I am an Aries woman with Pisces moon. He's a cancer with Virgo moon. We got together and of course I was cautious. I have 4 baby girls and I'm going through a divorce. I asked him to let us get to know each other. Of course that didn't happen. We dove in head and feet first. It's been 4 months. We had a few differences and me breaking up with him each one of them. Not because I didn't want him but because I don't want to be hurt anymore. I wanted to trust him but I didn't. This last one was horrible though. I had mostly everything to do with it. Though he played a major part, I let my temper go to far. He asked for a break because he didn't know if he wanted to be with me anymore. Honestly right before the argument, I was starting to trust him and learning to back down. I was starting to feel like he wasn't out to get me. He was silent but still text me everyday even if only once. I was confused and anxious so when we did speak, it seemed like I was yelling. After about 3 days I went over his house. I was just obsessive about finding a solution. I talked and cried. I could tell he felt bad. I apologized because I knew I was wrong. We laid and slept in each other's arms the whole night. I went home the next afternoon. I've learned some things on here about the cancer male as well as myself. We are talking, very slowly. He isn't as dotting as before but he still tells me he loves me. He still let's me know what he's doing and his plans. He even talks about our future. It's been a week. I just feel unstable in the relationship because he says he will like to take it slow. Which is what I originally wanted. I just don't know if he's still interested for the long run. Is he holding on to me until he finds his next love?
