Very depressed Cancer

Posted by Cancer2448
I just don't understand why I get so attached to someone that doesn't respect me or love me. I really loved this girl, thought she was absolutely perfect for me....but for some reason, the spark wasn't there. I called her tonight and things ended up so badly that now she's blocked on all social media. I don't think I'll recover from this.

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Posted by Cancer2448
I just don't understand why I get so attached to someone that doesn't respect me or love me. I really loved this girl, thought she was absolutely perfect for me....but for some reason, the spark wasn't there. I called her tonight and things ended up so badly that now she's blocked on all social media. I don't think I'll recover from this.

Feel free to divulge details. This happens to a practically everyone. Understand that if this was the perfect person for you, you two would still be together. Don't get stuck on this one person.

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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
What's your moon? What's her sign and her moon?

She better not be a virgo or a leo

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
What's your moon? What's her sign and her moon?

She better not be a virgo or a leo

Posted by CrabbyRam
I think you want what you cannot have and so many people especially water signs.

The more she is distant from you the more you want her. Just let her come around, maybe she will realise who's good for her.

Posted by bubblebath
you love her and even if you think she is perfect for you. would you want to be with someone who doesn't feel the same

and if someone thought you were perfect for them but you didn't like them. would you still accept to be in a relationship with them

Posted by YasmineMin
I'll give you my Aqua moon so you dont feel attached to anyone and be free like a bird. You'll never hurt again.

You will find someone better (:

She doesn't deserve you.

Posted by CrabbyRam
I think you want what you cannot have and so many people especially water signs.

The more she is distant from you the more you want her. Just let her come around, maybe she will realise who's good for her.

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Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Cancer2448
I just don't understand why I get so attached to someone that doesn't respect me or love me. I really loved this girl, thought she was absolutely perfect for me....but for some reason, the spark wasn't there. I called her tonight and things ended up so badly that now she's blocked on all social media. I don't think I'll recover from this.

Feel free to divulge details. This happens to a practically everyone. Understand that if this was the perfect person for you, you two would still be together. Don't get stuck on this one person.

It's hard for me to give details right now, because I'm in shock of what's happen. I'm just very depressed of what the result has become. I was stupid and foolish to think she had any feelings for me. I felt I was being played, so I called her out on it. Which was the wrong thing to do obviously now looking back. I told her I missed her, and asked if there was any chance she would change her mind in the future. She said no, and I asked her why. She didn't want to admit it, but she has feelings for someone else that lives far away. And the timing was never right for the two of them. She expects to get engaged in the future with this person. Doesn't even sound like he respects her, because he keeps dating other girls and not her.i was disappointed to hear this but I told her I wanted her to be happy. So I don't know where her head is at. Again maybe she's telling me stuff that's not true. I don't know anymore, I felt the need to finish this tonight to know where we stand. Because I didn't get to say everything I wanted to say before. Now I have and it results in her blocking me on all social media. I told her I was sorry for pushing her, and didn't want to upset her. She said she was far from upset. She said before she was looking for a fling. But I know her, she goes to church and just doesn't fit that profile. She claims she never said that to me and I was wrong and out of line. I can't believe that!!!!

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Posted by DivineWine9

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
What's your moon? What's her sign and her moon?

She better not be a virgo or a leo

Why don't you like Virgos and Leo's may I ask?

Don't worry about that

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Posted by YasmineMin
I'll give you my Aqua moon so you dont feel attached to anyone and be free like a bird. You'll never hurt again.

You will find someone better (:

She doesn't deserve you.

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Cancer2448

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Cancer2448
I just don't understand why I get so attached to someone that doesn't respect me or love me. I really loved this girl, thought she was absolutely perfect for me....but for some reason, the spark wasn't there. I called her tonight and things ended up so badly that now she's blocked on all social media. I don't think I'll recover from this.

Feel free to divulge details. This happens to a practically everyone. Understand that if this was the perfect person for you, you two would still be together. Don't get stuck on this one person.

