sagatastic
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The Confusion Continues
But that's just it I wasn't talking to him and I started talking lower and he will position himself where ever I am and listen to whatever I tell other people. Also I tried to talk to him a few times before about it and he runs And my guy friends are just that they are usually ex Co workers there has never been any talk of anything romantic at all.
I did use to like him a lot and when I would ask about him and stuff that he did to get their opinion on wither or not he liked me too since I have almost no experience with guys outside my culture and they all told me to forget him so I did or tired to anyway.
Then he told me the food from a restaurant I brought back for him gave him food poisoning and I was like omg I'm so sorry I'm so sorry and nd he was like it's totally cool but yea you gave me food poisoning. Then an hour later talked about a party he went to while he supposedly had food poisoning and I was like omg why would you lie about that and he ran away then I told him off
I did use to like him a lot and when I would ask about him and stuff that he did to get their opinion on wither or not he liked me too since I have almost no experience with guys outside my culture and they all told me to forget him so I did or tired to anyway.
Then he told me the food from a restaurant I brought back for him gave him food poisoning and I was like omg I'm so sorry I'm so sorry and nd he was like it's totally cool but yea you gave me food poisoning. Then an hour later talked about a party he went to while he supposedly had food poisoning and I was like omg why would you lie about that and he ran away then I told him off
Thinking about my cancer interest here and it sounds like you're stressing him out because you're wishy washy with your communication, attention, and feelings. One minute you're one way and the next you're another. I bet if you treat him the way he wants to be treated he would be different but you guys just keep playing games with each other. Sounds like he needs to step up and get his shit together too. If you love him and he loves you why not try it out and get real with each other. My cancer is in love with this dude and they've been playing games with each other for like 2 and a half years now it's ridiculous. I think he might love her but he says and does stupid shit and she gives him the cold shoulder and starts putting her attention in other places. They're currently in some shit and it's pointless why they are but she seems to be tired of trying to get this dude and her to be normal so now she's starting to open up to other people. Sounds like the same shit is going on. I say just call him up and talk about it. I was telling someone else about her situation because the dude doesn't even know she feels so heavy about him and could easily get her to be his woman but he plays so many fucking games she's starting to give it up. Personally I can't wait for her to give up on this clown so I can show her what it's like to be with a real man. She won't have to deal with all that bullshit and can focus on us and a real relationship.
I asked my friends.^
And yea your right about the overly friendly part most likely. I am that way with most people. That would explain why my old teacher was a little freaked out when I bought him a bottle of crown for helping me with a problem I had with a personal problem. he didn't have to take the time out for that and it meant a lot to me because I was so scared and stuff but after he talked to me I realized I could fix it without too much trouble. So when I fixed it and gave him the present he was like omg wtf but it was only like 20 bucks. I spend more than that a day in one restaurant..
And yea your right about the overly friendly part most likely. I am that way with most people. That would explain why my old teacher was a little freaked out when I bought him a bottle of crown for helping me with a problem I had with a personal problem. he didn't have to take the time out for that and it meant a lot to me because I was so scared and stuff but after he talked to me I realized I could fix it without too much trouble. So when I fixed it and gave him the present he was like omg wtf but it was only like 20 bucks. I spend more than that a day in one restaurant..
But how do I treat him the way he wants what does he want? He turned a nice gesture into a guilt trip. Yeah I like him but not enough to end up in a abusive realashonship again. I won't do that again.
Ask him! Talk to him! Interact with him! A lot of people here probably could have a great relationship but they let it go to shit because they refuse to talk to the other person. All they want to do is talk to everyone else about how the person feels except for the person in question! Just go for it! If you love him and he loves you don't let stupid shit get in the way.
My cancer friend is not a beggar and she doesn't wear her heart on her sleeve. She has so much richness and depth to her but you will never know unless you open up and talk to her. If you let her in she'll let you in. So you need to just put your bs aside and talk to him before he's gone for good.
I tried to talk to him, and anytime we are within 10 feet of each other all he does is try to find ways to either piss me off or hurt me. I'm not looking for that s*** in my life. I shouldn't have to let someone walk all over me and make me feel like a s*** person for them to like me. I'm not interested anymore I just want him to leave me alone.
it will be better for you if you move on. trust me. this type of "thing" is not worth the effort...never.
it only posted like 2/3rds of my original post x_x
Cheesebuger is it ok to pm you with a few questions.
Posted by CheeseburgerPosted by sagatastic
I tried to talk to him, and anytime we are within 10 feet of each other all he does is try to find ways to either piss me off or hurt me. I'm not looking for that s*** in my life. I shouldn't have to let someone walk all over me and make me feel like a s*** person for them to like me. I'm not interested anymore I just want him to leave me alone.
Good call. It shouldn't be that difficult for you to do so.click to expand
"I just want this to be over - I still like you" That screams mixed messages to me and I bet you dollar to donuts he read it the same way. Confusion reigns when people aren't up front and honest about their feelings. Of course, being that open can be hard because who wants to be rejected. He's interested in you or he wouldn't get jealous of the other men. You're playing with the other men to test his reaction. He's immature calling your friends nerds etc. Both of you are playing games in lieu of being up front and honest. But I don't see enough maturity or love hear for a real relationship. Sorry but I don't. It's amazing the amount of time we can waste on the "what if" or "what's he thinking" game. You look back and later realized you were playing out a fantasy instead of accepting life on its terms and letting what wants to come to you, come to you.
Yea I'm not saying it was love or anything and even though he started the games I probably shouldn't have participated.
Posted by Este8
"I just want this to be over - I still like you" That screams mixed messages to me and I bet you dollar to donuts he read it the same way. Confusion reigns when people aren't up front and honest about their feelings. Of course, being that open can be hard because who wants to be rejected. He's interested in you or he wouldn't get jealous of the other men. You're playing with the other men to test his reaction. He's immature calling your friends nerds etc. Both of you are playing games in lieu of being up front and honest. But I don't see enough maturity or love hear for a real relationship. Sorry but I don't. It's amazing the amount of time we can waste on the "what if" or "what's he thinking" game. You look back and later realized you were playing out a fantasy instead of accepting life on its terms and letting what wants to come to you, come to you.
n't play games, I really did want it to be over a yes or a no. I wanted the confusion to be over, I wanted the problem to be over. I think I only actually participated in one of his games like twice.. I guess that could come off as confusing tho
Posted by sagatastic
Yea I'm not saying it was love or anything and even though he started the games I probably shouldn't have participated.
Posted by Este8
"I just want this to be over - I still like you" That screams mixed messages to me and I bet you dollar to donuts he read it the same way. Confusion reigns when people aren't up front and honest about their feelings. Of course, being that open can be hard because who wants to be rejected. He's interested in you or he wouldn't get jealous of the other men. You're playing with the other men to test his reaction. He's immature calling your friends nerds etc. Both of you are playing games in lieu of being up front and honest. But I don't see enough maturity or love hear for a real relationship. Sorry but I don't. It's amazing the amount of time we can waste on the "what if" or "what's he thinking" game. You look back and later realized you were playing out a fantasy instead of accepting life on its terms and letting what wants to come to you, come to you.click to expand
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