Silent cancer girl-update
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by niki500 on Sunday, May 13, 2018 and has 9 replies.
So continuing from this post https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-girl-went-silent-10764628/?checkpg=1
I was planning to listen to you guys and call her but...something happened.
I went out this Friday. She was there in the club, dancing with her friends. At first I ignored her just to see how she'll react. But as time passed, I approached her and she seemed very happy. It was very loud inside and we went out so we could talk. She said that she's sorry for not responding to my text message. She explained that shes currentl in a very bad situation dealing with loneliness, anxiety, depressive thoughts... And that she didnt want to meet and bore me out with her problems. She also said why would I need someone like her in my life. I was hust listening to her not telling anything. We talked for about 1 hour, it was mostly her venting out about life. But that whole time I could sense the attraction between us more and more buildng up.
And then, suddenly, she flipped the script. She told me that there was one gay scorpio guy that she wanted to seduce, that is a challenge by which she wants to boost her own self esteem. I was non reactive and told her to go in for seduction because the club will close soon. Ofc she didnt. Then she started telling me that she noticed me right away when I entered and that she knew we would see each other again and imagined what would happen.She also asked if I noticed that she liked my facebook. Then two of her roomates alongiside with gay scorpio guy showed up and she ran to them, throwing herself in scorpio arms. Again I was non reactive. We enetered the club with her friends, and she found another guy. Started to flirt with him. But the whole time she was checking if I was looking at them. And when one girl started talking with me, cancer girl kissed that guy, but while kissing him she was starring at me. As club was closing we all went out. She ditched the previous guy in a split second and turned out to me and her friends. I could see she wanted to get me jealous with all that act.
She invited me over to her apartment for an "after party" . Her roomie made a joke that we should sleep in the same bed. Taxi came and she said come on lets go. But I didnt go, even though I really wanted just to be around her. She gave me a very hateful, angry look of disappointment, turned out to her roomie, mumbled something and then left. After one hour she sent me some meme" alcohol my anxiety problem mediacation". I left it on seen planning to answer but meanwhile she replied that she excuces for sending me that. I answerd, we chatted and she was thanking me for our conversation, listening to her problems and for me being so good to her. But this whole facebook chat was awkward as hell.
And now I dont know what to do. Shes getting under my skin but I think I would just be a good therapy that she needs, I have this effect on people. And im fighting with myself not to text her, even though I could hardly make her go on a date with me. Shes very cold online and can control herself while in person she cant at all...so im torn... what to do? ...I think that I would end up just as her therapist, nothing more😎
I was planning to listen to you guys and call her but...something happened.
I went out this Friday. She was there in the club, dancing with her friends. At first I ignored her just to see how she'll react. But as time passed, I approached her and she seemed very happy. It was very loud inside and we went out so we could talk. She said that she's sorry for not responding to my text message. She explained that shes currentl in a very bad situation dealing with loneliness, anxiety, depressive thoughts... And that she didnt want to meet and bore me out with her problems. She also said why would I need someone like her in my life. I was hust listening to her not telling anything. We talked for about 1 hour, it was mostly her venting out about life. But that whole time I could sense the attraction between us more and more buildng up.
And then, suddenly, she flipped the script. She told me that there was one gay scorpio guy that she wanted to seduce, that is a challenge by which she wants to boost her own self esteem. I was non reactive and told her to go in for seduction because the club will close soon. Ofc she didnt. Then she started telling me that she noticed me right away when I entered and that she knew we would see each other again and imagined what would happen.She also asked if I noticed that she liked my facebook. Then two of her roomates alongiside with gay scorpio guy showed up and she ran to them, throwing herself in scorpio arms. Again I was non reactive. We enetered the club with her friends, and she found another guy. Started to flirt with him. But the whole time she was checking if I was looking at them. And when one girl started talking with me, cancer girl kissed that guy, but while kissing him she was starring at me. As club was closing we all went out. She ditched the previous guy in a split second and turned out to me and her friends. I could see she wanted to get me jealous with all that act.
She invited me over to her apartment for an "after party" . Her roomie made a joke that we should sleep in the same bed. Taxi came and she said come on lets go. But I didnt go, even though I really wanted just to be around her. She gave me a very hateful, angry look of disappointment, turned out to her roomie, mumbled something and then left. After one hour she sent me some meme" alcohol my anxiety problem mediacation". I left it on seen planning to answer but meanwhile she replied that she excuces for sending me that. I answerd, we chatted and she was thanking me for our conversation, listening to her problems and for me being so good to her. But this whole facebook chat was awkward as hell.
And now I dont know what to do. Shes getting under my skin but I think I would just be a good therapy that she needs, I have this effect on people. And im fighting with myself not to text her, even though I could hardly make her go on a date with me. Shes very cold online and can control herself while in person she cant at all...so im torn... what to do? ...I think that I would end up just as her therapist, nothing more😎
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Friend zone
What sign are you?
she wants you to be all over her, trying to make you jelly and what not. Doesn't seem like the Scorpio guy she likes is interested in her or is probably causing her a run for her money. See how when your didn't respond she replied a second time, yea start treating her bad and watch her turn into putty
she wants you to be all over her, trying to make you jelly and what not. Doesn't seem like the Scorpio guy she likes is interested in her or is probably causing her a run for her money. See how when your didn't respond she replied a second time, yea start treating her bad and watch her turn into putty
This story is the definition of a "nice guy" that girls take advantage of and keep in the friend zone.
Posted by RooSagicorn
Yep, stay far away.. how old are you guys?
Im 23 and shes 22.
Posted by MoonshineLeo
What sign are you?
Also cancer mixed with cancer rising and saggy moon.
Thank you all for your advices. And I agree, its best for me to stay far far far away from this girl!
Oh heeeellllll no.
Kiss another guy for your attention? Yuck.
You dont need this baggage.
Kiss another guy for your attention? Yuck.
You dont need this baggage.
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