It's hard for me to give details right now, because I'm in shock of what's happen. I'm just very depressed of what the result has become. I was stupid and foolish to think she had any feelings for me. I felt I was being played, so I called her out on it. Which was the wrong thing to do obviously now looking back. I told her I missed her, and asked if there was any chance she would change her mind in the future. She said no, and I asked her why. She didn't want to admit it, but she has feelings for someone else that lives far away. And the timing was never right for the two of them. She expects to get engaged in the future with this person. Doesn't even sound like he respects her, because he keeps dating other girls and not her.i was disappointed to hear this but I told her I wanted her to be happy. So I don't know where her head is at. Again maybe she's telling me stuff that's not true. I don't know anymore, I felt the need to finish this tonight to know where we stand. Because I didn't get to say everything I wanted to say before. Now I have and it results in her blocking me on all social media. I told her I was sorry for pushing her, and didn't want to upset her. She said she was far from upset. She said before she was looking for a fling. But I know her, she goes to church and just doesn't fit that profile. She claims she never said that to me and I was wrong and out of line. I can't believe that!!!!

Alright, so I'm going to give you some quick tough love that is only meant to help you. Understand that you unfortunately smothered her and then tried smothering her some more to correct the smothering.

It's possible that this girl was indeed interested in you, but not as much as you were into her. You need to give women time for their attraction to grow. Just because she's interested in you, doesn't mean she feels the same way you do (at least not yet). Women take a while to size a guy up and before they are in love, they will be in a state of "Maybe". Pressuring a woman to be with you at that time, will only backfire if she's not sure about you yet.

Women however don't want to hurt your feelings, so they aren't going to flat out say, "I'm not THAT into you" unless you push them. Even when you do push them they may make up excuses such as, "I can't date right now" or "I don't know where I'm going to be right now" or "I just want to be friends" etc etc. This is why she said she was only looking for a fling (which could have been true in the begining, or just an exaggeration on her part). She said this because again you were smothering her and she knew the truth would only make your more emotional. She decided to cut her losses and block you instead.

Women don't necessarily want a guy they can walk all over either. You were probably SO into this woman that her feelings didn't have time to develop. So she simply was not at that point to be interested in you the way you were into her. You were a bit too easy and puddy in her hands. That's not to say that you needed to be a jerk. You just didn't really show her that you were an emotionally strong individual. You probably came off a bit too needy, creepy, and stalkerish (hence again why she blocked you).

So her attraction for you dropped significantly and she started looking for the next strongest candidate, which apparently is a guy who is long distance. I'm going to guess that she is not going to actually wind up with this guy in the long run. He was just the best example she had in mind of someone who is able to resist her. It's her way of saying, "This guy who is not even near me is more attractive to me right now because he comes across as more internally sturdy."

(Devil's Advocate: It's possible she was being honest and only wanted a fling. Her going to church and not fitting "the profile" doesn't really mean anything. There are plenty of people who look innocent, go to church, and sleep around all of the time. It happens.)

I know it sucks, but the self respecting thing to do will be to let this woman go. Literally the best thing you can do right now is to pick yourself back up and get yourself into the swing of things. Focus on bettering yourself. Get your confidence back up and then you'll be able to find a woman who will reciprocate your feelings. This kind of thing happens to a lot of guys, so don't feel bad.

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Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Cancer2448

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Cancer2448
I just don't understand why I get so attached to someone that doesn't respect me or love me. I really loved this girl, thought she was absolutely perfect for me....but for some reason, the spark wasn't there. I called her tonight and things ended up so badly that now she's blocked on all social media. I don't think I'll recover from this.

Feel free to divulge details. This happens to a practically everyone. Understand that if this was the perfect person for you, you two would still be together. Don't get stuck on this one person.

