understanding a cancer woman during courtship

Posted by heartofsag
3 yrs?!!!

holy bejeesus

Posted by YourGrace
"I m atheist. I cant even say you are going to hell ! "

Posted by Koniucha
That's a lot of smiley faces lol

Posted by Arielle83
Have you been hooking up with others during those 3 years?

Posted by MagicPowas
How can you possibly be courting a married woman, with her husband knowing for so many years? For so many years!? And I'm not trying to judge, but dude...she's married. Did she lie about her marriage? I admire your zest for love, but c'mon son, you know that will end badly, don't you?

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Posted by MagicPowas
How can you possibly be courting a married woman, with her husband knowing for so many years? For so many years!? And I'm not trying to judge, but dude...she's married. Did she lie about her marriage? I admire your zest for love, but c'mon son, you know that will end badly, don't you?

i dunnow it can also possibly end up with... her and me marrying. she is being mistreated. if she isn't being mistreated i wouldn't have gotten a chance... because from my research, cancer's are loyal to the Right person... she didn't marry for the right reasons. have you not seen actors re-marry? i don't mind taking care of her and her kids

There's 3.5 billion females in the world man.

Go find someone else.

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Posted by LunarMaiden
What is the husbands sign?
If you are courting a married Cancer woman she is not going to jump ship just because she loves you.
She's not a fire or air sign or Virgo male. She is not going to just abandon her marriage for an attraction.
Marriage and children are important. Regardless of her relationship with her husband.
This could take years.

Are you guys having sex? Intimacy, i.e. spend hours talking, kissing, holding each other?

Posted by CancerRedhead
okay first of all....QUIT TRIFFLIN!!! shes married....therefore shes off limits. second of all....if she would do this to her husband what makes you think she wont do it to you? do you think shes really gunna stay faithful to you? IF she were to ever leave him....which she probably wont. id suggeest to back off. if nothings happened in three years then its not going to happen. a Cancer woman will let you know if she wants you. we go after what we want and we fight for what we want, she isnt fighting for you bro....


--Hannah

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Posted by CancerRedhead
okay first of all....QUIT TRIFFLIN!!! shes married....therefore shes off limits. second of all....if she would do this to her husband what makes you think she wont do it to you? do you think shes really gunna stay faithful to you? IF she were to ever leave him....which she probably wont. id suggeest to back off. if nothings happened in three years then its not going to happen. a Cancer woman will let you know if she wants you. we go after what we want and we fight for what we want, she isnt fighting for you bro....


--Hannah

i think she's still on the fence with me... earlier this year we were alone together where she managed to get out of her husband's company (she made a way for it to happen)... but there were also times when we had an opportunity to meet, but i didn't do the same... like i didn't made a way for us to see each other (i was thinking that her time is precious and i don't want to selfishly demand for her time if she is busy working.) my exact words to her at that time when she told me "why didn't you come the next day because i was free that day," i said "i thought you were busy so didn't bothered" ....after that, every meeting that i want with her became so hard (literally) that she always says "i'm super busy" ...I'm a scorpio i go at her directly (when i want to meet her) but i feel like she was always going sideways recently... I was wondering why because before, she made a way for us to meet.... also i made her promises late last year that i haven't fulfilled yet... i'm still working on them until now.... i think she's still analyzing the situation... thanks

okay i get it...youre stuck on the girl. if she wanted anything to do with you then she would have something to do with you...

its simple. she put forth an effort and you didnt. you told her whatever you did and you didnt follow through..how could she (if she ever would) choose to leave her HUSBAND for someone who cant even show her that he gives a damn, you lost her trust so shes prob in the shell.

if she was ever going to be with you then she wouldve left him and been with yo

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Posted by MagicPowas
She is an adulterous Cancer who is stuck in a marriage with no love, but is in love with you? I'm not going to judge the two of you, but honestly, until she gets a divorce, your relationship will always be compromised. This cancer is your twin flame? If she cheated for you and is wanting and accepting your affections, I think she loves you very very much. You don't think you can find someone else? If you two really want to be together, she needs to get a divorce (and until then, you need to leave her alone). And she needs to learn to be honest with herself and others and to stand up for what she wants. It seems like she is caught in the trap. Cancers tend to live their life around their loved ones. Even if the romantic love fades, if one plays an important role in their lives, they will still always love that person and will try to take care of him/her (even if they're not in love with him/her). She probably feels responsible for everyone's happiness so she sacrifices her real happiness for the group. Even if she knows her husband is worthless, she will try to keep it together for her kids. But this is all a castle made of cards just waiting to tumble down (and she's probably very aware of that). Maybe she's been secretly planning for a divorce but she's analyzing everything first.

Posted by dontgetmewrong
If I were him, I'd beat the fucking daylights out of you.

Posted by MagicPowas
And if her husband is a using cheat, then that doesn't make it ok for her. She needs a divorce first. She has two teenaged children that look up to her. Handle this situation with respect and care first, then all of the rewards will follow. She must be going through a storm of emotions, which may be the reason why she appears to be messy (her heart is messy right now).