Warning: sex heavy post!

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taurusgirl9000
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So this is about a Cancer man with a Mars in Virgo...

I'm a Taurus sun with a Mars in Scorpio. Needless to say, sex is important to me. This Cancer and I had sex once. It didn't happen again because I felt that I rushed into it and I got scared. TMI: He was smaller than I was expecting, I actually couldn't feel him inside of me, but I know I can change how I think of sex. Sex can be more than just penetration. It was only one time, and it was first-time sex, so it was a little clunky and awkward. I think he was very nervous as well as excited because he finished very fast and apologized. It all happened really fast and was not how I envisioned our first time together to be...

We have an emotional connection that I don't have with my current Aqua bf... The sex with the Aqua is great physically, but emotionally there is not much of a connection. And it sometimes leaves me unsatisfied.

The Cancer and I both have Aqua moons. I can't explain it, but even though we are just friends now, I feel the need to be touching him and close to him. I never actually do it, but there is this strong feeling. And when we say goodbye, it feels like he wants to kiss me, but he doesn't. I feel like I am coming out of my confusion about him and starting to see him as a potential mate again.

I am scared to lose him as a friend if I attempt to go too fast. Has anyone had a similar situation with a Cancer?
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Oh that's ok, we all love sex. But if you receive any hate it's because those people aren't getting none.

You both got Aqua moons so you can relate to the way he handles his emotions. That's always a plus. Plus it offsets his cancerous emotion-craze.

Not sure how I can help you with his little problem though. He can't exactly work it out, make it do squats or run up & down the stairs to put some muscle on. If it's that bad of a problem for him, there's always penile implants and other options.......hmm I've never had to look this up before.

https://www.smallpenisenlargement.net/
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Posted by Rozaeon
Wait, are you still in a relationship with the Aquarius while you are having an emotional ( an now physical ) connection with the Cancer ?

If so, does any of these two men knows about it ?
The Cancer and I had sex one time when I was still single. Of course I would never cheat in a relationship... My Aqua knows that the Cancer is my friend. That's all though.
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by taurusgirl9000
It was only one time, and it was first-time sex, so it was a little clunky and awkward. I think he was very nervous as well as excited because he finished very fast and apologized. It all happened really fast and was not how I envisioned our first time together to be...
Did he at least eat you out first??
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It was the first thing that he did after my pants came off 😉 He seemed eager to please. And he is probably the best kisser I've ever had as well...
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
My advice ...

Keep the Aqua

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I guess as a Taurus that needs that physical lustiness, it's hard for me to give the Aqua up... Physically, he is very attractive, he has a high sex drive like I do, and he is always calling me beautiful/sexy. The sex is perfect. He makes me feel very wanted physically. But emotionally there is something missing between us and I feel like I can't connect.

I met him right after I ended a long relationship where I felt like I was being taken for granted. There was no sex for a long time. I think it explains why I have stayed with the Aqua perhaps longer than I should have. He is a great person, but I can't see myself marrying him one day... I can't get over my Taurean need to plan and secure a future...
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by taurusgirl9000
It was only one time, and it was first-time sex, so it was a little clunky and awkward. I think he was very nervous as well as excited because he finished very fast and apologized. It all happened really fast and was not how I envisioned our first time together to be...
Did he at least eat you out first??
It was the first thing that he did after my pants came off 😉 He seemed eager to please. And he is probably the best kisser I've ever had as well...
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I bet thats because of the virgo mars... I know that placement reeeal well....