BoomShakalakaBoom
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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by Andalusia
Sounds like the Cancer lady wasn't all that invested in you either. Which is why you both talked and were able to remain "friends". Because Your actions hurt her feelings - not her heart. If the latter had been involved, this would be a completely different thread. Believe me.
She was very invested because she couldnt stop crying the whole time while we were talking today. And that is just one example of the many I could give you.click to expand

Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by scorchedearth
you go fuck yourself you little capricorn twat. i've already told you to not talk to me. leave me the fuck alone or i will report you for harassment. i'm only telling you once.
lol cappies and virgos ..jesus christ the lot of them should burn in morder.click to expand


Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by TomberjackPosted by CluelessCancerPosted by scorchedearth
you go fuck yourself you little capricorn twat. i've already told you to not talk to me. leave me the fuck alone or i will report you for harassment. i'm only telling you once.
lol cappies and virgos ..jesus christ the lot of them should burn in morder.
Yea we were forged for immortality.
I give Caps their due though, they can be loyal, and i think are more concrete then Virgos.click to expand


Posted by CluelessCancer
Sagi you give the Virgo too much benefit of the doubt, im sticking to what i know, this guy is doing what's comfortable for him, and keeping her as a safety net.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
if the circumstances that forced us to break up no longer stand in the way in the future, for now though Im happy with this outcome 🙂










Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
If it werent for Romance, beautiful music wouldnt exist, beautiful and inspired art wouldnt exist. Romance is the motor of love.






Posted by Damnata
googles Thomas Kincade..
destroys all disney tapes she has around the house


Posted by xMoonManPosted by MoonArtistPosted by BoomShakalakaBoom
If it werent for Romance, beautiful music wouldnt exist, beautiful and inspired art wouldnt exist. Romance is the motor of love.
This is as far as I've read so far and THIS....I just have to comment on what utter and complete bull fucking SHIT that is! OMFG!! I need a bigger font for OMFG!!! As an artist, writer and in general mega uber creative type I can say with complete certainty that Romance is NOT the motor of love nor is it the creator of beautiful music, art, etc. Romance is not even an emotion and most art, music and poetry is crafted from raw emotion. BARF, GAG, PUKE...your gross statement made me feel like I just swallowed a Thomas Kincade painting.
Really? You feel that strongly towards his comment.
Do you truely believe that romance cannot inspire beautiful art and music?
Romance can be a feeling, when I'm feeling romantic I can be inspired to make emotional gestures in various forms to my partner.
Flowers, candles, a poem expressing my feelings for her....isn't that type of romance contributing to love, isn't it just another part of loves expression?click to expand

Posted by xMoonManPosted by MoonArtist
hehehe, CC, as an artist Thomas Kincade's work is just gross to me. I'm not saying he didn't know how to paint, just that his style and presentation usually make me want to gouge my eyes out, or stick an ice pick up my nose and scramble my frontal lobes.
Yes well, that's fine. Art is subjective. Just like beauty is in the eye of the beholder (cliche, but appropriate)
Maybe you are just expressing a little 'artistic snobbery'......hmmm
😛click to expand

Posted by CluelessCancer
My favorite artist is Frida Kahlo am i good?


Posted by xMoonManPosted by MoonArtist
Yes, I do feel that strongly about that statement. First off, beautiful music, art, etc would still exist without romance. Secondly, romantic gestures can contribute to a loving relationship but they do not create love nor does love end without it. Thirdly, any well meaning person can behave romantically just as easily as any liar, therefore, romance is shouldn't be the measure of love.
How can you be so sure that beautiful music and art would still exist without romance? Romance is just part of loves expression, I don't think anyone is saying romance should be "a measure of love".
Posted by MoonArtist
Thirdly, any well meaning person can behave romantically just as easily as any liar, ,,,
I don't understand your correlation between being romantic and being a liar. These two concepts surely would have to be mutually exclusive?
Maybe a person could pretend to be romantic for selfish motivation but then, that's not truely being romantic is it...it's just being a liar.
We are not talking about that, we are talking about romance and love, not liars.
Are you trying to confuse the discussion?click to expand