It's hard for me to give details right now, because I'm in shock of what's happen. I'm just very depressed of what the result has become. I was stupid and foolish to think she had any feelings for me. I felt I was being played, so I called her out on it. Which was the wrong thing to do obviously now looking back. I told her I missed her, and asked if there was any chance she would change her mind in the future. She said no, and I asked her why. She didn't want to admit it, but she has feelings for someone else that lives far away. And the timing was never right for the two of them. She expects to get engaged in the future with this person. Doesn't even sound like he respects her, because he keeps dating other girls and not her.i was disappointed to hear this but I told her I wanted her to be happy. So I don't know where her head is at. Again maybe she's telling me stuff that's not true. I don't know anymore, I felt the need to finish this tonight to know where we stand. Because I didn't get to say everything I wanted to say before. Now I have and it results in her blocking me on all social media. I told her I was sorry for pushing her, and didn't want to upset her. She said she was far from upset. She said before she was looking for a fling. But I know her, she goes to church and just doesn't fit that profile. She claims she never said that to me and I was wrong and out of line. I can't believe that!!!!

Alright, so I'm going to give you some quick tough love that is only meant to help you. Understand that you unfortunately smothered her and then tried smothering her some more to correct the smothering.

It's possible that this girl was indeed interested in you, but not as much as you were into her. You need to give women time for their attraction to grow. Just because she's interested in you, doesn't mean she feels the same way you do (at least not yet). Women take a while to size a guy up and before they are in love, they will be in a state of "Maybe". Pressuring a woman to be with you at that time, will only backfire if she's not sure about you yet.

Women however don't want to hurt your feelings, so they aren't going to flat out say, "I'm not THAT into you" unless you push them. Even when you do push them they may make up excuses such as, "I can't date right now" or "I don't know where I'm going to be right now" or "I just want to be friends" etc etc. This is why she said she was only looking for a fling (which could have been true in the begining, or just an exaggeration on her part). She said this because again you were smothering her and she knew the truth would only make your more emotional. She decided to cut her losses and block you instead.

Women don't necessarily want a guy they can walk all over either. You were probably SO into this woman that her feelings didn't have time to develop. So she simply was not at that point to be interested in you the way you were into her. You were a bit too easy and puddy in her hands. That's not to say that you needed to be a jerk. You just didn't really show her that you were an emotionally strong individual. You probably came off a bit too needy, creepy, and stalkerish (hence again why she blocked you).

So her attraction for you dropped significantly and she started looking for the next strongest candidate, which apparently is a guy who is long distance. I'm going to guess that she is not going to actually wind up with this guy in the long run. He was just the best example she had in mind of someone who is able to resist her. It's her way of saying, "This guy who is not even near me is more attractive to me right now because he comes across as more internally sturdy."

(Devil's Advocate: It's possible she was being honest and only wanted a fling. Her going to church and not fitting "the profile" doesn't really mean anything. There are plenty of people who look innocent, go to church, and sleep around all of the time. It happens.)

I know it sucks, but the self respecting thing to do will be to let this woman go. Literally the best thing you can do right now is to pick yourself back up and get yourself into the swing of things. Focus on bettering yourself. Get your confidence back up and then you'll be able to find a woman who will reciprocate your feelings. This kind of thing happens to a lot of guys, so don't feel bad.

So I'm going to ask a silly question here..what should do with her Facebook? I'm now angry for what she's done. And I want to block her!! I want to be the person to finish it

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Posted by Cancer2448

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Cancer2448

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Cancer2448
I just don't understand why I get so attached to someone that doesn't respect me or love me. I really loved this girl, thought she was absolutely perfect for me....but for some reason, the spark wasn't there. I called her tonight and things ended up so badly that now she's blocked on all social media. I don't think I'll recover from this.

Feel free to divulge details. This happens to a practically everyone. Understand that if this was the perfect person for you, you two would still be together. Don't get stuck on this one person.

