This Freaking Cancer Guy..........HELP!

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by prettyivy on Friday, February 7, 2014 and has 14 replies.
Ok I know cancers are all moody and what not, afraid of rejection and sensitive. I guess I didn't realize exactly HOW sensitive however. Anyway So...I've been talking to this cancer guy for a few months now. We used to text pretty often. He gave me compliments all the time and was really sweet, although he still seemed a bit distant. I pretty much instantly fell in love with him. Last weekend he was supposed to come to see me (we live 1.5 hours away) he ends up canceling on me and I kind of got upset but I tried to hide it. He told me he would be coming this weekend and I responded by telling hi m I would be busy. From there he never responded. I texted him later that night to apologize if I upset him. No response. I texted him again a couple days later to give him a nice compliment. NOTHING!! So like my thing is is he not interested? Did me saying I was not going to be available really piss him off that much? He seems to not care about how I felt being that I planned a whole dinner date and he canceled on me. I'm really not tripping about it anymore and am over the situation. My question is... should I try to contact him again? We have not spoke in a week so I was going to CALL him versus text and just ask if we could talk. Would you suggest this or should I just wait and see if he comes around?? I REALLLY like this guy even though he seems a bit self centered and selfish. I like him enough to TRY and figure him out to make it work.
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You have already texted him TWICE, if he wants to talk to you he will find a way!!!!
If a guy really wants to talk to a girl he will make an effort to do it, if not he will just ignore you & find excuses.
You shouldn't be feeling guilty or apologizing for not being available, that shows that you have a life and other plans aside of him. That shows him that you are not a desperate woman at his beck and call, and if he wants to go out with you he will have TO GO! and be there, because you are a busy girl, you have a life and you cannot be waiting around for any idiot.
My advice is, don't call him, don't text him, keep doing your thing, going out with other guys. If he comes around, great! if he doesn't then it is his loss not yours! you need a men who will appreciate you and make time for you.
Plus you don't want to seem too attached or clingy, specially at the beggining. You already texted him, now let him do his part.
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Posted by camim20
You have already texted him TWICE, if he wants to talk to you he will find a way!!!!
If a guy really wants to talk to a girl he will make an effort to do it, if not he will just ignore you & find excuses.
You shouldn't be feeling guilty or apologizing for not being available, that shows that you have a life and other plans aside of him. That shows him that you are not a desperate woman at his beck and call, and if he wants to go out with you he will have TO GO! and be there, because you are a busy girl, you have a life and you cannot be waiting around for any idiot.
My advice is, don't call him, don't text him, keep doing your thing, going out with other guys. If he comes around, great! if he doesn't then it is his loss not yours! you need a men who will appreciate you and make time for you.
Plus you don't want to seem too attached or clingy, specially at the beggining. You already texted him, now let him do his part.


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Listen to this woman, she knows what she's talking about!
I suggest also that you read the book "He's just not that into you." Was written by a Cancer man btw!
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I appreciate your answer and I agree with you.
You shouldn't be feeling guilty or apologizing for not being available, that shows that you have a life and other plans aside of him. That shows him that you are not a desperate woman at his beck and call, and if he wants to go out with you he will have TO GO! and be there, because you are a busy girl, you have a life and you cannot be waiting around for any idiot.
My advice is, don't call him, don't text him, keep doing your thing, going out with other guys. If he comes around, great! if he doesn't then it is his loss not yours! you need a men who will appreciate you and make time for you.
Plus you don't want to seem too attached or clingy, specially at the beggining. You already texted him, now let him do his part.

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Posted by CluelessCancer
What's your sign? If your a virgo, A pisces, or a gemini. Good riddance. If you're another zodiac sign, we'll help you get him.
lol


I'll get you!!
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Im a capricornm and he said the reason why he cancelled is because the person he was supposed to ride with wasnt coming anymore. I wanted to press him about it but I didnt. To be honest I think he was lying and just wanted to study lol.
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Im a capricornm and he said the reason why he cancelled is because the person he was supposed to ride with wasnt coming anymore. I wanted to press him about it but I didnt. To be honest I think he was lying and just wanted to study lol.
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He didnt ask and I didnt give a reason....yea we both are fairly young 23 and 24. True I shouldnt have got mad and yes studying is great!
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The reason though is because I have to babysit my nephew so I wish he kind of would have asked or I would have said something because he adores his nephews....darn
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@aquavita
Please don't give advice on the Cancer board.
You are being played by a young Cancer with a girlfriend and are too stupid to realize you're being played.
Please do not attempt to spread your stupidity around. It's gross...
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Posted by aquavita
i m not being played by anyone... i wish i was.


once again, your stupidity displayed at it's finest
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@ aquavita....so you think things would be different if we lived in the same city?
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I gotta say I don't think there are too many other girls. He is a law students he really doesn't have time. He's not on a bunch of social networks or anything he really does have a lot of work to do. but I am sort of afraid to send a picture because when I did before he didn't comment on it. He always tells me I look pretty or he likes my hair but the one time I send him a picture he didn't say anything about it except sorry cant talk im in class.
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Posted by aquavita
men do not mature till they are 25. women are mature at 18. think of you. you are pretty do not send photos to him any more .


women are mature at 18? LOL!!! it just gets better and better with this one!!
Ya, Op listen to her, she's telling you you're pretty when she's never seen ya, haha!!!
@aquavita Did the Cancer tell you he was supporting his gf before or after you requested sex Winking

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