(Sorry for being annoying last one I swear)

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by ScorpioAEF89 on Tuesday, July 14, 2015 and has 3 replies.
So after asking my cancer guy that if he really was into me
He would make a better effort into text me and see me

I know a lot of you say take it day by day and that's what is as doing
But it's only been like 2 months.

So when I asked him he finally told me

"I wish you would have just told me that and I would have hung out with you. Baby I'm just not very happy lately/kind of depressed. It has nothing to do with you but I'm scared of pushing my problems/issues on to you. "

So of course I said I would support him and be here waiting patiently which I'm willing to, he's worth the wait but I just don't wanna look foolish in the end.

Is this normal? Is it worth to stay around and wait?

Like I said I apologize but I wanna know, I do have all the time in the world, I'm not in no rush for a relationship but when it comes down to is it worth the wait? That's why I asked about him being distant and seem not interested because I have been waiting but I don't wanna wait and him turn the tables? I feel like cancers do this and go in their shell to reenergize, I like to ask you guys because when I ask my friends and family they tell me "if he was into you he would make a better effort, especially if it's only two months " talk. They're like if this is how it's going to be at the beginning are you sure you want to deal with it?

And trust me I've read so much on cancers
And I know that it takes a while for cancers to let people in, and they pull back when they like you but I've also read cancers seem to lie and play so I just don't know what to believe. Being a Scorpio trust is a must and we already have trust issues, and he's lied to me already about one thing ( but it was to protect himself so I understand)

I just need a deep understanding.
If he told you ...""I wish you would have just told me that and I would have hung out with you. Baby I'm just not very happy lately/kind of depressed. It has nothing to do with you but I'm scared of pushing my problems/issues on to you. " that means he's reaching out to you. Feeling insecure probably things in his family life and/or work. Being it a new relationship he didn't want to freak you/ruin it by pushing all his issues on you. If you're willing to listen, which I think you are, then just tell him (which you did) then wait until he opens up. Don't push him. He'll open up when he's ready. Just be steadfast in your presence.
^exactly.