Sooo Cancers, verdict: intimacy issues or just being a Cancer ?

1. When you know or have an inkling of an idea someone is interested in you or about to make a move...do you "run" (avoid) it?

2. &Does your answer differ based on if you like them back or not?

1. depends on answer #2

2. yes

Yes, it depends on whether or not I share their feelings and even if I do I will first want to understand them well enough to feel like there is a pretty good likelihood that we are compatible. If I'm not interested I am going to avoid it and probably them altogether. If I am interested but unsure I won't avoid it but I will be very cautious until I feel confident. Once I am confident I am all in.

Yes, the answer differs based on question#2

If I am interested in him and know for sure that he is interested in me as well, I may be a little more aggressive and give hints to try to speed up the process ?

If I am uninterested, and i know that he is about to make a move, I won't avoid him. I'll will just pretend I'm dating someone and bring it up in a convo etc... so I won't have to turn him down. I despise rejection so I wouldn't want to put anyone through that.

I noticed I do this and I have no idea why.