It's hard for me to give details right now, because I'm in shock of what's happen. I'm just very depressed of what the result has become. I was stupid and foolish to think she had any feelings for me. I felt I was being played, so I called her out on it. Which was the wrong thing to do obviously now looking back. I told her I missed her, and asked if there was any chance she would change her mind in the future. She said no, and I asked her why. She didn't want to admit it, but she has feelings for someone else that lives far away. And the timing was never right for the two of them. She expects to get engaged in the future with this person. Doesn't even sound like he respects her, because he keeps dating other girls and not her.i was disappointed to hear this but I told her I wanted her to be happy. So I don't know where her head is at. Again maybe she's telling me stuff that's not true. I don't know anymore, I felt the need to finish this tonight to know where we stand. Because I didn't get to say everything I wanted to say before. Now I have and it results in her blocking me on all social media. I told her I was sorry for pushing her, and didn't want to upset her. She said she was far from upset. She said before she was looking for a fling. But I know her, she goes to church and just doesn't fit that profile. She claims she never said that to me and I was wrong and out of line. I can't believe that!!!!

Alright, so I'm going to give you some quick tough love that is only meant to help you. Understand that you unfortunately smothered her and then tried smothering her some more to correct the smothering.

It's possible that this girl was indeed interested in you, but not as much as you were into her. You need to give women time for their attraction to grow. Just because she's interested in you, doesn't mean she feels the same way you do (at least not yet). Women take a while to size a guy up and before they are in love, they will be in a state of "Maybe". Pressuring a woman to be with you at that time, will only backfire if she's not sure about you yet.

Women however don't want to hurt your feelings, so they aren't going to flat out say, "I'm not THAT into you" unless you push them. Even when you do push them they may make up excuses such as, "I can't date right now" or "I don't know where I'm going to be right now" or "I just want to be friends" etc etc. This is why she said she was only looking for a fling (which could have been true in the begining, or just an exaggeration on her part). She said this because again you were smothering her and she knew the truth would only make your more emotional. She decided to cut her losses and block you instead.

Women don't necessarily want a guy they can walk all over either. You were probably SO into this woman that her feelings didn't have time to develop. So she simply was not at that point to be interested in you the way you were into her. You were a bit too easy and puddy in her hands. That's not to say that you needed to be a jerk. You just didn't really show her that you were an emotionally strong individual. You probably came off a bit too needy, creepy, and stalkerish (hence again why she blocked you).

So her attraction for you dropped significantly and she started looking for the next strongest candidate, which apparently is a guy who is long distance. I'm going to guess that she is not going to actually wind up with this guy in the long run. He was just the best example she had in mind of someone who is able to resist her. It's her way of saying, "This guy who is not even near me is more attractive to me right now because he comes across as more internally sturdy."

(Devil's Advocate: It's possible she was being honest and only wanted a fling. Her going to church and not fitting "the profile" doesn't really mean anything. There are plenty of people who look innocent, go to church, and sleep around all of the time. It happens.)

I know it sucks, but the self respecting thing to do will be to let this woman go. Literally the best thing you can do right now is to pick yourself back up and get yourself into the swing of things. Focus on bettering yourself. Get your confidence back up and then you'll be able to find a woman who will reciprocate your feelings. This kind of thing happens to a lot of guys, so don't feel bad.

So I'm going to ask a silly question here..what should do with her Facebook? I'm now angry for what she's done. And I want to block her!! I want to be the person to finish it

I thought you said that she blocked you already on all social media. Blocking her back won't really do anything aside from looking spiteful. If you need to block her to help get over her, then that's your call. Since she blocked you, it really doesn't matter if you block her back.

Under normal circumstances, I generally don't block people, but I will unfollow them. That way I won't get constant reminders about what they're doing in my feed and I can focus on other things. I find that blocking people gives the other person more power than it should. It shows that the person had influence over you to the point that you needed to forcefully remove them.

My recommendation is to do nothing and to move on with your life. Don't block her (because really you don't need to do so since you're already blocked). Your silence will speak volumes. Maybe she never unblocks you, maybe she does. Maybe you never hear from her again, maybe she tries reaching back out to you. Whatever happens, don't let it affect you. Don't let it throw you off of your emotional center. You will be truly over her once you are indifferent to her.

