So I told him...and took the load off...

So, I told my cancerian male friend that I liked him just b/c I was tired of all the mixed signals...urgghhh....and he says he never thought of me beyond a very good friend...and that's where it ended...it hurts, but oh well....

im sorry...but I tend to freak out in these situations kel.

wow..... u got good control over yourself.
today my cancer male friend said it was over between us, he doesnt want to be my fuck buddy anymore, and doesnt wnat to be my friend ne more.
actually, i was the one who called off the fuck buddy thing first. but then i changed my mind, and thats when he said: nah itsok, lets just end it.

😐

i flipped, becuase i hate bieng told: NO.
so he actually got me begging for one last quickie. and hes like: NOPE.
and then i said: tuff its contract .
he said he was busy and would talk to me later.
in the moment i was so pissed, but now. meh w/e. called up a couple frineds, went out for espresso, n now im cool.

FRIENDS ARE KEY in times like these. hopefully u guys can still be friends and it wont get awkward. if u can still be friends, then ur very lucky.

Thats exactly what mine did to me! what the hell. good riddance once we say we're interested, and they dont exactly put us down softly either. why must they do that?

ACTUALLY u kno what, get this sarasa.....
back in the dya, like back in the day, i remmeber i told my cancer friend i like dhim for the first time.... n he replied: ( smiling) see was that so hard.
i thought to myself.. noo i guess not, but WTF? thas all u have to say?
weeeks passed, and i think i asked him if he liked me, he said yes.. i said: REALLY? he said: no.
i said oh u dont like me? he said no.
i started crying syaing how could i think u would like me bla bla( this was all over the internet by the way...
n then i was also crying to my frined whom i was tlaking to at the same time. she told me not to cry, and not to be mad at him. i was like: WHAT R U SAYING—?YOUR TAKING HIS SIDE?? she said: okay promise u cant tell him, but he told me he likes you.

then the next day or so he wrote me an emialing saying that he liked me. he came to my door, and asked me out.

it took him like a MONTH afterwrads to confesss.
A MONTH. even when i aske dhim straight up, he still denied it. i found that really weird. but i guess it shows how scared he was.

That was rude. I would've told him "NO" when he asked me out.

see, here's my story:

I have been talking to the guy on msn for over a year now. We are very good friends and he has said this himself=)...we never started chatting with the intention of looking for a significant other...but I did realize over the past few months that I like him more than just a friend...I never got a chance to say it to him until the other day when something was brought up...so, I let it out of the box and told him how I felt...he said that he was surprised and that he never thought of me beyond being a very good friend. Apparently, he fears marriage/relationship:S....but was "happy" about how I felt for him...boosting his ego?? weird....He also said that he wanted to keep things the same b/w us (our friendship) b/c he values that a lot...in short, he doesn't want to lose me as a friend...and I don't doubt that...apparently I know a lot about him...more than anyone else he knows of...that's what he said...sooo yes, we'll still be friends...it won't be easy on me...but just b/c he couldn't return similar feelings doesn't mean I change the way things are b/w us...it wouldn't be fair to either of us=)...so yeh...I guess I'll just move on...