Well, this cancer man contacted me after 2 weeks
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by vesper on Wednesday, March 22, 2017 and has 7 replies.
I ask the reason why we haven't had contact, he said that his just having a hectic time at work, helping out his flat mate friend moved, finishing late in the evening etc and so on... Fair enough, at least i got the answers I'm not so sure about. But OK-
He asked me to see him after he finished from work during that evening, we basically just decided to stay in his place because its Sunday, this Cancer man cooked the dinner, we chat etc get to met his close Friend (also a new flat mate) which I met his friend before to where he works. I stayed 2 days again with this cancer man, had dinner with his friend, get to have a deep conversation with just the three of us etc. I guess, we're only good at communication when we are faced to each other, we sometimes don't have much to talked just silence but still have a good company with this cancer man WHAT A BLESS!
Is this how cancer men treat the woman they care about?
Right now its too early to get things serious or see an early signs. So gimme you thoughts
Girl, I want to know the same! I was seeing this cancer male for about three weeks. He would text at least once a day even when we were apart, and although I felt things kinda drifting between us, I felt he just needed some space, and wasn't really the type to express himself thoroughly over text. After our last hangout together, he has completely dropped off the face of this earth and hasn't sent a single text at all. Many of my friends have said he's just not worth it, and that I should just move on, but my intuition is telling me that he's hiding something, and there's a reason why he suddenly ghosted me. I've read about cancers so much at this point that I've accepted their flaws, and learned to take things slow, and even make the initiative to reach out first. I don't want to seem pushy, but I really want to see him again, even if it's just to sort things out between us. It's been nearly two weeks since i've last heard from him, and I'm kinda getting desperate, and needy. I know it's not healthy for either of us to be needy in this way, but I sense something different, and this time around, its much harder for me to let go.
Since you are a Scorpio woman, its natural for you to enjoy the company of a Cancer man and vice versa. Yes, more than going out, a cancer man would prefer staying in and talking, watching favorite tv shows or movies, drinking, cooking, etc. If he is doing those activities with you it means he already likes you. Next time try meeting him outside or when you are with him ask him to take you out somewhere for dinner or ice cream.
Posted by tianpingJust be patient, i know we women kind of want know what is going on there mind, what they're doing etc. I was like that too getting worried or just basically misses him but no need to get so drag about it- Don't contact him, let him do it by himself . I'm sure he'll keep in touch very soon. if not at least it's not worth the pain (well, that's what I did).
Girl, I want to know the same! I was seeing this cancer male for about three weeks. He would text at least once a day even when we were apart, and although I felt things kinda drifting between us, I felt he just needed some space, and wasn't really the type to express himself thoroughly over text. After our last hangout together, he has completely dropped off the face of this earth and hasn't sent a single text at all. Many of my friends have said he's just not worth it, and that I should just move on, but my intuition is telling me that he's hiding something, and there's a reason why he suddenly ghosted me. I've read about cancers so much at this point that I've accepted their flaws, and learned to take things slow, and even make the c to reach out first. I don't want to seem pushy, but I really want to see him again, even if it's just to sort things out between us. It's been nearly two weeks since i've last heard from him, and I'm kinda getting desperate, and needy. I know it's not healthy for either of us to be needy in this way, but I sense something different, and this time around, its much harder for me to let go.
If you sense that his hiding something then probably start a conversation first about random things just to make him comfortable and then when it's the right time ask/question him about the issues you're having
between the two of you
HOPEFULLY YOU WON'T SCARE HIM. Remember you're not in the relationship with him yet so take it slowly.
Posted by Legend
Since you are a Scorpio woman, its natural for you to enjoy the company of a Cancer man and vice versa. Yes, more than going out, a cancer man would prefer staying in and talking, watching favorite tv shows or movies, drinking, cooking, etc. If he is doing those activities with you it means he already likes you. Next time try meeting him outside or when you are with him ask him to take you out somewhere for dinner or ice cream.
That's very understanding of you, thank you
Will they like it 'If it's my turn to ask him out' obviously not in a desperate way. But at least to make him feel appreciated to what he had done because I feel like treating people so nicely because they've been so generous & kind to me so I do like to returned the favour without him realizing it- I LIKE IT THAT WAY.
Right now, the cancer man and I need a little bit of reassurance between us since I'm doubting the situation when he disappeared for two weeks- Which i shouldn't to just forget about it. But it keeps reminding me even if i don't really wanna do/think about it, it's already at the back of my head that i need to ask why, WHY?
should I or not?
Posted by vesperDon't overthink it. Stop being YOU. Bad habits of Scorpio women include hot temper, jealousy, not trusting easily, not letting things go. Learn to let go of minor things and look at the bigger picture. Try not to be over possessive or you will drive the crab away. Little bit of possessiveness is okayPosted by Legend
Since you are a Scorpio woman, its natural for you to enjoy the company of a Cancer man and vice versa. Yes, more than going out, a cancer man would prefer staying in and talking, watching favorite tv shows or movies, drinking, cooking, etc. If he is doing those activities with you it means he already likes you. Next time try meeting him outside or when you are with him ask him to take you out somewhere for dinner or ice cream.
That's very understanding of you, thank you
Will they like it 'If it's my turn to ask him out' obviously not in a desperate way. But at least to make him feel appreciated to what he had done because I feel like treating people so nicely because they've been so generous & kind to me so I do like to returned the favour without him realizing it- I LIKE IT THAT WAY.
Right now, the cancer man and I need a little bit of reassurance between us since I'm doubting the situation when he disappeared for two weeks- Which i shouldn't to just forget about it. But it keeps reminding me even if i don't really wanna do/think about it, it's already at the back of my head that i need to ask why, WHY?
should I or not?click to expand
Look at it this way.. Even though he disappeared for 2 weeks, he came around! He spent lot of time with you after that. Maybe he just needed some time to get his stuff together! Forget what happened and focus on how happy he makes you.Posted by LegendYep, this time I felt uncertain and constantly doubting our situation. not because of the disappearing act.Posted by vesperDon't overthink it. Stop being YOU. Bad habits of Scorpio women include hot temper, jealousy, not trusting easily, not letting things go. Learn to let go of minor things and look at the bigger picture. Try not to be over possessive or you will drive the crab away. Little bit of possessiveness is okayPosted by Legend
Since you are a Scorpio woman, its natural for you to enjoy the company of a Cancer man and vice versa. Yes, more than going out, a cancer man would prefer staying in and talking, watching favorite tv shows or movies, drinking, cooking, etc. If he is doing those activities with you it means he already likes you. Next time try meeting him outside or when you are with him ask him to take you out somewhere for dinner or ice cream.
That's very understanding of you, thank you
Will they like it 'If it's my turn to ask him out' obviously not in a desperate way. But at least to make him feel appreciated to what he had done because I feel like treating people so nicely because they've been so generous & kind to me so I do like to returned the favour without him realizing it- I LIKE IT THAT WAY.
Right now, the cancer man and I need a little bit of reassurance between us since I'm doubting the situation when he disappeared for two weeks- Which i shouldn't to just forget about it. But it keeps reminding me even if i don't really wanna do/think about it, it's already at the back of my head that i need to ask why, WHY?
should I or not?click to expand
i don't know what it is.
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