so i found out

Posted by rakac
well i never rdly dated younger than me, woman is either my age or 2-5yrs older, they are more mature and i can have better convo's with them, tho not all of them, now dating aries same age as me and she looks mature, with head on her shoulders, i don't rly care about age, it's just all women i've been with was either my age or older that's all, it's not like i'm looking for younger or older, prob vibes thing or somth, how old is that guy?

Posted by libralotus
Why do cancer men do what they do? No one will fucking understand their shit mentality.

Posted by rakac
well i never rdly dated younger than me, woman is either my age or 2-5yrs older, they are more mature and i can have better convo's with them, tho not all of them, now dating aries same age as me and she looks mature, with head on her shoulders, i don't rly care about age, it's just all women i've been with was either my age or older that's all, it's not like i'm looking for younger or older, prob vibes thing or somth, how old is that guy?

Posted by Impulsv
Maybe he can relate better with his age

Posted by victoriagemini
Bloody hell.......I found out he lost interest in me and found a new girl but she's 38 like him which surprised me. This crab man used to date younger women like myself. Which makes the whole looking for a mother thing true. No offense 38 is not old I'm just surprised. Yes I'm dissapoited because texting me I miss you which most likely was a lie and now he has a new girl that's a lot older than me. So my question is do crab men end up with older women?

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Posted by rakac
well i never rdly dated younger than me, woman is either my age or 2-5yrs older, they are more mature and i can have better convo's with them, tho not all of them, now dating aries same age as me and she looks mature, with head on her shoulders, i don't rly care about age, it's just all women i've been with was either my age or older that's all, it's not like i'm looking for younger or older, prob vibes thing or somth, how old is that guy?

He's 37

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Posted by rakac
well i never rdly dated younger than me, woman is either my age or 2-5yrs older, they are more mature and i can have better convo's with them, tho not all of them, now dating aries same age as me and she looks mature, with head on her shoulders, i don't rly care about age, it's just all women i've been with was either my age or older that's all, it's not like i'm looking for younger or older, prob vibes thing or somth, how old is that guy?

He's 37

so they are almost the same age while you're almost 10yrs younger, distance might be the issue because i don't think years are, distant relationship for cancer is fucking hard, i had one and i wouldn't want to do it again. Also depends loads on moon and venus sign, when i commit i commit hard, i don't look elsewhere, most cancer's i've heard can go back and forth, but i can't if i leave i leave for good, might be mine sagiitarrius moon or leo venus, why look back, past has nothing new to say . also depends on situation of a break up, i don't give up when it's hard i'm all in, but when i'm done i'm done, i gaive my all and if a person didn't value that it's their loss rly everyone deserves to be happy and have the best people by them who support,trust and respect, love not who complain, scream and insult you

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Posted by justagirl

Posted by victoriagemini
Bloody hell.......I found out he lost interest in me and found a new girl but she's 38 like him which surprised me. This crab man used to date younger women like myself. Which makes the whole looking for a mother thing true. No offense 38 is not old I'm just surprised. Yes I'm dissapoited because texting me I miss you which most likely was a lie and now he has a new girl that's a lot older than me. So my question is do crab men end up with older women?

Nm I see 37.

How is a 1 year difference someone seeking a mother figure.

He wasnt into you. Move on girlie, I think people have been suggesting that for some time

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Posted by Honeybunniie
I feel like men in general loves n drawn to confidence and ambition. I dnt know you but by observing your post you still come off as not as confident and doubtful in yourself. And that's ok bc u are still young and learning this life journey. From previous posts u have posted, it seem like he lost interest a long time ago. You will find an awesome guy that will give u his world but until then enjoy n date a lil! There's a lot to explore n learn.

Posted by victoriagemini
Bloody hell.......I found out he lost interest in me and found a new girl but she's 38 like him which surprised me. This crab man used to date younger women like myself. Which makes the whole looking for a mother thing true. No offense 38 is not old I'm just surprised. Yes I'm dissapoited because texting me I miss you which most likely was a lie and now he has a new girl that's a lot older than me. So my question is do crab men end up with older women?

