The endless dance of the cancer man

Isn't this the cancer guy you were trying to get rid of?

maybe he really is over her. i read somewhere that the best way for a cancer man to realize how much he loves someone and jump into cling mode is if she starts distancing herself. could've either gotten him to get over her...

or he could just be trying to be mature about the whole situation and woo you with his cards on the table. i doubt he's over you, obviously, and probably harbors hope that you two will get back together at some point, but maybe has intellectualized where you two are at this point and is willing to back off if need be. i've tried this before. or i could be reading into this completely wrong.

"He admitted there was some truth to this. He was very open and communicative and told me several times how very much he loved me. He ever explained about the email regarding me prowling the internet for men and have I been meeting any. He said I would not return his calls and never called him and he was afraid I was moving on with my life without him."

I don't get what you want to achieve from your encounters with this guy. Do you still hold a torch for him? I mean maybe he's not the only one who is at odds emotionally. In general it's always difficult for a man and a woman to remain friends with eachother after they have had a romantic relationship especially if there were a lot of problems when the relationship was going on. If he's still being clingy then you were not really being fair on him by seeing him right now since he appears to still want to get back with you.

So it makes me wonder what your agenda is.