Synastry -7th and 8th house
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by 7thHouseofCards on Monday, July 29, 2024 and has 5 replies.
I am curious about this whole synastry situation.
I found out that I have Cancer in 7th house. Recently met a male coworker who is a Cancer. We didnt click immediately as he was being a dick when we first met but since then he has developed into a more nice and friendly person towards me. Almost like we have become friends. I recently learned that my Sun falls in his 8th house.
We met at an office function for the first time and he wad genuinely happy to see me. Even going as far ad hugging me twice and saying that he was so happy to see me. He told a female coworker that "shes mine. I love working with her" pertaining to me. And also, he told me that he has more connection talking to me than the other lady in the team who is doing the same job as me. I told him thats only because we sre closer in age. Shes like close to 60. When he was talking to me, his face was so close almost whispering to my ear. One coworker who is is his friend asked him to go for a smoke and then they left and when he came back, he didnt sit next to me anymore but i noticed him glancing at me every now snd then all night but not quite approaching.
Someone told me to be careful because my Sun in his 8th house could lead to his obsession? Is this true? Im just curious how it can all play out. Hes not my type but i enjoy the attention he gives me.
I found out that I have Cancer in 7th house. Recently met a male coworker who is a Cancer. We didnt click immediately as he was being a dick when we first met but since then he has developed into a more nice and friendly person towards me. Almost like we have become friends. I recently learned that my Sun falls in his 8th house.
We met at an office function for the first time and he wad genuinely happy to see me. Even going as far ad hugging me twice and saying that he was so happy to see me. He told a female coworker that "shes mine. I love working with her" pertaining to me. And also, he told me that he has more connection talking to me than the other lady in the team who is doing the same job as me. I told him thats only because we sre closer in age. Shes like close to 60. When he was talking to me, his face was so close almost whispering to my ear. One coworker who is is his friend asked him to go for a smoke and then they left and when he came back, he didnt sit next to me anymore but i noticed him glancing at me every now snd then all night but not quite approaching.
Someone told me to be careful because my Sun in his 8th house could lead to his obsession? Is this true? Im just curious how it can all play out. Hes not my type but i enjoy the attention he gives me.
Is your sun sign cancer? Sun sign cancer in 7th house which is ruled by Libra is your relationships with people is what you tend to base your life on. You’re very relationship oriented, would probably love nothing more than a secure, safe marriage with kids, you love loving and being in love—and just the idea of love is wholesome for you. You don’t really have to be careful with your sun being in his 8th house cancer, as that simply means that as you have sun in cancer, you’re like the enlightenment to his 8th house which searches for a deeper meaning behind things. 8th house is concerned with finding deeper meaning to hidden things in life, and since your sun is in his 8th house, he may perceive you as having answers to things he seeks to find…or something like that.
What you would have to be careful with is having a sun in the 7th house as we tend to stay even in unhealthy relationships at the expense of our selves. Our identity, we tend to base it on how others perceive us. Really have to guard your heart. Separation is extremely painful.
What you would have to be careful with is having a sun in the 7th house as we tend to stay even in unhealthy relationships at the expense of our selves. Our identity, we tend to base it on how others perceive us. Really have to guard your heart. Separation is extremely painful.
I reread your op, yea, as he may perceive you as someone who has the answers—you being the “sun” which is light to his 8th house of “searching deeper meanings”, it may be possible that he becomes obsessed with you or these people (depending on if he is a sun/moon/mercury/venus in 8th house) tend to become obsessive about people or things in general.
My husband is a sun in the 8th house. He can be extremely obsessive about things that shouldn’t really matter decades later to the average person... 🙄
My husband is a sun in the 8th house. He can be extremely obsessive about things that shouldn’t really matter decades later to the average person... 🙄
Posted by therestheoneI'm the OP. For some reason dxp wont let me log in woth the username i used for this post. Anyway, to answer your question im a Gemini but I have cancer venus in 7th house, sag rising, virgo moon. He is a cancer, pisces moon, scorp rising, cancer venus.
Is your sun sign cancer? Sun sign cancer in 7th house which is ruled by Libra is your relationships with people is what you tend to base your life on. You’re very relationship oriented, would probably love nothing more than a secure, safe marriage with kids, you love loving and being in love—and just the idea of love is wholesome for you. You don’t really have to be careful with your sun being in his 8th house cancer, as that simply means that as you have sun in cancer, you’re like the enlightenment to his 8th house which searches for a deeper meaning behind things. 8th house is concerned with finding deeper meaning to hidden things in life, and since your sun is in his 8th house, he may perceive you as having answers to things he seeks to find…or something like that.
What you would have to be careful with is having a sun in the 7th house as we tend to stay even in unhealthy relationships at the expense of our selves. Our identity, we tend to base it on how others perceive us. Really have to guard your heart. Separation is extremely painful.
I feel like its fun having him around. A bit distracting from the day to day work grind. So i think im treading carefully
Posted by therestheoneThats intense. Can i do intense? Im not so sure lol
I reread your op, yea, as he may perceive you as someone who has the answers—you being the “sun” which is light to his 8th house of “searching deeper meanings”, it may be possible that he becomes obsessed with you or these people (depending on if he is a sun/moon/mercury/venus in 8th house) tend to become obsessive about people or things in general.
My husband is a sun in the 8th house. He can be extremely obsessive about things that shouldn’t really matter decades later to the average person... 🙄
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