Take it a step further and even thank her in the back of your mind for at least removing herself from your life. There are people in relationships who are being dragged along with no hope for the future. They are completely oblivious that their significant other's interest does not match their own. You now have the freedom to find someone far more compatible. Just give it time and pace yourself with the next one.

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Posted by Cancer2448
I just don't understand why I get so attached to someone that doesn't respect me or love me. I really loved this girl, thought she was absolutely perfect for me....but for some reason, the spark wasn't there. I called her tonight and things ended up so badly that now she's blocked on all social media. I don't think I'll recover from this.

Feel free to divulge details. This happens to a practically everyone. Understand that if this was the perfect person for you, you two would still be together. Don't get stuck on this one person.

It's hard for me to give details right now, because I'm in shock of what's happen. I'm just very depressed of what the result has become. I was stupid and foolish to think she had any feelings for me. I felt I was being played, so I called her out on it. Which was the wrong thing to do obviously now looking back. I told her I missed her, and asked if there was any chance she would change her mind in the future. She said no, and I asked her why. She didn't want to admit it, but she has feelings for someone else that lives far away. And the timing was never right for the two of them. She expects to get engaged in the future with this person. Doesn't even sound like he respects her, because he keeps dating other girls and not her.i was disappointed to hear this but I told her I wanted her to be happy. So I don't know where her head is at. Again maybe she's telling me stuff that's not true. I don't know anymore, I felt the need to finish this tonight to know where we stand. Because I didn't get to say everything I wanted to say before. Now I have and it results in her blocking me on all social media. I told her I was sorry for pushing her, and didn't want to upset her. She said she was far from upset. She said before she was looking for a fling. But I know her, she goes to church and just doesn't fit that profile. She claims she never said that to me and I was wrong and out of line. I can't believe that!!!!

Alright, so I'm going to give you some quick tough love that is only meant to help you. Understand that you unfortunately smothered her and then tried smothering her some more to correct the smothering.

It's possible that this girl was indeed interested in you, but not as much as you were into her. You need to give women time for their attraction to grow. Just because she's interested in you, doesn't mean she feels the same way you do (at least not yet). Women take a while to size a guy up and before they are in love, they will be in a state of "Maybe". Pressuring a woman to be with you at that time, will only backfire if she's not sure about you yet.

Women however don't want to hurt your feelings, so they aren't going to flat out say, "I'm not THAT into you" unless you push them. Even when you do push them they may make up excuses such as, "I can't date right now" or "I don't know where I'm going to be right now" or "I just want to be friends" etc etc. This is why she said she was only looking for a fling (which could have been true in the begining, or just an exaggeration on her part). She said this because again you were smothering her and she knew the truth would only make your more emotional. She decided to cut her losses and block you instead.

Women don't necessarily want a guy they can walk all over either. You were probably SO into this woman that her feelings didn't have time to develop. So she simply was not at that point to be interested in you the way you were into her. You were a bit too easy and puddy in her hands. That's not to say that you needed to be a jerk. You just didn't really show her that you were an emotionally strong individual. You probably came off a bit too needy, creepy, and stalkerish (hence again why she blocked you).

So her attraction for you dropped significantly and she started looking for the next strongest candidate, which apparently is a guy who is long distance. I'm going to guess that she is not going to actually wind up with this guy in the long run. He was just the best example she had in mind of someone who is able to resist her. It's her way of saying, "This guy who is not even near me is more attractive to me right now because he comes across as more internally sturdy."

(Devil's Advocate: It's possible she was being honest and only wanted a fling. Her going to church and not fitting "the profile" doesn't really mean anything. There are plenty of people who look innocent, go to church, and sleep around all of the time. It happens.)

I know it sucks, but the self respecting thing to do will be to let this woman go. Literally the best thing you can do right now is to pick yourself back up and get yourself into the swing of things. Focus on bettering yourself. Get your confidence back up and then you'll be able to find a woman who will reciprocate your feelings. This kind of thing happens to a lot of guys, so don't feel bad.

