So He Called Me Today ........

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by cappysweetie on Wednesday, August 2, 2006 and has 56 replies.
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Alright, I just got off from work (early leave) and I see a familiar number on my caller I.D. -- that cancer man that I give up on a month and a half ago decides to call me today. I have a new mobile number so he called on my home phone.
No, I have no idea why he's calling me again. Last time we spoke, I stated that I was giving him all of his space back because our relationship was so emotionally draining. Yes, he disagreed but I cut all communication because I thought it was the best thing for both of us.
Now, he calling me again (what on earth is going on here !!!!!!)
OMG, he's given me so much trouble in the past and he knows this! We had our arguements and makeups but the last ordeal with him was the last straw, I wanted him out of my life!
For him to call out of the blue is so odd since he knows how I feel.
Oh dear oh dear oh dear me ................
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You shouldn't have even made this thread... now I'm just as curioussssss as to why he called lol Curiosity has got to be my worstttt trait!
Ummm maybe he just wanted to talk, catch up, be friendly...? See where things went this time... I don't know but crabs don't seem to mind having things undefined you know... like don't you hear this all the time with crab men 'I don't know if we're going out or exclusive...' or maybe that's just every other man too...? lol
The way I'm seeing it now is that you were a part of his life at some point... so he's curious about you. There was an interest and so why not just talk. I'm thinking that it's probably something like that, nothing that has to be defined right away. Could I be wrong? Cancers... crabbies... hellooooooo
So this has you uneasy does it Cappy? Winking Well that's natural, I'd be the same way... any girl would... you are fighting the urge to call aren't you? Damn I feel like I'm fighting the urge... lol But remember this insightful quote: Curiosity killed the cat







Although, damn, I have the answer to that quote...

Luck, keep us updated if anything happens!
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HI TC, how are you smile
I will not be calling him. He hurt me in the past and I don't want to generate that headache again.
Maybe he does just want to talk, but I don't think that talking to him will be a good thing ....
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he just wants to win. to get you in a position that puts him on top again, and then he'll trample you, so he'll feel better about himself. i fell for that for 13 years. what makes me laugh, is that he thinks i was the bitch. god, he was such a manipulative jerk. no wonder i was a bitch. it's their ability to be so affectionate that makes you think they really do love you. haha...what a joke. you go girl, just say NO.
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WOW, pato ... 13 years is a long time to put up with a guy like that. I'm glad you are done with him smile smile smile
Don't worry, I know it's all a joke so I refuse to fall for it. The only real issues are that he knows where I live and my places of employment.
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i had a cap breakup with me, no problem
but the bulls**t excuse she gave me is the reason cap girls can never get any rest from an ex.
Oh don't worry GB. I tried to be direct with him but he likes to listen on his own terms.
Cappy, if you want to close things with him forever maybe you should call him or send him an email, otherwise he'll pop up in the future again
What! Oh Vanessa, I don't want to call him Sad
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Hey Greatbull smile
No, I'm not being mean ... there's just a really nutty history between me and this guy. Is so much to explain Sad In the past, I created six posts concerning him and what I needed to do about him. So I did try but things just kept getting worst.
If you were around in late March and early April, you would know why I don't want to call him.
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HMMMMMM......
Okay, I just came home from work and I see that he has called me twice today. Once in the afternoon ... and the second time was five minutes ago. I just walked in the door.
I know this is the right thing to do, but I feel like an bitch for looking at his number and not answering
He did that kind of stuff to me and I didn't like it Sad
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Oh dear oh dear oh dear .... I don't know what to do. Well, I didn't answer the phone but .... Oh my goodness
Do you think somethings wrong with him ???????? I don't want to interact with him, but I don't want him hurt either.
But I also know him very well, that's why I won't answer the phone.
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How about just sex?
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Hey Vanessa,
That post was from last night, I just forgot to post it on the cancer board when I posted on the cappy board.
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Just sex ...... hahaha, I think he was just trying to be funny Vanessa Winking
Having sex with him ...... no way, I may be emotional but I'm not weak Winking At least not weak for a man's affections.
I can have the best intentions in the world to make sure he stays out, but he found his way back in before. But I just don't trust him anymore ... hmmmm, it isn't a good thing to hurt a cappy, afterwards our trust levels are zero.
If he didn't do the same thing twice, then I wouldn't feel this way, but he's likes to go bak and forth and I don't like it. That's why I'm staying away from him.
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With me, i meant. Before you find out how terrible i am.
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LOL!!!! OOOOOOH mr.crabby, you are a naughty boy aren't you Winking
Hey I'm a capricorn -- which translates as "very emotional female" -- you may prefer "tougher" girls. I am all muchy Tongue
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You're quite solid compared to a crab. I love your pics!!!!!!!