Posted by Damnata
I love Rene Magritte for painting and Bernini for sculputing.
Psychoanalyze me! 😄



Posted by MoonArtistPosted by Damnata
I love Rene Magritte for painting and Bernini for sculputing.
Psychoanalyze me! 😄
OOO LA LA!! Now we're talking art! I'm going to have artgasms before we've exhausted this thread. lol
Lets see...what's interesting is that Magritte's art is very surreal and has an austere atmosphere to it while also being very heavy in symbolism, whereas Bernini's work is very realistic (especially for his time), voluptuous and dramatic. VERY different style s here! I think the hidden depth is what gets you with both. Neither is just for looks. Both have something solid to dig into. You like that puzzle, that figuring out, that twisted bit of angst to uncover.click to expand

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by CluelessCancerPosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by theHitchHikerPosted by CluelessCancer
Why are you dealing with the Cancerian, don't you have a Taurus? Let's not complicate things. What does this Taurus think of your new found friendship with your X Cancer?
God, I'm dying to hear the answer to this.
I already answered that, go back and read it
Remind us, what will your Taurus think of your new friendship with your X Cancer?
Im sure she will be ok with it, as Im ok with her being friends with the guy she had to break up with for me 🙂click to expand

Posted by DamnataPosted by MoonArtistPosted by Damnata
I love Rene Magritte for painting and Bernini for sculputing.
Psychoanalyze me! 😄
OOO LA LA!! Now we're talking art! I'm going to have artgasms before we've exhausted this thread. lol
Lets see...what's interesting is that Magritte's art is very surreal and has an austere atmosphere to it while also being very heavy in symbolism, whereas Bernini's work is very realistic (especially for his time), voluptuous and dramatic. VERY different style s here! I think the hidden depth is what gets you with both. Neither is just for looks. Both have something solid to dig into. You like that puzzle, that figuring out, that twisted bit of angst to uncover.
Benini's art shook me to my core when I visited Galleria Borghese in Rome.
Speechless. Raw, infinite beautyclick to expand


Posted by xMoonManPosted by MoonArtist
The correlation between being romantic and a liar is that an honest person can do romantic things and so can a liar who is manipulating someone. ROMANCE does not make love. It can awaken desire, it can be a muse but it cannot create love. LOVE can create romance, but not the other way
I think we might get stuck in semantics here, MoonArtist
You are trying to establish some idea that lying and manipulating while pretending to be romantic justifies your idea that romance cannot create love or something, I don't know.
You are either being romantic or being a liar, you can pretend to be romantic to manipulate but this is not being romantic, romance, by its very nature comes from the heart. Romance is a feeling, a gesture of love, inspiration of ideas from the heart.
Pretending to be romantic is not being romantic, it's just lying because it comes from a different place than romance.click to expand

Posted by Damnata
I spent a whole day there STARING at everything, tears running down my face. Each room had medieval baroc music in the background, a lot of mandolins...I bought a dvd.
I also bought an audio guide because I wanted to understand each and every statue.


Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by CluelessCancerPosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by CluelessCancer
How many of us have felt intense attraction to men outside our relationships-im sure it happens right-do we just up and leave.
Boom you never said how you interacted with the Taurus since you're adamant you didn't emotionally cheat...well—
I talked to the Taurus because we have lots of friends in common and because we happened to attend some events where we both were invited.
There's more. Do tell. You said you convinced her to leave her MAN..was this before or after you dumped the CANCER?
Please do tell us about these interactions and what was discussed.
I told her that I had chosen for her after I had broken up with the Cancerian, the Taurus then took some time to decide what she wanted, after a couple of days we met and she told me she had chosen me and had dumped the other guy.click to expand


Posted by Damnata
^That's exactly what happened! I had people chase me from one room to the other...pissed off italians.
Moon you're an artist and you married a TAURUS?
Their only interest in art began and ended with salvador dali LOL

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I told her that I had chosen for her after I had broken up with the Taurus, the Taurus then took some time to decide what she wanted, after a couple of days we met and she told me she had chosen me and had dumped the other guy.