So I'm going to ask a silly question here..what should do with her Facebook? I'm now angry for what she's done. And I want to block her!! I want to be the person to finish it

I thought you said that she blocked you already on all social media. Blocking her back won't really do anything aside from looking spiteful. If you need to block her to help get over her, then that's your call. Since she blocked you, it really doesn't matter if you block her back.

Under normal circumstances, I generally don't block people, but I will unfollow them. That way I won't get constant reminders about what they're doing in my feed and I can focus on other things. I find that blocking people gives the other person more power than it should. It shows that the person had influence over you to the point that you needed to forcefully remove them.

My recommendation is to do nothing and to move on with your life. Don't block her (because really you don't need to do so since you're already blocked). Your silence will speak volumes. Maybe she never unblocks you, maybe she does. Maybe you never hear from her again, maybe she tries reaching back out to you. Whatever happens, don't let it affect you. Don't let it throw you off of your emotional center. You will be truly over her once you are indifferent to her.

Take it a step further and even thank her in the back of your mind for at least removing herself from your life. There are people in relationships who are being dragged along with no hope for the future. They are completely oblivious that their significant other's interest does not match their own. You now have the freedom to find someone far more compatible. Just give it time and pace yourself with the next one.

She did block me on everything. Except FB because I deactivated my account. In fear of getting emotional and saying something stupid. So sounds like when I do reactivate it, I'll just unfriend her.

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Posted by peo
Be upset, be angry. Slowly realize that down the long run you wouldn't have been happy. As soon as you realize that you dodged a bullet it will get a lot more easy. But it takes time and wounds often last. So the more you can avoid getting eve more wounded the better.

One of the worst things is having to watch someone you still love carry on with their lives as if nothing happened. So if you want then go ahead and delete her from all social media. Don't worry what she may think or not think about why you're doing that (especially since she already started it). Her thoughts don't need to concern you, they're her problem. You do what's best for you.

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Posted by peo
Be upset, be angry. Slowly realize that down the long run you wouldn't have been happy. As soon as you realize that you dodged a bullet it will get a lot more easy. But it takes time and wounds often last. So the more you can avoid getting eve more wounded the better.

One of the worst things is having to watch someone you still love carry on with their lives as if nothing happened. So if you want then go ahead and delete her from all social media. Don't worry what she may think or not think about why you're doing that (especially since she already started it). Her thoughts don't need to concern you, they're her problem. You do what's best for you.

I really appreciate your kind and helpful reply! It's been a few days. I'm currently in the angry stage as you say. I'm mad that I was nothing but respectful to her and still she was disrespectful and still lied to me when we talked to on the phone the other night. And she pretends to act like a goody Christian girl to others. I really want to get this Scorpio deal thing fixed though. Every time I date one, things start out wonderful and then later on they start testing me and it's like they want me to call them out on their bs. Do you have any suggestions or any experience dealing with them?

I really don't want to give up on scorpios because they are so intense and I love it. This one I am giving up on though! She's not even that pretty. I feel I'm better looking than her, but she had me under her spell.

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Posted by peo
Be upset, be angry. Slowly realize that down the long run you wouldn't have been happy. As soon as you realize that you dodged a bullet it will get a lot more easy. But it takes time and wounds often last. So the more you can avoid getting eve more wounded the better.

One of the worst things is having to watch someone you still love carry on with their lives as if nothing happened. So if you want then go ahead and delete her from all social media. Don't worry what she may think or not think about why you're doing that (especially since she already started it). Her thoughts don't need to concern you, they're her problem. You do what's best for you.

I really appreciate your kind and helpful reply! It's been a few days. I'm currently in the angry stage as you say. I'm mad that I was nothing but respectful to her and still she was disrespectful and still lied to me when we talked to on the phone the other night. And she pretends to act like a goody Christian girl to others. I really want to get this Scorpio deal thing fixed though. Every time I date one, things start out wonderful and then later on they start testing me and it's like they want me to call them out on their bs. Do you have any suggestions or any experience dealing with them?

