So this is how Cancers make you feel
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by fieryearth on Thursday, March 15, 2007 and has 72 replies.
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I just cannot get this Cancer guy out of my head. We used to talk regularly a few months back, but then I got involved with an Aries, so it all stopped there. We randomly instant message each other to see how we are doing- nothing serious. It is obviously he still have feelings for me, and I still have feelings for him-but we are both in relationships right now. I am not saying I want to pursue something with him, but I just can't get him out of my head and he is a great person and is gorgeous inside and out...
He will be coming to the city where I live, so we plan on hanging out, but I do not know because I know there are feelings there and I do not want to do anything I will regret.
I am confused, I am happy in my relationship, but I just cannot help but question-what if?
He will be coming to the city where I live, so we plan on hanging out, but I do not know because I know there are feelings there and I do not want to do anything I will regret.
I am confused, I am happy in my relationship, but I just cannot help but question-what if?
It is crazy because the last time I saw him (few months ago), I felt this crazy attraction towards him (not just physical but more mental, like we were on the same page)...
yeah, a cancers' charm usually depends on his/her mood.
anyway,
it seems like the best thing to do is to NOT see him, depending on how your relationship with the aries is going. doing so only places your relationship in jeopardy, and really, is that where you want to go? you're already catching feelings, and yes, you can't really control that. but the issue is your behaviour--can you control that and do the right thing? it seems your mind is already made up on this cancer, that you WANT him. teasing yourself with seeing him, while exciting and fun, will most probably lead to one of two things: you cheating on your bf, be it through just lies or simply by feeling for someone else, or you become miserable and your relationship to your aries and his feelings suffer.
however, cancers are very perceptive. if you feel something towards him, any kind of connection, then he probably feels it to, and maybe even more intensely.
anyway,
it seems like the best thing to do is to NOT see him, depending on how your relationship with the aries is going. doing so only places your relationship in jeopardy, and really, is that where you want to go? you're already catching feelings, and yes, you can't really control that. but the issue is your behaviour--can you control that and do the right thing? it seems your mind is already made up on this cancer, that you WANT him. teasing yourself with seeing him, while exciting and fun, will most probably lead to one of two things: you cheating on your bf, be it through just lies or simply by feeling for someone else, or you become miserable and your relationship to your aries and his feelings suffer.
however, cancers are very perceptive. if you feel something towards him, any kind of connection, then he probably feels it to, and maybe even more intensely.
thanks fiddlesticks.
"doing so only places your relationship in jeopardy, and really, is that where you want to go?"
Itz best to spend time with the one U have a "real" connection with....Relationships are anyways impermanent. Plus it saves the involved parties from some "heartburn" as well.
"yeah, a cancers' charm usually depends on his/her mood."
Well said. Perhaps thatz the time when they provide a sense of security and stability to women which is one of the essential elements.
Itz best to spend time with the one U have a "real" connection with....Relationships are anyways impermanent. Plus it saves the involved parties from some "heartburn" as well.
"yeah, a cancers' charm usually depends on his/her mood."
Well said. Perhaps thatz the time when they provide a sense of security and stability to women which is one of the essential elements.
hmmm interesting antibling...
thanks antibling =)...I love hearing other opinions~ makes me see things differently, and I did not see it that way...
LOL!!! "indulge myself"??
hah!
"Cancer men are spineless. If you want a son, then go for it!"- who me?
LOL oh ok thanks antibling- I was a tad confused =)... I thought notso07 meant "baby momma" LOL
"But I can't stand whining and manipulation"- Yeah I feel the same way
lol he is a sweet guy, but not too much of a whiner though ::thank goodness::
he has a lot of Gem and Scorp on his chart....
he has a lot of Gem and Scorp on his chart....
haha... to big mamma lol
HAHAHA!!!!!!!
"....*tears well up in eyes as he looks at feiryearth from afar' ...oohhhh,rrrrrrrrrrrrr..........
it's like that motherer James Blunt and that 'you're beautiful song' ......................'ooohh,I'm sat at the station checking you out....you're with another man' ............yeah,and if he sees you,you're going home in a ing ambulance!!!!!"
