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Dec 29, 2015Comments: 0 · Posts: 594 · Topics: 31
How do y'all act if you feel that somebody you love does not trust you?
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Oct 12, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1121 · Topics: 38
If I really do love and care about you then I wouldn't like the idea of it being you don't trust me. That wouldn't sit well with me at all but at the same time I know there's really nothing I can do about it because whatever I do, it's ultimately up to them to decide to trust me or not.
Also if I know I have done something that has made it so you don't trust me then I won't really care that much because if I really loved and cared about you, I wouldn't do anything that would make you not trust me in the first place.
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Sep 07, 2011Comments: 298 · Posts: 5049 · Topics: 48
If someone I care about doesn't trust me I see it as deflection of something shady on their end.
Disgust and disbelief that someone I care for looks at me as an untrustworthy person. Then see that as a reflection of themselves and go on about my life because I know I have good intentions for everyone
But what if your actions have repeatedly caused a breakdown of that trust? Would there still be no remorse, no guilt? Or do you expect the person to trust you despite having let them down?
If someone doesn't trust me and i love them... it really hurts, on an irrational level for me.
I can't stand it, because, obviously I love that person.
Also, it would depend on if I brought it on myself.
It would still suck, no matter what.