What a confusing boy

A male cancer friend of mine is confusing me very much lately. When we are together and none of his loud male friends are around he is very nice and we have a lot of fun together and talk about experiences we have shared in the past.

But when he is with a large group of his loud friends who I don't know very well, he seems embarrased to be with me, and often denies remembering things we have done together. He doesn't have very many female friends so I don't know if this is normal for him. Why does he get so embarrassed? He seems to fluctate moods a lot like cancers are said to do, but are they normally like this?

Hi November

In my own opinion, it seems to me that this guy likes you and is starting to develop feelings for you but dosen't want to reveal that part of himself around his friends. This might be because he is private when it comes to a relationship with a female he is interested in or it also could be that he is just putting up a front in front of his friends because he is too immature to let his feelings for you show in front of them. Guys usually drag on each other, especially when they're around each other and are friends, so he probably dosen't want to catch it from them.

I don't know how comfortable you would be in addressing this to him but if you do feel you can, don't do it in an aggressive way, let him know you want to talk to him about something and let him know you would like to talk about it in a serious way but not aggressive.

I think he will open up to you and tell you what's the deal. I hope, if this is what you're wanting from him, that it is that he is starting to feel deeply for you and I hope it works out for you two if that is the case.

Either way, good luck🙂

OBPisces

Thanks Pisces... I had a feeling that might have been the case but I didn't want to feel vain about it. I might get round to talking to him about it quite soon. Thanks again 🙂