"....*tears well up in eyes as he looks at feiryearth from afar' ...oohhhh,rrrrrrrrrrrrr..........
it's like that motherer James Blunt and that 'you're beautiful song' ......................'ooohh,I'm sat at the station checking you out....you're with another man' ............yeah,and if he sees you,you're going home in a ing ambulance!!!!!"
hahahahahaha oh anti! you amuse me. He is not really indie/emo...
oh bling you make me feel so "bad" 
.... (whispers)" sometimes".
.... (whispers)" sometimes".yes.
You made me say it... I feel so exposed 
haha "perv"...
"plus,on a more honest note,Cancers,I've seen (both genders) kinda like it when you have a b/f ....not because they really feel something for you,but because they want to see if you'll chose them over the former,as a way of boosting their ego/(lack of)self esteem/etc....as for 'feeling the connection' ,going off my initial thoguhts,I'd see this as emotional manipulation,something Cancers,I've found are pretty good at hoodwinking people who have idealist (malleable???) thoughts on romance....."
i don't know that many cancers, but the ones i do are not like this. speaking for myself, if a woman i'm interested in has a bf in her life, i avoid her. if i was friends with her before her bf, then i distance myself for the sake of giving their relationship breathing room and to avoid any possible issues. i make some efforts to maintain a friendship, and only that; i give off no signals that could be misinterpreted or lead her on in any way.
and what do you mean "manipulate" in terms of feeling connected to someone? how can this be manipulated? we, and this is not isolated to cancers, may manipulate someone who feels connected to us, but manipulating someone into feeling that initial connection? i dont' think so.
i don't know that many cancers, but the ones i do are not like this. speaking for myself, if a woman i'm interested in has a bf in her life, i avoid her. if i was friends with her before her bf, then i distance myself for the sake of giving their relationship breathing room and to avoid any possible issues. i make some efforts to maintain a friendship, and only that; i give off no signals that could be misinterpreted or lead her on in any way.
and what do you mean "manipulate" in terms of feeling connected to someone? how can this be manipulated? we, and this is not isolated to cancers, may manipulate someone who feels connected to us, but manipulating someone into feeling that initial connection? i dont' think so.
"See,what kinda s me off about this situation,is that he knows you have a man....ing turdy little weasels....I can't stand snakes like this,it's kinda like ,they're thinking 'ooohhh,look how happy she is...I don't want to make any effort....but she'd be happier with me.....can't she see what a deep,whimsical,fey....*tears well up in eyes as he looks at feiryearth from afar' ...oohhhh,rrrrrrrrrrrrr..........
it's like that motherer James Blunt and that 'you're beautiful song' ......................'ooohh,I'm sat at the station checking you out....you're with another man' ............yeah,and if he sees you,you're going home in a ing ambulance!!!!!
*pants*
*rant off*"
feel better? why is it that of all the cowards i know in real life, it's the scorps that talk the most crap behind someone's back and NEVER have the balls to say it to someone's face straight up like a man--or woman? i live by the belief that if you don't have the guts to say something to someone's face, why say it behind their back, or in the safety of your home behind a monitor? anything i've ever said to someone behind their back would go straight to their face. i'm beginning to think that the "secrecy" and bullsht i read about scorps is just that: they have so much disrespect to say but won't say it to your face because they're chicken.
i was out with some friends a while back, one of whom is a scorp. some stuff was about to go down and suddenly he was out of the picture. no loyalty, no balls, except when it was over. same with other scorps that talk big but run and hide when it confronts them. of all the problems i have with sags, leos and aries signs, at least fire signs have your back.
but hey, there's my rant for the day
it's like that motherer James Blunt and that 'you're beautiful song' ......................'ooohh,I'm sat at the station checking you out....you're with another man' ............yeah,and if he sees you,you're going home in a ing ambulance!!!!!
*pants*
*rant off*"
feel better? why is it that of all the cowards i know in real life, it's the scorps that talk the most crap behind someone's back and NEVER have the balls to say it to someone's face straight up like a man--or woman? i live by the belief that if you don't have the guts to say something to someone's face, why say it behind their back, or in the safety of your home behind a monitor? anything i've ever said to someone behind their back would go straight to their face. i'm beginning to think that the "secrecy" and bullsht i read about scorps is just that: they have so much disrespect to say but won't say it to your face because they're chicken.
i was out with some friends a while back, one of whom is a scorp. some stuff was about to go down and suddenly he was out of the picture. no loyalty, no balls, except when it was over. same with other scorps that talk big but run and hide when it confronts them. of all the problems i have with sags, leos and aries signs, at least fire signs have your back.
but hey, there's my rant for the day
^ prime example. you wouldn't dare say a tenth of what you say on the internet to a person's face.
