Okay i talked to him again..yay. i got weak and unblocked him on my chat program. i couldnt stop thinking about him. i messaged him "i dont get why you do this" "its like youre trying to build it up for great sex" lol...he said that wasnt true.. i told him to come over, but i dont think he wanted to drive, anyway he said he texted me back yesterday(which i never got....) we were flirting, and talking about seeing each other again and how he wants me alone in a room together...then he told me he had to be honest with me, and he told me he had sex with one of his ex coworkers...he said he felt guilty, and wished it never happened, he said he felt like he was cheating on me(we're not exclusive), i said i hope youre not saying this for some sort of ego boost coz it makes you look worse to me not better, he said no not all, but he felt guilty and said once he was done, he went outside to smoke, and just left, i said thats pretty scr3wed up to do to a girl, he said it didnt feel right, and i said how do i know u wouldnt do that to me? he said youre different, with us, its more emotional... he asked if i was jealous or mad, i said no im not jealous im not mad, just disappointed. he told me he liked being with me, and invited me to a beach camping thing with his friends tomorrow(although i probably wont be able to go)..
i feel like hes always trying to make me jealous, am i nuts to think this? is this a cancer trait? hes always ALWAYS showing off to me, always trying to impress me with how desirable he is to others. i find it cute only coz i see right thru him.
i feel like hes always trying to make me jealous, am i nuts to think this? is this a cancer trait? Yeah, Cancer men do that! LOL! That is what they do indeed. Like the one I know said 2 me once"U better keep up, I am your man, U R going 2 let another women fill in your shoes." I just looked at him, however, I got up and he started running like I was going 2 chase him or something. I said, I am not chasing after U, if she wants U, she can have U. STOPPED HIM, dead in his tracks. I feel like, if U R going 2 cheat, I am not going 2 compete with no other woman. He was the 1 competing 4 me anyway, cause I already have a man. So, U want me! However, HE is waiting just as nice, and patient 4 me 2 leave my man. I always think it is better 4 me anyways, 2 not rush 2 quick 2 let a Cancer man know that U want him 2 B your man. I hear they love and want what they can't have. SO U can't have me! It works! Try it!
hes always ALWAYS showing off to me, always trying to impress me with how desirable he is to others. i find it cute only coz i see right thru him.
"i feel like hes always trying to make me jealous, am i nuts to think this? is this a cancer trait?"
-YES!!! unfortunately, this is very much a cancer trait. we love to try to make our significant other jealous...and we love to brag about people we have hooked up with, etc. it's horrible that we do this...and it only hurts us in the end because if we are with someone who is really into us, they don't want to hear that kind of stuff...it is just a turn-off for them to hear it.
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i got weak and unblocked him on my chat program. i couldnt stop thinking about him.
i messaged him "i dont get why you do this" "its like youre trying to build it up for great sex" lol...he said that wasnt true..
i told him to come over, but i dont think he wanted to drive, anyway he said he texted me back yesterday(which i never got....)
we were flirting, and talking about seeing each other again and how he wants me alone in a room together...then he told me he had to be honest with me, and he told me he had sex with one of his ex coworkers...he said he felt guilty, and wished it never happened, he said he felt like he was cheating on me(we're not exclusive), i said i hope youre not saying this for some sort of ego boost coz it makes you look worse to me not better, he said no not all, but he felt guilty and said once he was done, he went outside to smoke, and just left, i said thats pretty scr3wed up to do to a girl, he said it didnt feel right, and i said how do i know u wouldnt do that to me? he said youre different, with us, its more emotional...
he asked if i was jealous or mad, i said no im not jealous im not mad, just disappointed. he told me he liked being with me, and invited me to a beach camping thing with his friends tomorrow(although i probably wont be able to go)..
i feel like hes always trying to make me jealous, am i nuts to think this? is this a cancer trait? hes always ALWAYS showing off to me, always trying to impress me with how desirable he is to others. i find it cute only coz i see right thru him.
tell me what you guys think....LOL