Posted by happyface1

Posted by victoriagemini
Bloody hell.......I found out he lost interest in me and found a new girl but she's 38 like him which surprised me. This crab man used to date younger women like myself. Which makes the whole looking for a mother thing true. No offense 38 is not old I'm just surprised. Yes I'm dissapoited because texting me I miss you which most likely was a lie and now he has a new girl that's a lot older than me. So my question is do crab men end up with older women?

You're kind of slow....how did you come up with the this Cancer gravitating towards a motherly figure by him dating someone his age.

Seems like an excuse to make yourself feel better about being rejected.

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Posted by happyface1
Yes....you don't catch on to things very quickly. I thought you were 21 or something like that but you're 30 and kind of naive.

You need to get a grip on that or you will continue to have these issues with men.

You should go by actions not just words and social media when trying to gauge if someone is interested in you or not.

Posted by thinktoomuch

Posted by justagirl

Posted by victoriagemini
Bloody hell.......I found out he lost interest in me and found a new girl but she's 38 like him which surprised me. This crab man used to date younger women like myself. Which makes the whole looking for a mother thing true. No offense 38 is not old I'm just surprised. Yes I'm dissapoited because texting me I miss you which most likely was a lie and now he has a new girl that's a lot older than me. So my question is do crab men end up with older women?

Nm I see 37.

How is a 1 year difference someone seeking a mother figure.

He wasnt into you. Move on girlie, I think people have been suggesting
that for some time

QFT!

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Posted by victoriagemini

Posted by thinktoomuch

Posted by justagirl

Posted by victoriagemini
Bloody hell.......I found out he lost interest in me and found a new girl but she's 38 lik
e him which surprised me. This crab man used to date younger women like myself. Which makes the whole looking for a mother thing true. No offense 38 is not old I'm just surprised. Yes I'm dissapoited because texting me I miss you which most likely was a lie and now he has a new girl that's a lot older than me. So my question is do crab men end up with older women?

Nm I see 37.

How is a 1 year difference someone
seeking a mother figure.

He wasnt into you. Move on girlie, I think people have been suggesting
that for some time

QFT!

You again? Geeeezzzz

I could say the same to you and this topic

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Posted by Harukka
It's not about the age, believe me.

I know a man leave girl in 21 age, to marry woman in 32 years old.

I don't know what his sign..but my guess he is a cap.

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Posted by happyface1
Yes....you don't catch on to things very quickly. I thought you were 21 or something like that but you're 30 and kind of naive.

You need to get a grip on that or you will continue to have these issues with men.

You should go by actions not just words and social media when trying to gauge if someone is interested in you or not.

We went out... We were physical...this is not just social media and you're going of topic. Bye felicia!

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Posted by bawlikestogomoo
If it makes you feel better, her age is 83 if you reverse it.

Posted by aquarius09
Nobody likes rejection and it probably hurts that he picked someone else over you, but don't take it personally. This is a blessing in disguise. Now you're free to find someone who is better suited for you. She was better suited for him than you were, especially given the long distance between uou too. Would you stay with a person while a better fit came along?

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Posted by victoriagemini

Posted by happyface1
Yes....you don't catch on to things very quickly. I thought you were 21 or something like that but you're 30 and kind of naive.

You need to get a grip on that or you will continue to have these issues with men.

You should go by actions not just words and social media when trying to gauge if someone is interested in you or not.

We went out... We were physical...this is not just social media
and you're going of topic. Bye felicia!

Lol....right....I remember you all got physical. That's one of the reasons he never took you seriously.

I thought that was you....you teased him with sex by being playing with his penis and letting him finger you....then decided to take the high road and left him with blue balls lol

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Posted by kissmygrits
Such a psycho.

Posted by Harukka

Posted by kissmygrits
Such a psycho.

Maybe he leave you for kissmygrits hahah

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Posted by bawlikestogomoo
If it makes you feel better, her age is 83 if you reverse it.

HahahahhHahahahha.......No

Like I said it makes me feel worse. I'm not saying I'm better than her. Just surprised since I know he dated a lot of younger women, so I thought that's what he's attracted to. No biggie

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Posted by happyface1
Yes....you don't catch on to things very quickly. I thought you were 21 or something like that but you're 30 and kind of naive.

You need to get a grip on that or you will continue to have these issues with men.