I really don't want to give up on scorpios because they are so intense and I love it. This one I am giving up on though! She's not even that pretty. I feel I'm better looking than her, but she had me under her spell.

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Posted by peo
Be upset, be angry. Slowly realize that down the long run you wouldn't have been happy. As soon as you realize that you dodged a bullet it will get a lot more easy. But it takes time and wounds often last. So the more you can avoid getting eve more wounded the better.

One of the worst things is having to watch someone you still love carry on with their lives as if nothing happened. So if you want then go ahead and delete her from all social media. Don't worry what she may think or not think about why you're doing that (especially since she already started it). Her thoughts don't need to concern you, they're her problem. You do what's best for you.

I really appreciate your kind and helpful reply! It's been a few days. I'm currently in the angry stage as you say. I'm mad that I was nothing but respectful to her and still she was disrespectful and still lied to me when we talked to on the phone the other night. And she pretends to act like a goody Christian girl to others. I really want to get this Scorpio deal thing fixed though. Every time I date one, things start out wonderful and then later on they start testing me and it's like they want me to call them out on their bs. Do you have any suggestions or any experience dealing with them?

I really don't want to give up on scorpios because they are so intense and I love it. This one I am giving up on though! She's not even that pretty. I feel I'm better looking than her, but she had me under her spell.

I can empathize. It's been three months for me and I'm still struggling.

I've only dated one Scorpio very briefly and wasn't really into her. So I don't have a lot of insight into how scorpios are in relationships.

I didn't like how self-centered and unreliable she was. Very similar to my grandma, who is also a Scorpio.

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Posted by Cancer2448

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Be upset, be angry. Slowly realize that down the long run you wouldn't have been happy. As soon as you realize that you dodged a bullet it will get a lot more easy. But it takes time and wounds often last. So the more you can avoid getting eve more wounded the better.

One of the worst things is having to watch someone you still love carry on with their lives as if nothing happened. So if you want then go ahead and delete her from all social media. Don't worry what she may think or not think about why you're doing that (especially since she already started it). Her thoughts don't need to concern you, they're her problem. You do what's best for you.

I really appreciate your kind and helpful reply! It's been a few days. I'm currently in the angry stage as you say. I'm mad that I was nothing but respectful to her and still she was disrespectful and still lied to me when we talked to on the phone the other night. And she pretends to act like a goody Christian girl to others. I really want to get this Scorpio deal thing fixed though. Every time I date one, things start out wonderful and then later on they start testing me and it's like they want me to call them out on their bs. Do you have any suggestions or any experience dealing with them?

I really don't want to give up on scorpios because they are so intense and I love it. This one I am giving up on though! She's not even that pretty. I feel I'm better looking than her, but she had me under her spell.

As a Scorpio moon myself I find to have more stable connections with cancers. I think as Scorpio moon we are extremely emotional and Scorpio are emotional but not as intense as the moon in Scorpio person. I'm wary of dating scorps in general but I know I can always trust cancers

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Posted by pisceanloves
Yeah cancers are always depressed, not surprised, reason or not they can't catch happy mood

Posted by bkbella86
And you're not depressed, you're sad. That's understandable. But it will pass. Nothing last forever, take solace in that.

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Posted by pisceanloves
Yeah cancers are always depressed, not surprised, reason or not they can't catch happy mood

I feel like that is such a myth. I know a few cancers who are happy go lucky and really funny.

Moody yes but I don't see them dwell at all.

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Posted by DivineWine9
I think you deserve better it sounds immature from her side and toughen up you will find the person when the time comes.

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Posted by pisceanloves
Yeah cancers are always depressed, not surprised, reason or not they can't catch happy mood

I feel like that is such a myth. I know a few cancers who are happy go lucky and really funny.

Moody yes but I don't see them dwell at all.

Well I'm not making up. Saying whatever it is, most of them cry here a lot

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by DivineWine9
I think you deserve better it sounds immature from her side and toughen up you will find the person when the time comes.

