treating silent is it mean I done with you?

I try to read the comments here every now and than...

I met a cancer guy last year, we were together for 4 months, he was very much into me, caring thoughtful jealous, we spend every weekend together sometimes during the week too.

It stacked in part of my mind, if he had an issue or he met someone else, or is it his way of saying I am done with you

I will cut the long story short" He came out of long relationship, and met me few months after.

I met him in an event, we do not have any common friend. My last month with him " he has gone off sex, but he was seeing me,(he started a new job, pretty worried about it)

We broke a week before the valentine day " I was in his place he asked me why I am not going to visit my family, with my friend? it was weird question, but I went to visit my family a month ago, he was not happy to be alone, that I left him own his own during the xmas time..

He hardly kissed me, I try to ask he said this is the way he is.. But he was hugging me, in public holding my hands..

All this did not make sense to me at all..When I left his place, I showed him that I am not happy.
He asked me if I am upset, i did not respond and left to work..

I texted him at work asking few questions, try to understand if he is stressed. One of his answer was" I am bit worried because of this new job" Than I replied a bit means you are not really depressed!
Than he replied , which shocked me, I did not expect this from him " Are you trying to say we did not fuck(had sex) in rude way, is it problem for you

I replied him and said you are rude..He said he can be rude... Than said him take care..He replied why where are you going.. Than I replied I am not going anywhere, I do not want to continue with this stupid conversation..

Next day i wrote him, he was going to take test to apply for citizenship,I asked my fried who was a lawyer, she replied..Than I replied him, told him you have to take the test.. He replied thank you I will read to book take the test..
After that I wanted to forget about a day before, I have been nice in my messages, said did you miss me such ..He replied sure he did..Than he said I don`t like when I am nice to you, your are abusive to me!! I was shocked again with this answer! Thinking what I have done, apart asking question to understand if he is stressed..

Anyhow seems we sorted in a nice way.. I messaged him on same day late evening if he is asleep?
He replied that he is with his friend looking for

Continue of the story!! a venue ( his friend is party organizer) It was late I did not call him
Next morning I sent him nice good morning message with kisses..But no reply... I waited..Than called him no answer... Than asked if he is okay..no answer..But I see he reads my messages..

I messaged him said no reply means an answer,it means I cant be with you, all the best, I hope you will fined someone you like or love... I expected him to say thank you...no answer..

He treated silently for few days, than i continue messagin writting long e-mail, how it did hurt me..

Finally I decided i do not deserve this, he can tell me if he doesnt want to be with me.. This behaviour is unexpectable.. I continued texting him telling him awful things.. for few months I annoyed him on purposly..I wanted him to see me as an ugly person..Reason i ve done that ,for him not to come back to me.. If I kept quite, he would have come back I knew that..He done that before... but he came next day before..

What do you think of this person? Does he have mental issue?

I think you should walk away from him.

I will tell you a simple thumb of rule about relationships, the moment you find yourself chasing and not being respected enough then just WALK AWAY. There is no future to such relationships, only abuse.

Hi Poison

I dont know if you read all my thread..I did walk away.. As soon as he start giving silent treatment for second time.

I wondered if I was with someone who had mental issues..

I never begged him to be with him, instead i told him bad things, the way he has gone made me feel bad..

I see he was a piece of wood..

If you walked away from him what do you care whether he has mental problems or not? He could be a fucking psycho for all you care.....you have to worry about your own life, don't waste it on nonsense.

Hi Poison

I think you are right..Thanks..

You're so cute IC! 😉

Posted by FieryBullette
You're so cute IC! 😉

How would you know? 😛

I know you have an adorable little crab face..and you're so cute when you're autocratic and making all kinds of sense 😉

OMG! OMG!...I have like a fan 😛

Like, fraid so hehe 🙂

He's a looser, period.