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Thank you Vanessa, I don't want to seem like a bytch but I don't know any other way of preventing myself from gettin hurt again. The last time he hurt me really did it. The funny this was that he was very aware that he did something wrong -- but he still wanted my understanding. ~sigh~ I guess I just have to use my own judgement no mater what -- and right now my vibes are really negative and as a result I'm staying away.
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Thank you mr.crabby *** blushes ***
You seem to be a rock and roller yourself Winking Who's your favorite band ????
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SONATA ARCTICA!!!!!!! Light metal for disturbed teenage girls.
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OOOO I like Tool Big Grin
Other then that I'm an alternative girl and a classic rock fanatic smile
U2, Weezer, Janis Joplin, Falloutboy, Aerossmith ... LOL!!! I can go on, I like music. I've always wanted to play air guitar because the riffs drive me bananas Big Grin
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As long as you don't enter a contest, i'll be ok with you. Winking
What about Scorpions?
AND some more resembling pictures??? My 48yo Cap boss is really hot, i can only imagine a youngie.
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LOL!!!
So you want to see my "actual" pics ???? smile
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Who wouldn't?
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Well .... I think about it smile It depends on how confortable I get and then I'll do it.
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You can always keep it private. I love to be special and have something others don't.
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Hmmm, that's an idea. That's something to think about mr.crabby smile
LOL!!! You are quite a character I must say smile
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They always say that at first.
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Hey, *the cancer guy emailed me today too*-- I just saw it a few minutes ago. He wants me to call him when I get a chance ... Hmmm ......... oh dear, this is just terrible.
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Cappy calls, yummy.
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Solid hmm cappy sweetie u thick?
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LOL, no mr.crabby ... I'm sticking to my guns. It's very "un-cappy" of me to bend smile
Am I thick ???? Hahahahahaha, are you referring to my rear-end Daemon ????
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Cappy, if you ask me, you're just after some attention.. if you so don't want to deal with that person and don't want him to bother you, why do you continue to bring up the subject?
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Okay SRG, I don't know what your deal is but I will let you know why I continue to bring up the subject ...."Because I feel like it"
It's messageboard sweetie pie Winking If I feel like venting on a specific issue, I will do it okay smile LOL!!! I honestly don't need "Mr.SRG" permission.
Hmmm, I see others vent on this board concerning men and women ... but you say nothing to them.
LOL, I think you just single me out because you have a huge chip on your shoulders my friend ... get off me.
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Oh yeah, and what I have to say isn't for "attention". Whatever I'm feeling ... I will post about it if I feel like it. Sorry, if that offends you but that's just what I will do. No one will tell me otherwise because I do what I want.
I don't have anything against you at all. You just seem to have something against people "venting" on certain things that annoy you ... and that's perfectly fine because certain things annoy me too ... but you and I have a different approach obviously.
If my threads get under your skin in any way ... then don't read them.
LOL, so to put it another way ... Tongue @ SRG
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You're just lying to yourself - it obviously does matter to you.
and i'm not singling you out.. I just can't understand WHY you post what you do.. not to mention your arguments are fairly one-sided. This is just me but I think there's alot more going on than you're letting us know..
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Okay ... I've given both sides of the situation to the best of my ability.
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Yeah cappy sweetie your bootaaay is it thick can i palm it like a basketball. And thick meaning all over nice firm legs some broad hips and sweet ta..... d end,lol.
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/Okay ... I've given both sides of the situation to the best of my ability./
If thats true, then you've made one person out as a bad guy and one as a good guy.
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Okay, I stated what I've done along with what he's done, if it sounds imbalanced to you SRG, then I can't convey it any other way. If you believe that I'm lying to myself, then I can't change that through a text .... but I'm not going to stop posting what I feel just because you like it.
I don't mean to come off rude but I don't see you stating such things to other users, you have only made these comments to me and that's not fair. Of course I can't state both sides equally, but I can't state what I've experienced.
Yes, I am emotive and I post what I feel ... this is what being on a messageboard is all about.