How is it immature if she likes someone else?

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by DivineWine9
I think you deserve better it sounds immature from her side and toughen up you will find the person when the time comes.

How is it immature if she likes someone else?

She's not seeing anyone else specifically right now. She's hopping from guy to guy. It's clear to me now, she's either waiting for someone that's miles away where she used to live, said that on the phone. Or she doesn't know what she wants and is just looking for a fling. She admitted to me that there's some things she doesn't even want her parents to know about her. I felt she was telling the truth when she said that.

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Posted by DivineWine9
I think you deserve better it sounds immature from her side and toughen up you will find the person when the time comes.

How is it immature if she likes someone else?

She's not seeing anyone else specifically right now. She's hopping from guy to guy. It's clear to me now, she's either waiting for someone that's miles away where she used to live, said that on the phone. Or she doesn't know what she wants and is just looking for a fling. She admitted to me that there's some things she doesn't even want her parents to know about her. I felt she was telling the truth when she said that.

Hope you'll get over her.

Soon. Good luck'

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Posted by DivineWine9
I think you deserve better it sounds immature from her side and toughen up you will find the person when the time comes.

How is it immature if she likes someone else?

She's not seeing anyone else specifically right now. She's hopping from guy to guy. It's clear to me now, she's either waiting for someone that's miles away where she used to live, said that on the phone. Or she doesn't know what she wants and is just looking for a fling. She admitted to me that there's some things she doesn't even want her parents to know about her. I felt she was telling the truth when she said that.

Hope you'll get over her.

Soon. Good luck'

Thanks Gemitati

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Posted by Infinite8

Posted by boxcarmirnta
Dude... Ive been in love 14 times..... Ive gotten over every one. You will also get over this. Don't put all your eggs into one basket.. There are MANY girls that can be good for you. Don't be a doormat play it cool youll find someone who truly values you. Xx

???? in love 14 times?!?!


Easy come, easy go...eh?

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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Look just like your water sun and water moon feels intensely is very hard for a taurus moon to move on

I have a huge crush on a leo sun taurus moon but i think he's still stuck on an ex.

Taurus Moons don't move on easily

Also just cause you love someone don't mean they'll love you

I'm sure you've treated another woman like shit

One who loved you

I know how scorpio moons are

Yall ain't innocent

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Posted by YasmineMin
I'll give you my Aqua moon so you dont feel attached to anyone and be free like a bird. You'll never hurt again.

You will find someone better (:

She doesn't deserve you.

I'm a crab myself and I firmly believe that no placement in the world can make us a cold fish. I have a Gemini Moon, Venus and Mars. I still get really attached to people and things... Hard to let it go. Cancer energy is STRONG and intense. One Cancer placement can really make you "feel".

I also agree with you. My husband is a Cancer with Aqua moon... and he is definitely not detached nor does he have an easy time letting go.

Sorry @YasmineMin but I don't agree with you. This just might be that Pisces/Aqua combo that make some fish really disconnected and easily become cold.

Cancers love hard, just like Scorpios

Hahaha that's okay. I think it's because I enjoy my alone time, so I dont feel the need to be clingy. I can be pretty contempt just being alone. But that's just me! I dont mean it in a cold way, I just tend ti not open easily to people.

Ah but I would like to say I know a couple of cancers who dont cling and suffocate their significant others. So I wouldn't say all Cancers get super attached. I know some who are pretty independent.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta
Dude... Ive been in love 14 times..... Ive gotten over every one. You will also get over this. Don't put all your eggs into one basket.. There are MANY girls that can be good for you. Don't be a doormat play it cool youll find someone who truly values you. Xx

???? in love 14 times?!?!


Easy come, easy go...eh?

Nope.. Everyone was painful as hell.. Ive been alive a long time... And ive dated a lot of assholes.

Lol... do you still like assholes or do you like nice guys now?

At least you know you could withstand an asshole ???

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