"whoo...beat me to it....thanks....
fiddlesticks...why does everyone use the 'behind the monitor' bollox ???
you are stating the obvious....
but I must say, your contempt for scorpios is quite amusing,interesting to a degree....
Why doesn't that scorp chick want you ???"
doesn't matter why it never worked out with the scorp girl; the two points are mutually exclusive... her not wanting to be with me is not reliant on my being right.
fiddlesticks...why does everyone use the 'behind the monitor' bollox ???
you are stating the obvious....
but I must say, your contempt for scorpios is quite amusing,interesting to a degree....
Why doesn't that scorp chick want you ???"
doesn't matter why it never worked out with the scorp girl; the two points are mutually exclusive... her not wanting to be with me is not reliant on my being right.
"I'd say it to yours,happily,"
sure you would. keep telling yourself that
sure you would. keep telling yourself that
my being right about scorps being cowards such as yourself.
the two points are not reliant on one another.
the two points are not reliant on one another.
"Wanna bet, you spineless chump?"
for someone who goes to *gasp* the THIRTY FOURTH (hahahahhah, i thought it was at least in the top 15) ranked school according to US News, i'd think you'd come up with something more creative
for someone who goes to *gasp* the THIRTY FOURTH (hahahahhah, i thought it was at least in the top 15) ranked school according to US News, i'd think you'd come up with something more creative
washington dc, sunday. tell me how well you know this area and i'll direct you.
"I thought he was going to do that to me "
you're more than welcome to come across the ocean.
you're more than welcome to come across the ocean.
"can't afford the ticket yourself ???"
if you aren't going to come down, then why bring it up? i never said or implied i'd be coming to you.. you did that all on your own buddy.
if you aren't going to come down, then why bring it up? i never said or implied i'd be coming to you.. you did that all on your own buddy.
"""
Aha! So you ARE poor! I knew it!!"
y'know what's funny about you is this:
you never did dirt in your life. you may have done little bullsht like steal this or that from a store or from your mommy... or you may have tried a joint here and there.. maybe even popped a pill. but you never, EVER, would consider doing anything that gets your hands dirty. you are a pathetic little faker and you don't have the heart in you to do real dirt.
oh you'd do something if you got away with it, but not if you had to struggle... not if there was actually anything on the line.... not if anyone could catch you. no, that's too scary for you. so don't come on here and act as though you have it in you. you don't.
Aha! So you ARE poor! I knew it!!"
y'know what's funny about you is this:
you never did dirt in your life. you may have done little bullsht like steal this or that from a store or from your mommy... or you may have tried a joint here and there.. maybe even popped a pill. but you never, EVER, would consider doing anything that gets your hands dirty. you are a pathetic little faker and you don't have the heart in you to do real dirt.
oh you'd do something if you got away with it, but not if you had to struggle... not if there was actually anything on the line.... not if anyone could catch you. no, that's too scary for you. so don't come on here and act as though you have it in you. you don't.
"Unfortunately, I work this Sunday. But I will be in D.C. the first week of April. How does that work for you?"
contact me. until then, leave me alone.
contact me. until then, leave me alone.
what part of "leave me alone" is so complicated for your puny, little brain?
http://www.google.com/maps?q=Savannah+St+SE+% 26+12th+St+SE,+Washington,+DC+20032&sa=X&oi=map&ct=title
11.30pm
if you guys are so dense and i must reiterate: i told her to stay away from the cancer.
i give my honest opinion and advice to people that have questions about cancer males. the majority of the people on here that give advice on cancer males are neither male or cancer.
i give my honest opinion and advice to people that have questions about cancer males. the majority of the people on here that give advice on cancer males are neither male or cancer.
the point is that all you guys do is bash on cancers. you particularly are a venomous person that picked a fight with me and antibling is busy cheerleading so he can hope for some e-pu55y.
y'know what, antibling, fck you man. you're a straight up punk.
