should I unfriend him on facebook?
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Hawaiiangirl on Monday, April 29, 2013 and has 10 replies.
Since things happened bw me and my cancer guy, two months already I havent heard anything from him.
He is not the type of person who checks the facebook too often,,just from time to time online on fb...
......after things happened bw me n him,,,I try to hang out with friends as much as I can so that I move on with life and the most important thing is to forget him...I have posted lots of photos of me and my friends...updated more often my fb status and also posted lots of songs that i sang in there...
I must say I have posted stuff on fb like crazy...since then, I start to realise my cancer guy jump online more often...online like crazy on fb.....This is really unusual n totally abnormal...
...I am wondering if hes checking my fb or sort of stalking me on fb or sth like that? He never clicks Like or comment any posts of mine....hmmm
But yeah...no txt..no phone calls at all until now....thats sad n frustating...
Now I am thinking should I unfriend him on fb or not?
Anyone wanna know more about what happened bw me n him,,plz read my previous post under the name WHAT SHOULD I DO WITH THIS CANCER GUY??
Thanks for your help.
Your profile says you're 27. Are you 27?
Posted by mr.crabby
Your profile says you're 27. Are you 27?
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Yup,m 27... So??
Cant u find my previous post??
Don't unfriend him, pretend that you're cool.
If you are trying to move on, then move on.
The only difference being, are you capable of handling yourself, with enough self-control to never look at his account, or to not care? Because if you do not have this capability, then you are putting yourself through a unnecessary mangler, with no worthwhile cause at the end.
Block for your own sake and practice a little strength in self control, that is the best way to cope. It does not matter what he does anymore, forget about it, forget about him (yes, I know that is the very thing that would piss off most Crabs, that is if he holds still, a positive memory/feeling of you in their emotional minds/hearts). At the end of the day, it is what you do for yourself, your are responsible for you!
Otherwise, it is just Facebook, yet another social network to express oneself, do not look too deep into it, for your own sanity.
The only difference being, are you capable of handling yourself, with enough self-control to never look at his account, or to not care? Because if you do not have this capability, then you are putting yourself through a unnecessary mangler, with no worthwhile cause at the end.
Block for your own sake and practice a little strength in self control, that is the best way to cope. It does not matter what he does anymore, forget about it, forget about him (yes, I know that is the very thing that would piss off most Crabs, that is if he holds still, a positive memory/feeling of you in their emotional minds/hearts). At the end of the day, it is what you do for yourself, your are responsible for you!
Otherwise, it is just Facebook, yet another social network to express oneself, do not look too deep into it, for your own sanity.
You should've defriended him 2 months ago. Why do you want an ex seeing all your pics and knowing everything you're doing? However, doing it now just seems weird. If it's been ok for him to know everything you're doing, and in fact, you're constantly posting so that he knows what you're doing, and that you're out having "fun," then why do you all a sudden want to defriend him? To cut him off and make him wonder? Force him to act/initiate? Again, why didn't you do that 2 months ago when it would've made sense?
At this point, that would be immature and manipulative, and he'll see right through it. If you don't want him to know anything about your life anymore, restrict his access so that he can't see anything. But that's not really what you want, is it?
At this point, that would be immature and manipulative, and he'll see right through it. If you don't want him to know anything about your life anymore, restrict his access so that he can't see anything. But that's not really what you want, is it?
Just get a new man and post a pic of the two of you together smiling.
After that, he may delete YOU.
After that, he may delete YOU.
Okay, we need to discuss this in more detail.
What kind of childish person completely chops a decent human being out of their lives forever?
Because that is what one does when one defriends on FB.
It is a complete chop off, which is probably one of the most childish things a human being could ever do to another.
Especially if it's unwarranted.
What kind of childish person completely chops a decent human being out of their lives forever?
Because that is what one does when one defriends on FB.
It is a complete chop off, which is probably one of the most childish things a human being could ever do to another.
Especially if it's unwarranted.
Maybe so, but some people on FB aren't really friends or you are trying them out as friends. I deleted someone not so long ago because after 5 months he proved to be too loose for me and used FB to keep an eye on me and when I confronted him he lied. So delete, no regrets either.
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
If you are trying to move on, then move on.
The only difference being, are you capable of handling yourself, with enough self-control to never look at his account, or to not care? Because if you do not have this capability, then you are putting yourself through a unnecessary mangler, with no worthwhile cause at the end.
Block for your own sake and practice a little strength in self control, that is the best way to cope. It does not matter what he does anymore, forget about it, forget about him (yes, I know that is the very thing that would piss off most Crabs, that is if he holds still, a positive memory/feeling of you in their emotional minds/hearts). At the end of the day, it is what you do for yourself, your are responsible for you!
Otherwise, it is just Facebook, yet another social network to express oneself, do not look too deep into it, for your own sanity.
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