You should go by actions not just words and social media when trying to gauge if someone is interested in you or not.

We went out... We were physical...this is not just social media
and you're going of topic. Bye felicia!

Lol....right....I remember you all got physical. That's one of the reasons he never took you seriously.

I thought that was you....you teased him with sex by being playing with his penis and letting him finger you....then decided to take the high road and left him with blue balls lol

I wasn't playing him. Plus it was just a once time thing..if he was really into me he wouldn't just take that situation and leave. He was still speaking to me and I even told him I'm sorry I wasn't ready. If he hated me that much he would of stopped talking to me. Point is he just wanted sex and not to date me. Which is OK..I miss read his intentions. Now stop being cruella de ville and smell some daisies

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Posted by Impulsv
Maybe he can relate better with his age

Could be but he's very child like for his age.

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Posted by justagirl

Posted by victoriagemini
Bloody hell.......I found out he lost interest in me and found a new girl but she's 38 like him which surprised me. This crab man used to date younger women like myself. Which makes the whole looking for a mother thing true. No offense 38 is not old I'm just surprised. Yes I'm dissapoited because texting me I miss you which most likely was a lie and now he has a new girl that's a lot older than me. So my question is do crab men end up with older women?

Nm I see 37.

How is a 1 year difference someone seeking a mother figure.

He wasnt into you. Move on girlie, I think people have been suggesting that for some time

I am moving on but he texted me miss you and he still has my social media. Listen I'm happy for him but sad for myself until I get better its on my mind

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Posted by aquarius09
Nobody likes rejection and it probably hurts that he picked someone else over you, but don't take it personally. This is a blessing in disguise. Now you're free to find someone who is better suited for you. She was better suited for him than you were, especially given the long distance between uou too. Would you stay with a person while a better fit came along?

Yes thanks love....you know at least I had a good time with him and maybe we can be friends.

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Posted by aquarius09
Nobody likes rejection and it probably hurts that he picked someone else over you, but don't take it personally. This is a blessing in disguise. Now you're free to find someone who is better suited for you. She was better suited for him than you were, especially given the long distance between uou too. Would you stay with a person while a better fit came along?

Lol women seem so competitive

"Picked someone else over you"

Maybe there was just no comparison.

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Posted by IllaLupus
Nvm seen your sexual encounter was a one time thing

Well he got what he wanted you dangled the bait he went you ripped it out and paddled away in your boat expected him to swim after

Posted by SensitiveBlues
What I don't get is why ten threads about a guy whose not into you and never has been?

I find that weird

Posted by thinktoomuch

Posted by IllaLupus
Nvm seen your sexual encounter was a one time thing

Well he got what he wanted you dangled the bait he went you ripped it out and paddled away in your boat expected him to swim after

Well any human being as alowed to have sex if they want to. I don´t think we should try and tell women to hold back on having sex, if they want to. But!! Having sex will in no way gurantee you that a man stayes or even that he likes you. That´s the important thing to learn and remember.

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Posted by victoriagemini

Posted by happyface1
Yes....you don't catch on to things very quickly. I thought you were 21 or something like that but you're 30 and kind of naive.

You need to get a grip on that or you will continue to have these issues with men.

You should go by actions not just words and social media when trying to gauge if someone is interested
in you or not.

We went out... We were physical...this is not just social media and you're going of topic. Bye felicia!

"Bye Felicia"- said by the "mature" almost 30 year old.
im sorry that you are having difficulty seeing your role in anything.

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Posted by juliette

Posted by victoriagemini
Bloody hell.......I found out he lost interest in me and found a new girl but she's 38 like him which surprised me. This crab man used to date younger women like myself. Which makes the whole looking for a mother thing true. No offense 38 is not old I'm just surprised. Yes I'm dissapoited because texting me I miss you which most likely was a lie and now he has a new girl that's a lot older than me. So my question is do crab men end up with older women?

She is 38 like him and that's how you concluded that he is looking for a mother figure? Wtf

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Posted by Impulsv
Well uve been proven wrong apparently

Posted by victoriagemini

Posted by juliette

Posted by victoriagemini
Bloody hell.......I found out he lost interest in me and found a new girl but she's 38 like him which surprised me. This crab man used to date younger women like myself. Which makes the whole looking for a mother thing true. No offense 38 is not old I'm just surprised. Yes I'm dissapoited because texting me I miss you which most likely was a lie and now he has a new girl that's a lot older than me. So my question is do crab men end up with older women?

