added me with his real name which i didnt no at the time so i thought it was a random stranger until we got talking and we found out we knew each otherr from when he chatted me up. And on his facebook it showed our mutal freinds and on it was the girl that i knew so i asked her when i saw her how does she no him randomly and then she said she didnt.. so i said ok.. then the next day she phoned me to tell me she actually dud no him but she didnt recognise his name as he gave her a different name as well and dt it was only through his pictures that she found out who he was and that he was her boyfreind. so i said o shoot ive been seeing him.. and how he told me he was single. And she told me that dont worry its not my faul and that she will talk to him. i spoke to him as well and he said that shes just someone that really likes him and shes just a freind 2 him and how shes lieing.. but she says now they aint together anymore bt i dont no hus lieing as im neither close to any of them. And im starting to like him as he seems quite genuine but the only thing is , is that he pesters me for sex and im a virgin and im waiting for that special someone to give it to. So i tell him that im not ready as we dont really no each other properly. Anyway what should i do..Should i stick with him as were seeing each other now or should i just leave him?
Shannon:
As I see it, this bloke is not deserving of your trust. What has he done thus far to earn it?
As I see it, this bloke is not deserving of your trust. What has he done thus far to earn it?
okay so, I didn't see the initial post before you hid it, but this appears to be what you consider a "better" explanation.... let me get this straight - he uses an alias as a DJ, but he added you on facebook under his REAL name, BUT his "girlfriend" didn't know it was him because he gave her anothter alias..... number one: DJ's only use one alias. Number two: if that was his girlfriend then wouldn't she know his REAL name, something other than his alias?
No matter how you look at this you need to get rid of this guy. Although I'm amazed you still need to be told that after the numerous posts that have already been made...... your second explanation of the situation is a clear example of the girls that come here with a story and when they don't get the answer they were looking for [i.e. in this case "that girl is a lying bitch - you're the one he really wants"] they change the story and say "oh no, I didn't say it right the first time". Bottom line, he's a loser, move on.
No matter how you look at this you need to get rid of this guy. Although I'm amazed you still need to be told that after the numerous posts that have already been made...... your second explanation of the situation is a clear example of the girls that come here with a story and when they don't get the answer they were looking for [i.e. in this case "that girl is a lying bitch - you're the one he really wants"] they change the story and say "oh no, I didn't say it right the first time". Bottom line, he's a loser, move on.
Posted by xangelfishx
okay so, I didn't see the initial post before you hid it, but this appears to be what you consider a "better" explanation.... let me get this straight - he uses an alias as a DJ, but he added you on facebook under his REAL name, BUT his "girlfriend" didn't know it was him because he gave her anothter alias..... number one: DJ's only use one alias. Number two: if that was his girlfriend then wouldn't she know his REAL name, something other than his alias?
No matter how you look at this you need to get rid of this guy. Although I'm amazed you still need to be told that after the numerous posts that have already been made...... your second explanation of the situation is a clear example of the girls that come here with a story and when they don't get the answer they were looking for [i.e. in this case "that girl is a lying bitch - you're the one he really wants"] they change the story and say "oh no, I didn't say it right the first time". Bottom line, he's a loser, move on.
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I didnt change the story because i didnt get the answer i was looking for i changed it because i didnt explain it properly. At the end of the day im appreciative of all the comments and i can take the truth. Also with the girl situation i think they had a fling but i dont think she was his girlfreind.
Posted by DaBull_isDaShit
Personally if you are a virgin and a guy is pestering you to sleep with him then he ain't no good cos if he really liked you he would say fine let do other stuff instead of the sex, he should respect your decision, clearly he has no respect. To me it seems like he is a player, a genuine guy would never give such dodgy vibes like that. Wake up and smell the coffee girl before he ends up f'in you over. He may be saying all the right stuff now and being all nice to you, clearly you have not given him what he wants so he could be doing all that to bed you and once you do he'l prob move on to the next woman...
i Agree
Posted by *Tasha
hahahaha whatttt lmao! he is making fake names even on facebook???? wtf! who does that! haha omg i am gonna tell my friend immediately ha!
drop him (obviously) omg i can't stop laughing
Glad to have made you laugh.
Posted by Wishbear
Shannon:
As I see it, this bloke is not deserving of your trust. What has he done thus far to earn it?
true..
Posted by Smiles24
Yeah I agree with everyone else, if the girl says she knows the guy even though he uses an alias, than why doubt her? Apparently this guy has you running around and second guessing yourself, when you know for a fact that you deserve the truth and not the headache. I say cut the guy loose so you can figure out what is going on. If he is who he says he is, than you can continue the relationship; now if you find out he's just a dirtbag, than leave and play the singles game.
-SMiLES
i think im gonna have 2 play the singles game now lol..
ME: when they don't get the answer they want....they change the story and say "oh no, I didn't say it right the first time".
YOU: I didnt change the story because i didnt get the answer i was looking for i changed it because i didnt explain it properly.
Do you not see where you did EXACTLY what I said?..........
YOU: I didnt change the story because i didnt get the answer i was looking for i changed it because i didnt explain it properly.
Do you not see where you did EXACTLY what I said?..........
No because i realised i confused my story. Even If I GOT the answers im apparently "looking for" i still would have changed my original story. So i did not do what you exactly said i did.
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