"already had it,ta...
no the point was giving fieryearth advice,now you've just backed it up with your own posts......."
oh, i'm sorry, was i the one that started this bull? no. you came in with your head up your ass wanting to bash cancers, calling us turds and whatnot... after notso started with the namecalling.
no the point was giving fieryearth advice,now you've just backed it up with your own posts......."
oh, i'm sorry, was i the one that started this bull? no. you came in with your head up your ass wanting to bash cancers, calling us turds and whatnot... after notso started with the namecalling.
"yes,funnily enough,you were the one who started all this bull....go back and check again...
then you wonder why you get labelled with stuff like 'trying to turn things round/pass the blame on...'........"
no, actually, i'm not. i was content to leave little notso all alone... but if you read what she wrote immediately after my posts, she called me fiddledumb. now, while this is simply bull and i don't really care, the point is clear: she wanted to pick a fight and so did you with all your bashing and generalizations, from calling us turds to spineless to whatever else. you are cowards and you get off on bashing cancers in this forum because it makes you feel powerful. it's pathetic.
then you wonder why you get labelled with stuff like 'trying to turn things round/pass the blame on...'........"
no, actually, i'm not. i was content to leave little notso all alone... but if you read what she wrote immediately after my posts, she called me fiddledumb. now, while this is simply bull and i don't really care, the point is clear: she wanted to pick a fight and so did you with all your bashing and generalizations, from calling us turds to spineless to whatever else. you are cowards and you get off on bashing cancers in this forum because it makes you feel powerful. it's pathetic.
you don't even come in here to contribute anything worthwhile. you come in here to e-flirt and write out your little e-actions like a little 13 yr old that just discovered girls on the internet.
i don't give a sht if it stings... it's fcking sad that you resort to this site to pick up chicks.
notso, you have the location and the time. no other words are needed. this is a simple matter and will be handled upon your arrival. only cowards need to hype themselves up for something so paltry.
"think about it.....hardly going to meet up with anyone on ghere,that's the realms of idiocy....wait a minute,who's trying to meet up with notso ????
say it isn't so ?????
again and again and again........."
let's see, she asked to meet up, if i remember. she's coming down to me, if i remember. she's the one that started insulting me, if i remember.
say it isn't so ?????
again and again and again........."
let's see, she asked to meet up, if i remember. she's coming down to me, if i remember. she's the one that started insulting me, if i remember.
so why start things if you're too scared to finish it?
do i go around insulting people and then be like "omg why're you so mad, why can't you let it go?" when they get angry?
how about this: learn how not to start sht and won't BE sht.
do i go around insulting people and then be like "omg why're you so mad, why can't you let it go?" when they get angry?
how about this: learn how not to start sht and won't BE sht.
"you seem to be more emotionally connected to the internet than most fiddlesticks....
Sure,I see your point,don't start butter,etc,etc.....but to a woman ???"
that doesnt' matter to me. it's her own decision.
Sure,I see your point,don't start butter,etc,etc.....but to a woman ???"
that doesnt' matter to me. it's her own decision.
"right....is this the point where you turn the tables and go 'aha!!! antibling....do you really think I'd hit a woman ???? It's you who's the fool now !!! ahaaaa!!!! '"
it really doesn't matter what you think or how you want to mock me
it really doesn't matter what you think or how you want to mock me
"now you're getting it........"
no, you're not getting it. you aren't coming to me and i'm not coming to you, so there's really no purpose in all of this. notso already wants so badly to meet me, and she will. you however are not going to, so really, why do you continue with this? because it's safe for you, and you get your jollies knowing that you're completely safe in the UK.
no, you're not getting it. you aren't coming to me and i'm not coming to you, so there's really no purpose in all of this. notso already wants so badly to meet me, and she will. you however are not going to, so really, why do you continue with this? because it's safe for you, and you get your jollies knowing that you're completely safe in the UK.
"and you get yours in the US....
'notso already wants so badly to meet me, and she will.'
really???"
she asked for a meetup point, and she has it. she can say all the disrespect she wants straight up to my face like she wants to
'notso already wants so badly to meet me, and she will.'
really???"
she asked for a meetup point, and she has it. she can say all the disrespect she wants straight up to my face like she wants to
now why would i do that?
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