Taurus Guy trying to get close this Cancer Girl

I knew this cancer girl 4 years ago but wasnt close
but that time I was in bad state in terms of financial, career & family issues

now I am top of the world in terms of financial & career and yet within this 4 years
i do keep my feeling for this Cancer and felt that I am stable enough to approach her

within this 4 years i had no time to think on any girls (cause of my job) until i recently met this Cancerian again

so lucky she was assign on business trip to my place, I had one time dinner & teatime with her
and the session was so NICE !!! The feeling talking to her ... I enjoyed it so much!! I enjoy walking next to her ...
seeing her smile ... so sweet !! BTW ... she is single and so am I

but problem starts here, when i trying to ask her out for normal dining, she keep giving me excuses
that her family is here, her bosses are here, she's tired/sick but yet do tell me she want to treat me dinner next time

I bought her a gift but still yet not given to her because she's keep declining to see me.

Perhaps she is not interested in me 😢 but sometimes I do really hope that I can ask her out
for me to tell her that
I LIKE YOU ...
I AM NOT ASKING YOU TO ACCEPT ME NOW ...
I ASKING A CHANCE FOR ME TO SHOW TO YOU WHO I REALLY AM ...
AFTER THAT YOU THINK IF I WORTH IT AND SUITS YOU ... ELSE NOT ...
BUT AT LEAST YOU KNOW THAT I DO LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU'RE JUST BEAUTIFUL AND VERY LOVELY

It been more then 5 years for me to go for another girl and now i found one cancerian
I cant force her to accept me ... but at least i want her to know that someone does like her
So cancerian girls ... tell me ... how will I able to ask you out for nice lovely dinner?
I guess after telling the words above ... I might freak her out as well ... LOL

Posted by aurora
From your story it's not clear enough how well do you know each other. You weren't in any contact during this 4 years? If that's the case you'll probably scare her if you tell her all this 🙂, but tell her something like that you want to get to know her better and to keep in touch. That's good for start. So at least ask for her phone number, email or something before she goes back to her city.

I've being chatting with her, messaging each other (not so frequent) for the past 2 years ... Once in a while i would call her for chit chat. She knows me via her friend ... from how she sees me, she thinks i am cunning, flirtatious and playful. which i admit how i look like outside BUT I AM ACTUALLY NOT. Lol ...

Any updates?

Just be kind to her. Be persistent and then fall back and give her time to think about you as an option with out you being around so much. She will most likely reach out to you if she likes you too. Good luck.

Just be kind to her. Be persistent and then fall back and give her time to think about you as an option with out you being around so much. She will most likely reach out to you if she likes you too. Good luck.

while she was here,
i did manage to ask her out a few times
last sunday dinner i finally manage to give her the gift and she like it so much
and she begins to text me ... I was so happy for it ...

yesterday i wanted to see her because i have something (another gift) for her
but she say she was tired ... ouch 😢 ... at same time her parents flew over visiting her yesterday

she is very nice and perfect in my eyes, but i think that i am not the guy she's hoping for ...
she is surrounded by many hot guys ... LOL ... i guess it makes me the lowest option for her to consider

my taurean birthday is tomorrow and how I wish if i able to ask her to spend a little time with me having coffee chit chat session 😢

Posted by NaughtyTaurus
while she was here,
i did manage to ask her out a few times
last sunday dinner i finally manage to give her the gift and she like it so much
and she begins to text me ... I was so happy for it ...

yesterday i wanted to see her because i have something (another gift) for her
but she say she was tired ... ouch 😢 ... at same time her parents flew over visiting her yesterday

she is very nice and perfect in my eyes, but i think that i am not the guy she's hoping for ...
she is surrounded by many hot guys ... LOL ... i guess it makes me the lowest option for her to consider

my taurean birthday is tomorrow and how I wish if i able to ask her to spend a little time with me having coffee chit chat session 😢

How did things go for your birthday NT? Happy belated birthday.

Posted by LunarMaiden


How did things go for your birthday NT? Happy belated birthday.

Thanks very much. On my bday i didnt manage to ask her out but instead with my close friends & exes ...

She's gone back ... did not manage to tell how i felt for her ... she keep giving excuse ... but then again ...
I know the answer would be no from her because its obvious
For so many years, she was really the girl i've been searching for ... but too bad I am lousy n not good enough
to suit her ...

Well ... Life goes on ... I just need to go for holiday to relax after i finish all my stupid project works

I think you should keep trying. Just don't be too pushy. You might have scared her a lil bit with how strong you were coming on to her. Maybe she isn't familiar with that and got scared. I know if I havnt seen somebody I knew in 4 years and was being persued like that,I would run. I really can't say much because I'm not in your shoes and don't know what type of connection you both have. Maybe she is like me thinking over every little detail and wondering why is this guy so into me? I do this all time and I think its because I'm so guarded. You know I was dealing with a taurus man but things are not working out like I thought they would. I think taurus and cancers make a good match. We both have a need fopr security... At least that's what I think.. Well hope things work out for you.. You never know she might just pop out of nowhere and take you up on that dinner date.