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Traits of a Cancer:
* Steady
* Determined
* Reliable
* Stubborn
* Creative
* Kind
* Ferocious temper
* Lazy
* Habitual
* Loyal
* Generous
* Possesive
* Honest
* Financial wizard
Likes...
* A comfortable life
* Independence
* Expensive things
* Delicious food & wine
* Beauty
* A beautiful home
* Gardening
* Nature
Dislikes...
* Change
* Manipulative people
* Ugliness
* Betrayal
* Vulgarity
* Sex fiends
* Being controlled
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Feb 26, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 8735 · Topics: 522
Traits of a Cancer:
* Steady
* Determined
* Reliable
* Stubborn-ALMOST AS MUCH AS AQUARIANS
* Creative
* Kind
* Ferocious temper-IT CAN GET TO BE PRETTY EXTREME. THEY GET EMOTIONAL FIRST & THEN ANGRY & THAT'S WHEN THINGS GET BADDDD
* Lazy
* Habitual-THEY DON'T LIKE CHANGE THAT IS NOT OF THEIR OWN DOING
* Loyal
* Generous
* Possesive-OH THEY ARE VERY PROTECTIVE OVER WHAT IS THEIRS. THEY FEEL THAT THEY'VE EARNED IT SO ALL OTHERS NEED TO BACK OFF UNLESS THEY PUT IN THE SAME TIME & EFFORT!
* Honest-THEY ARE WHEN THEY REALLY WANT TO BE OR KNOW THAT THEIR HONESTY WILL BRING THEM CLOSER TO SOMEONE
* Financial wizard
Likes...
* A comfortable life-THEY DON'T LIKE FOR OTHERS TO COMPLICATE THINGS FOR THEM. THEY DO ENOUGH COMPLICATING THINGS THEMSELVES
* Independence-I LIKE TO HAVE THEIR OWN SPARE TIME WHEN IT'S JUST THEM BUT THEY DON'T USUALLY SURVIVE TOO LONG W/O ALREADY NEEDING TO GET BACK UNDER SOMEONE ELSE' ARMS
* Expensive things
* Delicious food & wine
* Beauty
* A beautiful home
* Gardening
* Nature
Dislikes...
* Change
* Manipulative people-THEY FEEL THAT PEOPLE SHOULD ALREADY KNOW THEY ARE TICKING TIME BOMBS & THAT WHEN THEIR EMOTIONS ARE SHOWN, THEY LAY THEM ON PEOPLE VERY HARD
* Ugliness
* Betrayal-BETRAYAL OF SOME SORT IS THEIR WORST FEAR
* Vulgarity
* Sex fiends-I DISAGREE.
* Being controlled
hmmmph. you forgot moody, pouty, secretive, needs excessive validation due to low self esteem, take too long to make a decision, wishy washy, and often boring...
ok, ok. also extremely nurturing, sensitive (sometime irritatingly so) and caring in the highest sense.
sandy claws makes a good point with making a home nice. i'm aries, married to a cancer. (yes, he does pout, denies he's pouting, but doesn't guilt trip me about it. guess that's ok)
you mention passion, but he keeps his quite hidden. however, i'm an ARIES for crying out loud, so maybe my barometer for passionate is a little skewed. heh. no one out passions an aries.
i go out of my way to fluff the nest in a way that ramps up the cozy and secure factor because i know he really really digs that. and often, the first thing he'll say as he walks in, in this order: wow, house looks great baby, and dinner smells really good. (i know what's important to him) so while he's more about canoodling on the couch with a full belly and tv on, pets on our laps and foot rubs for me than a whirlwind evening out, i've adapted and like it fine.
his protective nature is good for me, and his possessiveness never takes the form of harmful jealousy, but loving cuddles in public. there are some differences that occasionally rankle, but we work thru them pretty well.