This Bitch...

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by CrabNextDoor on Thursday, July 20, 2017 and has 21 replies.
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Posted by TemporaryKodak
Click bait title.

Triggered.

Laughingsame lol
Posted by Mooning
Why are cancerinas such baez and the doots are complete chodes?
Well the guys are more complicated because with them being emotional beings and feminine signs they have a harder time acting tougher and not being taken advantage of because of their girly nature! And cancer girls are the type to do what ever you want to make the relationship work decently, and they are always DTF and love love!
Posted by Impulsv
You guys can be so mothering smothering even with freinds. Giving of yourself is a good trait bi sometimes we don't need second mothers lol

Would you be offended if this was brought up by your friend
??? yes... Also on behalf of your friend sorry... We don't mean to be and some of the firery and airy cancers aren't smothering at all but some of the more earthy and watery are.. We just love you and want what's best for you smile
Posted by Impulsv
You guys can be so mothering smothering even with freinds. Giving of yourself is a good trait bi sometimes we don't need second mothers lol

Would you be offended if this was brought up by your friend
By nature I would assume so, though I find a lot of Cancers aren't as smothering as many make us out to be. Most are secluded and like their space. So to answer your questions no I wouldn't be but some Cancers would be
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Why are cancerinas such baez and the doots are complete chodes?
Well the guys are more complicated because with them being emotional beings and feminine signs they have a harder time acting tougher and not being taken advantage of because of their girly nature! And cancer girls are the type to do what ever you want to make the relationship work decently, and they are always DTF and love love!
They live up to the cancer name. Someone has to do it.
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It applies to OP. Lol She thinks she knows about Cancerians.
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It's a good think she thinks.

Hopefully she will realize that 18 is not an age! It's how many seconds your brain can concentrate on one thing...

So ask away - give her good 18sec brain excersize.

My Canceruan mom always says she can do it better. However I know it'll take her until no one remembers what was that she is doing.

Why are Cancers so slow?

Detailed but slooooow???

Can a question relating to Cancer moons be posted here? If so will do it when I get home
Posted by Arielle83
Why am I so horny sometimes, but then hate everyone other times?

How do i find balance? AA are run out.

#misanthropicnympho
Well I would assume it would be due to the high sex drive most Cancers have it's a non stop process in our head. Balance can be hard to find there isn't anything wrong with it I find most Cancers don't act on it very rarely if they do. I find it to be a stimulating brain process that links with our epinephrine and dopamine or even serotonin sometimes. Sex makes us happy,, and helps with our mood swings,

And like I previously stated Cancers actually probably prefer to be left alone over being bothered by everyone else's problems. Although they always lend a listening ear no one lends one back and Cancers tend to treat people how they are treated. So if you feel like someone's treated you wrong you'll likely treat them the same way back. In other news our social battery drops dead pretty easy it's not very big so dealing with more than a 2 or 3 close people can be draining and kee you in a stumpy mood for a few days until your ready to pick back up and try again with social interaction. There's a wild and outgoing side of Cancers and secluded homebodies side it depends on the day I feel,
Posted by MrR78
Can a question relating to Cancer moons be posted here? If so will do it when I get home
If you think I could answer it,, just post it I know a lot of people don't think I can but maybe someone else will be able to help if I can't! Never new everyone was such a downer
Posted by Scorpio84
Can a Cancer keep lying forever to their husband that she had an affair with the younger brother of the husband?

(she had a moon virgo)

