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ScorpioAEF89
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Gay Scorpio dating a gay cancer

So I told my cancer I wasn't ready for a relationship but he's like no you're not leaving my life.

And so he's like I need to see you so I seen him and I haven't seen him a month but a lot of texting. And he was kissing me, cuddling me, wanting me to hold him. He even cried like 5 times saying how sorry he was he treated me bad. And how much he loves me.

Them once we got home he's like I don't want you to wait for me like I don't think I'm ready to come out of the closet or for a serious relationship and I've told him I never pressured him, and take his time.

But he's like if the opportunity came along you shouldn't pass it up, and we will be friends. So like is this a test or is it a friend zone me even after a very compassionate night?

Like he Said he would want me to wait but doesn't wanna be a burden or want me to deal with his issues and i told him I don't mind.

We have been Ina few text arguments and he's like as much as Iove you I can't take the stress and I was like you just apologized for what's u did to me? What do you expect?

It's just confusing ., any intake on this or pointers?


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Gay Scorpio dating a gay cancer

So I told my cancer I wasn't ready for a relationship but he's like no you're not leaving my life.

And so he's like I need to see you so I seen him and I haven't seen him a month but a lot of texting. And he was kissing me, cuddling me, wanting me to hold him. He even cried like 5 times saying how sorry he was he treated me bad. And how much he loves me.

Them once we got home he's like I don't want you to wait for me like I don't think I'm ready to come out of the closet or for a serious relationship and I've told him I never pressured him, and take his time.

But he's like if the opportunity came along you shouldn't pass it up, and we will be friends. So like is this a test or is it a friend zone me even after a very compassionate night?

Like he Said he would want me to wait but doesn't wanna be a burden or want me to deal with his issues and i told him I don't mind.

We have been Ina few text arguments and he's like as much as Iove you I can't take the stress and I was like you just apologized for what's u did to me? What do you expect?

It's just confusing ., any intake on this or pointers?

Maybe he is just in a pickle... because he might like you a lot but it comes with a price tag in his mind even if you pose no pressure for him to come out in order to be fair with you he still feels as he needs to and he is not ready...

as what to do? well he sounds like he wont be ready anytime soon, reason why he is letting you go... and if you can handle the turmoil, you should take his offer, sometimes love comes in the wrong time.