so there's this cancer guy, right?...

he's recently entered my life about a month ago. i've really only spent time with him twice and we've been mostly emailing back and forth.

i'm starting to think he REALLY likes me. for starters, he's a double whammy (cancer sun & moon, libra rising, leo in venus). from what i've read they're supposed to be painfully passive but he's actually quite aggressive and persistent.

he's a musician in a band i support. for their first big gig (meaning they landed a spot for one of the more popular venues in the city) i posted a bulletin saying i would give out free hugs/scalp massages to the paying patrons who attended as a 'thank you'. it was mostly a joke but, since i am touchy-feely, if anyone (customers that is) asked i would have done it. he's been relentlessly asking me for one ever since. he even hit me up after the show to probe me for one in a very direct way. he's actually quite confident. mostly he stares at me though. he knows i've been putting in the effort to promote them but he's already asked me to become their manager and compliments me to no end. he's already talking figures and long-term commitments to this and i haven't even agreed to anything! the only thing he has done in an indirect way is ask me to attend a show coming up (he's in 2 bands) for his other band.

i guess i am just a little confused since this seems outta character from what i gather about cancers. if it helps i am a leo-virgo cusper (sun in leo and moon in virgo), cancer rising, and my venus is also in leo. i'm oddly physically attracted to him but not incredibly so. i could probably flirt with him forever but don't think i'll ever go all the way. honestly, there are a lotta things he doesn't have going for him and i'm a package deal kinda girl.

so is this how cancer boys typically behave when they have their eye on someone?

I don't know exactly myself.
But my moms boyfriend is cancer and they were dating no time before he moved in, my mom is also a leo.

i'm not sure if it's that he's interested in you, or more so interested in you being his band's manager because you've put in so much effort in promoting them. i could be wrong though...

Why even bother stringing him along?? That is rude, just let it be and let him go on and find someone that REALLY want's him.

ha! he's not being "strung along". i don't know how u came to that conclusion.

Posted by ninjamu
ha! he's not being "strung along". i don't know how u came to that conclusion.

Well just leave him alone if you don't want nothing serious, that could have been answer by yourself.