She is 38 like him and that's how you concluded that he is looking for a mother figure? Wtf

Because men love younger usually

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Posted by victoriagemini

Posted by juliette

Posted by victoriagemini
Bloody hell.......I found out he lost interest in me and found a new girl but she's 38 like him which surprised me. This crab man used to date younger women like myself. Which makes the whole looking for a mother thing true. No offense 38 is not old I'm
just surprised. Yes I'm dissapoited because texting me I miss you which most likely was a lie and now he has a new girl that's a lot older than me. So my question is do crab men end up with older women?

She is 38 like him and that's how you concluded that he is looking for a mother figure? Wtf

Because men love younger usually

ROFLMFAO!!.....You actually believe that tripe
? "All" men after the young chickies? Some prefer them older, some like younger, some like women close to their own age, and some just don't care.

Look, you didn't have anything that deep with him, you had one touchy-feely session with him, and some dates.....and he's moved to someone else who seems to have caught his attention more than you did, so what's the big deal? Who cares how old she is or even what she looks like? Is
he the last man on earth and you have to get pregnant to save the human race? No! So find another guy. It really is that simple. IF you insist on making it complicated then you COULD decide that she's smarter, prettier, has more mental connection with him, and the two of them have hours and hours of mind blowing sex while money just magically pours into their bank accounts for no real reason other than they're the most perfect match EVER
......but that would be as silly as what you're currently doing
by obsessing over a guy who found someone else he'd rather get jiggy with.

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Posted by juliette

Posted by victoriagemini
Bloody hell.......I found out he lost interest in me and found a new girl but she's 38 like him which surprised me. This crab man used to date younger women like myself. Which makes the whole looking for a mother thing true. No offense 38 is not old I'm
just surprised. Yes I'm dissapoited because texting me I miss you which most likely was a lie and now he has a new girl that's a lot older than me. So my question is do crab men end up with older women?

She is 38 like him and that's how you concluded that he is looking for a mother figure? Wtf

Because men love younger usually

ROFLMFAO!!.....You actually believe that tripe
? "All" men after the young chickies? Some prefer them older, some like younger, some like women close to their own age, and some just don't care.

Look, you didn't have anything that deep with him, you had one touchy-feely session with him, and some dates.....and he's moved to someone else who seems to have caught his attention more than you did, so what's the big deal? Who cares how old she is or even what she looks like? Is
he the last man on earth and you have to get pregnant to save the human race? No! So find another guy. It really is that simple. IF you insist on making it complicated then you COULD decide that she's smarter, prettier, has more mental connection with him, and the two of them have hours and hours of mind blowing sex while money just magically pours into their bank accounts for no real reason other than they're the most perfect match EVER
......but that would be as silly as what you're currently doing
by obsessing over a guy who found someone else he'd rather get jiggy with.

You don't get it....it keeps happening to me. Not just him. Every men I think wants to persue something with me in the end its only about sex. And I mean the guys I am attracted too as well not dudes that hit me up and I feel nothing for them. That's why this hurts really bad. I'm 29 and I Never Never had a boyfriend.

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Posted by aquarius09
Listen Victoria, all men want sex. That's their final destination with a woman. There are no hard rules on when you should sleep with a guy to get him to commit to you. Sex shouldn't even be a factor when it comes to keeping a male. Women think sleeping with a man and at what stage is crucial in keeping them. These are all social constructs. You gotta hook a guy on your personality.

The simple advice to keeping a man/female is the following:

People, at the end of the day, will remember how someone makes them feel. If it's a good feeling, then they seek you out. If it's a bad feeling, they would love nothing more than to get away from you. If you made them feel neutral, that's nothing
special and you hold no value. The mark anyone should try to reach is making someone feel good about themselves. This goes back to your personality meshing with his. If your personality meshed well with his, then you would have made him feel good and he would stick to you. I personally feel that you made him feel neutral until someone who made him feel good came along. It has nothing to do with age or whether you slept with him or
not or what not.