Sorry, some cancer men (men period) are just not as direct as you are.
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hey cappysweetie dont listen to SRG.... i dunno whats the mans problem!
i wonder what is his star sign....
and SRG obviously it matters to her, she was in love with this cancerian man ( more like a jerk) , and when ur in love with someone most people generally dont just get over with it like that.........
and if u go thru the cancer posts ull see that many , i repeat many women had similar problems..... the problems these women had with their cancer men seem so similar, that makes u believe that gosh this whole astrology thing is rather accurate!
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Awww, thanks ingo,
Thank you so much for your support smile
Yeah, my feelings for him were strong because I let myself get to that point.
No, I'm not worried about SRG, it his opinion and he has a right to them -- some individials just don't understand that anyone can't handle things the same way.
Thank you again smile
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LOL!!! @ Daemon, you have such a great sense of humor smile
Yes I am a rather curvy girl -- around the lower region that is Winking
I have a round rear, hips , thighs, legs ... I'm a pear shaped girl Tongue
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Update:
Hey TC,
I think I've finally got the remainder of the cancer guy out of my system. He has been calling but I will not answer. What you said on the Capricorn board was the truth ... it hasn't been long enough yet.
It's getting easier to not feel terrible about not picking up the phone. You were right, he'll be just fine smile
So hopefully he'll just leave me alone and go charm another girl into doing all of his bidding Tongue
Thank you for the support ... I'll let you posted Winking
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mmmm yummy curvvvyyy can i umm give you a stamp of approval cappysweetie huh ,I Love pear one of my fav fruits ,so i can eat u then,mmmmmmmmm
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hang tough sweetie, you're almost there....closing the door to your fatal attraction is tough, but necessary to survive...he would have drowned you...you deserve someone who will healthy for you.
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Very happy for you Cappy smile
"you deserve someone who will healthy for you"
- My thoughts exactly!
Keep focusing on the more important things of life right now, there's no need to be with someone... that's a miscellaneous Tongue It'll work itself into your life when it's ready to happen... Take care missy!
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This cancer-bashing has gone on long enough.. I will not sit idly by and let this free for all continue. If you guys have nothing good to say about us, why not just keep quiet?? If you don't like it, find something else, move on for gods sake and give it a rest.
..a middle finger to all you discontents..
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Maybe so, but lately it's becoming a trend and it's pissing me off. Stop making us out to be the bad guys and yourselves the victims.. remember, it takes 2 to tango.
..and I still think the only thing really going on here is just some casual attention-whoring. Ooops, sorry for not being politically correct.. what I should have said is: you guys are the best, keep it up, thanks for the support.. Sad
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Well... i'll just have to take cappy's word for it. If I was that guy, I would have been running for the hills a long time ago.
I'm sorry you've had such bad experiences with a cancer but I don't believe that one bad experience should ruin your entire outlook.
Also, I never called anyone a whore or said women are whores.. merely implied that MAYBE someone here is just looking for some attention.. thats all.
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Hi!!! M Ldy,
Are you feeling better ??? Last time I checked you had very bad cold. Ugh! It sucks having a cold in the summer. So I'm happy you are feeling better smile
Thank you soooo much M Ldy, from the bottom of my heart smile I don't deserve your kindiness but thank you for thinking that highly of me smile smile smile smile smile

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M Ldy,
Honestly, I don't know why SRG likes to single me out (I know you stated otherwise SRG but that's how you make me feel Sad) but I guess that's just what he wants to do ... haha, maybe he doesn't care for capricorns that much ....
Anywho, if his opinion is that I'm an "attention-whore" (I'm not stupid, his statement was meant for me) then that's his opinion and if others feel that way, then so be it -- I don't have to prove myself and I certainy don't need anyone's permission to state what's on my mind smile
Regardless, like any other DXP user I have the right to post what's on my mind.
To SRG:
Hey, I don't have a problem with you at all my dear smile ... but it's apparent that you have a problem with what I have to say about a certain man. If what I have to say offends you, then get off me and don't respond to any of my posts that make you uncomfortable.
Hahaha, do you honestly think that I hold all cancer men accountable for his actions towards me ????? LOL, dear SRG ... you need to relax my man Winking
Oh yeah, and you will not "mute" me, I will state whatever I please without your permission Winking
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