Note: just in case, i love you all so don't take that question personally ok?
I don't think she would bother carrying out the lie if you already knew, though I wouldn't put it past a cancer to try to cover up something so shameful and scandalous if she felt you believed her or any sign for that matter. Virgo moons are quite adventurous and sometimes act before they think, and would likely hide something like that but not on purpose just by nature, a cancer can carry out a lie or 'secret' for an extended amount of time and are quiet notorious for keeping dirty secrets till the end of time so it's very possible. Now whether or not it's true if it actually happened... don't believe everything a cancer says sometimes they like to spruce themselves up to make people interested in themselves.
So me and this cancer guy has been friends for a little over 5 years now.Before me and him became actual friends instead of associates he offered me to come up to his room and "cuddle" and I looked at him like a weirdo and told him no and left. I have always known for him to be a ladies man so I never initiated my interest in him because of that. I really didn't even have time to let him know early in our friendship that I looked at him that way before one of my friends hopped in the backseat of my car and began to top him off. Yes shocking I know, but I played it cool like I didn't care. At that point I just gave up with my interest in him and just let all my girlfriends I hung around just fall into his lap. Fast forward to today, now I'm stuck with a frenzy of emotions as to how he really feels about me. A few months ago he offered me a job to work with him and I accepted the offer not knowing this business opportunity would lead me to spending lots of time with him and growing my sexual attraction to him. Long story short we did the deed. The first time was short and odd you can tell we both were thinking "what are we doing" "what's next" "IDK if this right".lol also no one in my life knows about me and his sexual conquests I'm not sure if he has told his friends or not. But since he has been acting weird towards me he would flaunt girls essessively in my face. FaceTime girls and flirt and even kiss girls in front of me.But he gets mad at me when I talk about guys to my friends on the phone. I recently met his younger brother and we both share a common interest in music, and my dear cancer interrupted our conversation rudely by saying "WTF are you guys talking about?".This behavior confuses me because he also tells me "you're not my girl" when I'm simply only trying to get a response from him because he's not replying.and then he turns around and we cook breakfast together because he doesn't like my unhealthy eating habits and he pushes me to eat healthier when I'm around him. And he likes to show me his skills in the kitchen and little tricks that he can do. And his approach with sex with me is never straight forward almost as if he doesn't how I'm going to react.As you can see I'm in need of serious help.I love my cancer guy with all my heart and that's maybe because I loved him as a friend first flaws and all but I just need to know if he's genuinely interested in me and doesn't noe how to go about it and is afraid I might reject him again? Or if he knows how I feel for him now and is just manipulating my feelings to work out for his benefit only?HELP!!!!
Posted by Arielle83
Why do my exes always come back saying they regret things and that they were really in love with me but didn't know how to handle it?
Because it doesn't get much better than a cancer once you go out and experience other signs they realize exactly what a cancer offers or brings to the table and how well they like to treat people it makes people come back. Once they get over the level 5 clinginess and the over abundance of mood swings Cancers are always the go to sign but people always take for granted what they don't they have
Posted by Dreamyboy
What kind of guys you cancer ladies like. Plz, all chime in.
Well me in particular I like guys with a wide sense of humor, guys who can match my mood swings and are playful, good with kids to name a few
Posted by Arielle83
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Posted by Arielle83
Why do my exes always come back saying they regret things and that they were really in love with me but didn't know how to handle it?
Because it doesn't get much better than a cancer once you go out and experience other signs they realize exactly what a cancer offers or brings to the table and how well they like to treat people it makes people come back. Once they get over the level 5 clinginess and the over abundance of mood swings Cancers are always the go to sign but people always take for granted what they don't they have
I'm not clingy at all. I give freedom and expect the same
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I do too and to me I'm not clingy though some people I've dated would beg to differ ??‍♀️ So I think it depends on who you ask but we have a certain quality that makes people feel like they have messed up and would like a redo In my experience.
HELPPPP PLEEEEAAAASSSEEEE ???? So me and this cancer guy has been friends for a little over 5 years now.Before me and him became actual friends instead of associates he offered me to come up to his room and "cuddle" and I looked at him like a weirdo and told him no and left. I have always known for him to be a ladies man so I never initiated my interest in him because of that. I really didn't even have time to let him know early in our friendship that I looked at him that way before one of my friends hopped in the backseat of my car and began to top him off. Yes shocking I know, but I played it cool like I didn't care. At that point I just gave up with my interest in him and just let all my girlfriends I hung around just fall into his lap. Fast forward to today, now I'm stuck with a frenzy of emotions as to how he really feels about me. A few months ago he offered me a job to work with him and I accepted the offer not knowing this business opportunity would lead