I have written on this forum before. Been seeing this cancer man for about 2 months. The other day I was texing him and point blank told him that "I like you and want to spend time with you to get to you know you better. See where this goes." He said he has been in his own little world and isnt' sure if he wants a relationship. This is a guy who has pursued me from the beginging. So I responded with OK. I am not going to try to convince him to be with me. Then about 15 mins later he is texting me asking me to come over, that he misses me. I wasn't far away for I did go over. We talked, he stared at me, kept asking me if I missed him. I told him Maybe. He wanted me to spend the night. When I was with him, I told him about my Mom having hand surgery this week. I said I have a favor to ask. He said do you want me to come with you for your Mom's surgery. This is the same guy that just told me an hour ago he wasn't sure he was ready for a relationship. Meeting parents is relationship stuff. I said I only wanted you to check on my cat. What would make him say that? And when he see's me talking to other men he says he doesn't get jealous but then calls them my boyfriends. I just don't get it. Its immature stuff to me. He is 42 and I am 39. Too old to be acting like this. I thought being honest with him was good, but it ended up even being more confusing. We haven't even been on an offical real date, we just spend time with each other at our places. He even said we need to go out on a real date. I said I agree. I just don't get it. What should I do next?