me to spending lots of time with him and growing my sexual attraction to him. Long story short we did the deed. The first time was short and odd you can tell we both were thinking "what are we doing" "what's next" "IDK if this right".lol also no one in my life knows about me and his sexual conquests I'm not sure if he has told his friends or not. But since he has been acting weird towards me he would flaunt girls essessively in my face. FaceTime girls and flirt and even kiss girls in front of me.But he gets mad at me when I talk about guys to my friends on the phone. I recently met his younger brother and we both share a common interest in music, and my dear cancer interrupted our conversation rudely by saying "WTF are you guys talking about?".This behavior confuses me because he also tells me "you're not my girl" when I'm simply only trying to get a response from him because he's not replying.and then he turns around and we cook breakfast together because he doesn't like my unhealthy eating habits and he pushes me to eat healthier when I'm around him. And he likes to show me his skills in the kitchen and little tricks that he can do. And his approach with sex with me is never straight forward almost as if he doesn't how I'm going to react.As you can see I'm in need of serious help.I love my cancer guy with all my heart and that's maybe because I loved him as a friend first flaws and all but I just need to know if he's genuinely interested in me and doesn't noe how to go about it and is afraid I might reject him again? Or if he knows how I feel for him now and is just manipulating my feelings to work out for his benefit only?HELP!!!!
Posted by Arielle83
Why do my exes always come back saying they regret things and that they were really in love with me but didn't know how to handle it?
I have gotten so much of this as well. Too bad. They had their chance but for whatever reason they didn't do the right thing and that's on them. That's one of my pet peeves. Not sure why they don't "recognize" when they are in it. If you got something good take care of it and do the right thing. Otherwise, don't let the door slam your azz on the way out.
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Posted by GC02
These questions thoeeee ?
do you like apple juice
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what happened with that girl that was staring yesterday lol
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These questions thoeeee ?
do you like apple juice
what happened with that girl that was staring yesterday lol
lol, this story didnt happend yesterday,i just wanted to make a funny thread
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the joke on us
Can someone on here help me with Cancer love advice please?
Can someone on here help me with Cancer love advice please?
Posted by Cancer22
HELPPPP PLEEEEAAAASSSEEEE ???? So me and this cancer guy has been friends for a little over 5 years now.Before me and him became actual friends instead of associates he offered me to come up to his room and "cuddle" and I looked at him like a weirdo and told him no and left. I have always known for him to be a ladies man so I never initiated my interest in him because of that. I really didn't even have time to let him know early in our friendship that I looked at him that way before one of my friends hopped in the backseat of my car and began to top him off. Yes shocking I know, but I played it cool like I didn't care. At that point I just gave up with my interest in him and just let all my girlfriends I hung around just fall into his lap. Fast forward to today, now I'm stuck with a frenzy of emotions as to how he really feels about me. A few months ago he offered me a job to work with him and I accepted the offer not knowing this business opportunity would lead me to spending lots of time with him and growing my sexual attraction to him. Long story short we did the deed. The first time was short and odd you can tell we both were thinking "what are we doing" "what's next" "IDK if this right".lol also no one in my life knows about me and his sexual conquests I'm not sure if he has told his friends or not. But since he has been acting weird towards me he would flaunt girls essessively in my face. FaceTime girls and flirt and even kiss girls in front of me.But he gets mad at me when I talk about guys to my friends on the phone. I recently met his younger brother and we both share a common interest in music, and my dear cancer interrupted our conversation rudely by saying "WTF are you guys talking about?".This behavior confuses me because he also tells me "you're not my girl" when I'm simply only trying to get a response from him because he's not replying.and then he turns around and we cook breakfast together because he doesn't like my unhealthy eating habits and he pushes me to eat healthier when I'm around him. And he likes to show me his skills in the kitchen and little tricks that he can do. And his approach with sex with me is never straight forward almost as if he doesn't how I'm going to react.As you can see I'm in need of serious help.I love my cancer guy with all my heart and that's maybe because I loved him as a friend first flaws and all but I just need to know if he's genuinely interested in me and doesn't noe how to go about it and is afraid I might reject him again? Or if he knows how I feel for him now and is just manipulating my feelings to work out for his benefit only?HELP!!!!
He likes you I would guess he's probably ashamed for one seeing as you have seen all of his sexual conquests, two he knows how he can be and would find it safe for you to not get to attached to him. He is only being mean to keep you safe from him likely and isn't to well with being pushed away at first waaay five years ago so he is being 'careful' now. I wouldn't be to open about this with him for fear that he will push you away try riding the tide for now, letting him lead and If your down to wait in a month take charge and tell him what you want and how the relationship should go.??‍♀️

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